How to stand out as an SP is to wear flats, lululemons yoga pants, a massive designer bag full of empty enveloppe
"Standing Out" as an SP
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:rockon:How to stand out as an SP is to wear flats, lululemons yoga pants, a massive designer bag full of empty enveloppe
looks can only get you so far at the start. If ur attitude and service sucks, you can expect ur biz to be dead quiet.
No diff from province to province either as customers desires varies wherever you go. Poor service and poor attitude aint related to location.
No diff from province to province either as customers desires varies wherever you go. Poor service and poor attitude aint related to location.
I would imagine that guys' preferences in women vary as much as guys' preferences in food. Some guys feel like a steak.. some want a burger. And some (well, maybe not many) want a salad.I am just going to say it... I think, from my reading of reviews over the past two months or so, guys love young spinners with big breasts and a PS menu. Just saying!
While it's true that a lot of big name porn stars are well-endowed (naturally or otherwise) and are young, you'll notice that there is a huge section of amateurs, or MILFs, or other categories too. I may like big tits, but I can tell you for certain that not all my friends look for that.
I guess what I'm saying is that there isn't ONE thing that EVERYONE likes, although there may be SOME things that MANY people like. And certain things that 'wow' the guys so much that they write about it in their reviews.
My suggestion would be to find what thing(s) works for you, and do that/those thing(s) really, really well (whether it be GFE, PSE, bjs, roleplay, blonde, brunette, spinner, bbw, or whatever). Guys will notice if you to out of your way to make them feel like a king.
Just my two cents.
Ellaaa, all of us are different, besides what has already been mentioned about service, I don't think every client is looking for young spinners with big breasts. Some of us like women with smaller breasts (heck there is an entire thread with hundreds of such photographs), some of us like taller thin women.
Needless to say you can't change that sort of thing. However, I think a lot of us appreciate an SP who turns up looking attractive, sometimes that involves asking is there something special you would like me to wear. Some of us go for the business woman look, some of us go for the Little Black Dress, some of us go for the school girl look. Looking very attractive can do a tremendous amount both for the mood and for how clients feel about you.
It is often termed GFE, but if you make us feel that it isn't just a job for you, that you have kindness and empathy you will go far.
Best wishes Ellaaa!
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How to stand out as an SP is to wear flats, lululemons yoga pants, a massive designer bag full of empty enveloppe
Totally agree with this statement!!! Although sometimes its very intimidating trying to stand out with sooo many other SPs these days.
Backpage is soooo full of ladies that my post gets lost in the ads sometimes.
I think having regulars is very important too. How do we stand out even more!?
What are some things that catch you guys attention, other then naked pictures of course
Ideas please?!
Oh, and one thing I know, while it will help you stand out, but not for the right reasons.I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but my question is in regards to "standing out" as an SP in this industry. Does one have to distinguish herself and if "yes" then how?
I'm not a spinner, but no bbw. I'm not exotic and my boobs are average, I think. Each time I check the review board (my little guilty pleasure), I see a lot of reviews and requests for women who have a certain "look". Is there a typical "look" that's most popular in GTA? Keep in mind, I know all men are different but is there a consensus?
I'm not from Toronto so curious because I think standards and majority preference, particularly in the industry, varies from province to province. Or is it all about service?
Don't go negative or bat-shit crazy. Some ladies get involved in shall we say, 'online drama'. Thankfully, not here. There's some that I will never see because they revealed a bit too much about themselves. And not the good stuff.
One thing that's a real buzz kill is having the fantasy or image ruined by seeing you at your worst when most of us want the best.
Just my 0.02
CB
Keep in mind review boards only make up a portion of your client base.
Be patient it takes time to get regulars.
Typically you will get that by being on time, clean, nice, give good service.
Best service comes from communication. IF he's not a talker then probe.... slowly try different things and see what he responds to.
Understand not all guys want the same thing. Same goes for repeat customers some may want exactly the same as the last time others want a twist.
Some girls here become paid members and actively engage in discussions which helps them get noticed but some guys can be cynical or rude about it.
Be patient it takes time to get regulars.
Typically you will get that by being on time, clean, nice, give good service.
Best service comes from communication. IF he's not a talker then probe.... slowly try different things and see what he responds to.
Understand not all guys want the same thing. Same goes for repeat customers some may want exactly the same as the last time others want a twist.
Some girls here become paid members and actively engage in discussions which helps them get noticed but some guys can be cynical or rude about it.
If you can make me fall in love with you, then you've separate yourself from the rest.I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but my question is in regards to "standing out" as an SP in this industry. Does one have to distinguish herself and if "yes" then how?
I'm not a spinner, but no bbw. I'm not exotic and my boobs are average, I think. Each time I check the review board (my little guilty pleasure), I see a lot of reviews and requests for women who have a certain "look". Is there a typical "look" that's most popular in GTA? Keep in mind, I know all men are different but is there a consensus?
I'm not from Toronto so curious because I think standards and majority preference, particularly in the industry, varies from province to province. Or is it all about service?
How do you do this?
You need to smell like a peach from head to toe.
You eat me up like I'm the only guy on earth.
You make me smile that it makes my face hurt all day.
Service, Facial appearance and body type are subjective, but attitude needs to come naturally.
Honestly, I just popped open your twitter, but between those curves, the contrast between the fair skin and dark hair, the liberal amount of contemporary looking ink that favours your hair, along with your fondness for back skimpy things, stockings, with a splash of colour, you got that covered. You have a distinct look, that maybe isn't for everybody, but that won't alienate you from broad swaths of the market. Rawr! Good job.Totally agree with this statement!!! Although sometimes its very intimidating trying to stand out with sooo many other SPs these days.
Backpage is soooo full of ladies that my post gets lost in the ads sometimes.
I think having regulars is very important too. How do we stand out even more!?
What are some things that catch you guys attention, other then naked pictures of course
Ideas please?!
You also seem like you're mentally balanced in your communications. A plus. You have a good web presence. If I had a bone to pick it's that your web site sticks me at a sign in page (Firefox with U-Block) and I'm not going to be giving up my email, google+, or facebook to 'browse me some hookers'. It would be nice to be able to browse some galleries without giving up that info, or to have to infinitely scroll your twitter feed.
Other than that, I can't see how good service and some enthusiasm wouldn't build you a loyal following. Sorry I don't have more suggestions, but you're already doing most of what can be done very well already. Well, in my opinion, anyway.
Looks will only get you so far, and besides, I like variety. The only girls I've ever repeated with were pretty average, but they gave me an undivided attention, treated me like gold and were really, really good in bed. The saddest part is, those kind of ladies are very difficult to find, especially at my age when I no longer have the stamina to go through 5 ladies per week just to find the right one.
Sexual Confidence!
That is really all you need.
While I know that it seems every guy wants a 21 blonde busty PSE spinner, that is not the reality. Sure most men will give her a go, but that is not what makes a regular.
Just like women, men love an openly sexually confident woman. This attitude comes across in pics, in service, in every aspect of your SP work.
There are some amazing BBW's in this business who's pics turn on guys who only love spinners. Why? Because she has that sexual confidence that shines through in her pics.
Guys are not stupid at all. They look at enough pics, they can tell when it is done by a girl who loves her body, loves sex, loves attention, etc. Lynn Ha is another great example. That lady loves to take pics, and clearly loves the cock and it shows. That is why she is still making it in this business at her mature age.
Don't feel defeated sweetie. Flip your script and start to feel empowered. Start to truly feel and see in yourself what your regular clients see and then run with it. You will see a huge difference.
Good luck.
That is really all you need.
While I know that it seems every guy wants a 21 blonde busty PSE spinner, that is not the reality. Sure most men will give her a go, but that is not what makes a regular.
Just like women, men love an openly sexually confident woman. This attitude comes across in pics, in service, in every aspect of your SP work.
There are some amazing BBW's in this business who's pics turn on guys who only love spinners. Why? Because she has that sexual confidence that shines through in her pics.
Guys are not stupid at all. They look at enough pics, they can tell when it is done by a girl who loves her body, loves sex, loves attention, etc. Lynn Ha is another great example. That lady loves to take pics, and clearly loves the cock and it shows. That is why she is still making it in this business at her mature age.
Don't feel defeated sweetie. Flip your script and start to feel empowered. Start to truly feel and see in yourself what your regular clients see and then run with it. You will see a huge difference.
Good luck.
This. While I'm told that I'm good looking/pretty, I know I'm not a perfect model type and can probably no longer compete with some of the younger hotties. (You should have seen me at 23.
) But over the years, I've noticed my regulars don't seem to be looking for that. They want someone with good service, a good personality, and a connection. Just be you! 
bang onThis. While I'm told that I'm good looking/pretty, I know I'm not a perfect model type and can probably no longer compete with some of the younger hotties. (You should have seen me at 23.
excellent comment on many fronts...
do as described above by MissCroft, and you will have many regulars.
make me forget my day by being with you & smile when I leave dreaming of the next time.
Boom
Here are some specifics that come to mind:
1) Be clean. The best in this business always look and smell great. They give the impression they have been doing nothing all day but getting ready for me. Give yourself time to shower and get ready between clients.
2) Be well dressed and look amazing. Never wear the same thing twice (unless it's a client request). Also, it's a good idea to change your look a little from time to time. For example, one of my regulars recently changed her hair style from brunette with straight medium length hair to longer dark red hair with more curls. Loved both her looks but it was a nice surprise to see her new style.
3) Have a spotless incall. Remove all evidence of previous clients (wet floor in the bathroom, used towels hanging around, full garbage can, etc.). We know you see lots of clients but somehow the fantasy you create is better if there's no evidence to prove it.
4) Make sure your incall has all the "amenities" such as fresh towels, soap, mouthwash, a nice bathroom/shower, a nice boudoir, well placed mirrors, a clock (set to the actual time), etc.
5) Be reliable and punctual. If you take pre-bookings (the best ladies usually do), don't forget. Start sessions on time. If you must cancel, don't do it at the last minute. Don't book sessions back to back. Rushing me out early because the next guy is waiting is a great way to ensure I never book again.
6) Show interest in your clients without being nosy. Also share a bit about yourself so over time your regulars get to know you on some level. I would guess that most people in this business are concerned about personal privacy so there is a balance here. My "go to" regulars are all ladies who I genuinely like as people. Being an interesting, likeable person is key. I suspect for many clients this is much more important than the services provided.
7) Provide great service. I agree with you that a lot of guys on terb seem to focus on options but I don't think options are so important. For the guys who want it, there will always be another lady who will provide a crazy list of options. Forget about that and just be great at what you do. Enthusiasm and a positive approach are huge. As someone else said, the best in this business have great memories (or take notes or something). Over time the sessions improve as they learn about their clients and tailor the sessions to each individual.
8) Offer reasonable rates, all things considered. I don't mean low rates, btw. I think it's possible to under price yourself. If a lady seems good but her rates are really low I will probably suspect it's a scam and stay away. Having said that, if a lady is charging more than most other ladies who are offering a similar experience I will probably never book her just because I'll book the others first.
9) Turn off your phone. Don't text or take care of other business during a session. When a client is with you, give 100% attention to the client. We expect to get the time we pay for, no more, no less.
10) Be discreet. Anything that draws unnecessary attention to your incall or your clients is a bad idea. Choose an incall location that offers as much discretion as possible. I suspect most clients don't want to see anyone or be seen by anyone.
11) Maintain some type of online presence. A website or twitter page is common. These ad to your credibility and allow clients to find out about you without having to contact you.
12) Be consistent. Everything listed above is just as important on the 100th visit as on the first. If the reasons we book with you go away, we will too.
Hope that helps
1) Be clean. The best in this business always look and smell great. They give the impression they have been doing nothing all day but getting ready for me. Give yourself time to shower and get ready between clients.
2) Be well dressed and look amazing. Never wear the same thing twice (unless it's a client request). Also, it's a good idea to change your look a little from time to time. For example, one of my regulars recently changed her hair style from brunette with straight medium length hair to longer dark red hair with more curls. Loved both her looks but it was a nice surprise to see her new style.
3) Have a spotless incall. Remove all evidence of previous clients (wet floor in the bathroom, used towels hanging around, full garbage can, etc.). We know you see lots of clients but somehow the fantasy you create is better if there's no evidence to prove it.
4) Make sure your incall has all the "amenities" such as fresh towels, soap, mouthwash, a nice bathroom/shower, a nice boudoir, well placed mirrors, a clock (set to the actual time), etc.
5) Be reliable and punctual. If you take pre-bookings (the best ladies usually do), don't forget. Start sessions on time. If you must cancel, don't do it at the last minute. Don't book sessions back to back. Rushing me out early because the next guy is waiting is a great way to ensure I never book again.
6) Show interest in your clients without being nosy. Also share a bit about yourself so over time your regulars get to know you on some level. I would guess that most people in this business are concerned about personal privacy so there is a balance here. My "go to" regulars are all ladies who I genuinely like as people. Being an interesting, likeable person is key. I suspect for many clients this is much more important than the services provided.
7) Provide great service. I agree with you that a lot of guys on terb seem to focus on options but I don't think options are so important. For the guys who want it, there will always be another lady who will provide a crazy list of options. Forget about that and just be great at what you do. Enthusiasm and a positive approach are huge. As someone else said, the best in this business have great memories (or take notes or something). Over time the sessions improve as they learn about their clients and tailor the sessions to each individual.
8) Offer reasonable rates, all things considered. I don't mean low rates, btw. I think it's possible to under price yourself. If a lady seems good but her rates are really low I will probably suspect it's a scam and stay away. Having said that, if a lady is charging more than most other ladies who are offering a similar experience I will probably never book her just because I'll book the others first.
9) Turn off your phone. Don't text or take care of other business during a session. When a client is with you, give 100% attention to the client. We expect to get the time we pay for, no more, no less.
10) Be discreet. Anything that draws unnecessary attention to your incall or your clients is a bad idea. Choose an incall location that offers as much discretion as possible. I suspect most clients don't want to see anyone or be seen by anyone.
11) Maintain some type of online presence. A website or twitter page is common. These ad to your credibility and allow clients to find out about you without having to contact you.
12) Be consistent. Everything listed above is just as important on the 100th visit as on the first. If the reasons we book with you go away, we will too.
Hope that helps
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1) be nice, sweet, in good humour, reliable, punctual, clean and have a decent incall space
2)DFK like you love it
3) BBBJ like you love it.
4) Fuck like you love it
5) avoid drama and the political threads on Terb
These will bring you repeat customers and rave reviews and $$$
2)DFK like you love it
3) BBBJ like you love it.
4) Fuck like you love it
5) avoid drama and the political threads on Terb
These will bring you repeat customers and rave reviews and $$$
