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As a Guy, has a Woman ever Aggressively Tried to have Sex with You?

GameBoy27

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First of all, I'm not trying to diminish sexual abuse at the hands of men. I know it happens, a lot. I'm also not a Patrick Brown supporter. By that, I mean nothing about him excites me.

But the whole Patrick Brown thing, got me thinking.

As a guy, have you ever been in a situation, where for whatever reason, you were alone with a woman and things started to heat up. Maybe you had a few drinks or a couple puffs. But something inside said, I can't do this, for whatever reason, so you try to stop her. But she's persistent, gets aggressive and won't take no for an answer.

Now I know this type of thing doesn't happen often, because guys will usually fuck anything that moves. But that's not to say there aren't woman who can be equally as aggressive as men.

Thinking back over the years and about some of the clumsy encounters I've had with woman, I'd have to say if I was in a position of power like Brown, I'm sure there's one or two who could rightly or wrongly make an accusation about me.

I can also say, with certainty that there's more than a few of encounters I had with women where it went from kissing, to naked, to fuck me right now. When I asked if they have a condom, they said "I don't need one with you" or some such line. One even said "let's do it California style".

I pride myself on being safe. I certainly didn't want to have a kid with a chick I just met, so I insisted on and always tried to carry protection. But I have to say, some of those girls wanted to fuck me BB so badly that they were doing everything they could to jam my cock in their pussy. I remember a couple of them getting angry because I wouldn't fuck them without one.

So while Patrick Brown may be guilty of something, I'm amazed that these woman have come forward at this time. Don't want to reveal names, don't want to press charges, just want to fuck you up. Too bad, so sad!

I could easily accuse (and with certainty) some of the woman I've mentioned above, of far worse things than PB ever did. But I'm not going to, regardless of who they've become. Not going there, no point, bigger than that!

I really have to go to bed now. Life's short. Don't let the little things bother you, like I just did. FML :D
 

oldjones

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Yeah, but as a guy who was used to asking not being asked, once I politely extricated myself I felt complimented. And never felt I might need more than a verbal refusal, or that I might not prevail if it got physical. I think you're not likely to feel anything similar if your experience from childhood was being physically weaker, and you were and frequently and repeatedly hit on and propositioned, often in the unlikeliest of circumstances, by big random guys.

When I was young and good-looking I'd get hit on by guys in bars and at parties, some of them quite insistent. That experience of having an enjoyable conversation turn into a rassling session must be something like what women have managed to quietly deal with forever. Now they're not being quiet, and some of the fallout is overdone, but it's high time. Let's hope the talk leads us all to some better ways of behaving.
 

danmand

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When I was a big shot in the computer business, I was hit on quite a few times. I passed them on to my support guys.
 

sempel

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This has happened many times - then I woke up!

I don't know about others but I don't fit into the category of sex symbol. I don't have women coming up to me, asking for my number, wanting to just get it on. I imagine it's the same with a large segment of the male population. Some ladies like me and are comfortable with me and over time really enjoy my personality. But it's never the case where she is the aggressor, although I personally have no issue with being a target.
 

kherg007

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Remember an incident in oz back in the day...drinking age 18 and a bunch of drunk 16 year old girls at a cabin in january (summer break, get a map)...they were in a cabin down the road....they show up at my mates cabin....we were maybe 20 years old or so then....so being older we had to shoo them out ...one was blathering to me and kept touching me and sticking her hand down my shirt...as i was trying to get her going with her friends back to their cabin trying to convince the least drunk of them to round up her troops.....then she reached under my swimmers and grabbed the boy! I felt paralyzed and let it go for maybe 3 seconds (she was yanking) then i pulled her hand away...I still feel guilty that I should have pushed her hand away more quickly. But luckily I did and got her headed home and just at that moment she released a Technicolour yawn lol. The girls stopped by next day to apologise.

A few gay guys back in the day (as compared to the over the hill wreck of a man I am now lol). I thought the gay guys were pretty healthy, but yet every so often one would ask me if I wanted to smoke. Said I didn't smoke. They seemed confused. Only later was it explained to me that it was a coded invitation for a bj lol. No wonder they were confused (as i was). I was living at the time in an area of NYC that had a high gay population. But they were always polite. But interesting living there...how often do you get to talk to a bloke at the bus stop who is reasonable, polite, interesting, and wearing ass-less chaps? Lol. Whatever makes ya happy I suppose...
 

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Remember an incident in oz back in the day...drinking age 18 and a bunch of drunk 16 year old girls at a cabin in january (summer break, get a map)...they were in a cabin down the road....they show up at my mates cabin....we were maybe 20 years old or so then....so being older we had to shoo them out ...one was blathering to me and kept touching me and sticking her hand down my shirt...as i was trying to get her going with her friends back to their cabin trying to convince the least drunk of them to round up her troops.....then she reached under my swimmers and grabbed the boy! I felt paralyzed and let it go for maybe 3 seconds (she was yanking) then i pulled her hand away...I still feel guilty that I should have pushed her hand away more quickly. But luckily I did and got her headed home and just at that moment she released a Technicolour yawn lol. The girls stopped by next day to apologise.

A few gay guys back in the day (as compared to the over the hill wreck of a man I am now lol). I thought the gay guys were pretty healthy, but yet every so often one would ask me if I wanted to smoke. Said I didn't smoke. They seemed confused. Only later was it explained to me that it was a coded invitation for a bj lol. No wonder they were confused (as i was). I was living at the time in an area of NYC that had a high gay population. But they were always polite. But interesting living there...how often do you get to talk to a bloke at the bus stop who is reasonable, polite, interesting, and wearing ass-less chaps? Lol. Whatever makes ya happy I suppose...
That gives a different meaning to "smoke break" - no wonder some companies frown upon too many.
 

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Years ago we had an assistant in our department who was a little "off". She was chatty, friendly, and after settling in started spamming everybody with her "beanie baby" forecasts (yes, that's how long ago it was). We're in a department that traded billions of dollars a day and she's sending off an "investment" newsletter about beanie babies, including a valuation of her collection (worth "$25K" at one point... LOL!). Anyway, nobody said anything and then weeks later she started hanging around telling everybody how her husband would take photo's of her in lingerie. THEN, she started sending around photo's of herself (eg: in lingerie, lying back with a nipple showing, in a blonde wig with her legs spread). Not to be mean, but she was NOT good looking and the photo's were amateur and hideous. But she viewed herself as some sort of catch and then began talking (to everybody, not just me) about how she and her husband were into swinging. Of course, some people egged her on, while others (including me) would make sure to be on the phone when she walked by. Eventually somebody complained to HR and she was turfed. To this day, thinking of those photo's is guaranteed to make me limp.
 

GameBoy27

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What is "California style"?
It was in the late 90s. I know, I'd never heard the term California style either. When I asked, she said "fuck me without a condom" with one hand on my cock and the other on my ass trying to pull me inside her. I said, there's a convenience less than a block away. I'll be right back. ;)
 

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Only my wife when she wanted another kid. She figured out exactly the date she would be most fertile, and she would not give up that night until I gave in. She let me know several weeks ahead of time this is what she wanted, and basically she wouldn't take no for an answer.

A few years later when she thought she might be preggers again, I said to her quite plainly I was not going to feed another mouth, and if it turned out she was preggers, basically she'd have to pick the new kid or moi, because I would not stick around. She was visibly shaken by this stance, and the next several days were uncomfortable for us, until it became clear she was not preggers. Then I got a vasectomy.

This was by far the most aggressive a woman has been with me.
 

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Woman ever Aggressively Tried to have Sex with You?

Yes, after I paid her.
Lmfao :peace:


Years ago we had an assistant in our department who was a little "off". She was chatty, friendly, and after settling in started spamming everybody with her "beanie baby" forecasts (yes, that's how long ago it was). We're in a department that traded billions of dollars a day and she's sending off an "investment" newsletter about beanie babies, including a valuation of her collection (worth "$25K" at one point... LOL!). Anyway, nobody said anything and then weeks later she started hanging around telling everybody how her husband would take photo's of her in lingerie. THEN, she started sending around photo's of herself (eg: in lingerie, lying back with a nipple showing, in a blonde wig with her legs spread). Not to be mean, but she was NOT good looking and the photo's were amateur and hideous. But she viewed herself as some sort of catch and then began talking (to everybody, not just me) about how she and her husband were into swinging. Of course, some people egged her on, while others (including me) would make sure to be on the phone when she walked by. Eventually somebody complained to HR and she was turfed. To this day, thinking of those photo's is guaranteed to make me limp.
Very whack !
 
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