"Standing Out" as an SP

[Ellaaaa]

I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but my question is in regards to "standing out" as an SP in this industry. Does one have to distinguish herself and if "yes" then how?

I'm not a spinner, but no bbw. I'm not exotic and my boobs are average, I think. Each time I check the review board (my little guilty pleasure), I see a lot of reviews and requests for women who have a certain "look". Is there a typical "look" that's most popular in GTA? Keep in mind, I know all men are different but is there a consensus?

I'm not from Toronto so curious because I think standards and majority preference, particularly in the industry, varies from province to province. Or is it all about service?

 

[massman]

Most important thing is to establish your reputation as a really great provider. A person who is great to be around, between the sheets and otherwise. There are many examples of girls who are loved on this and other boards who did not look like movie stars necessarily, and did not
Have "perfect" model like bodies, but became well liked and very busy because of the quality of service provided.

 

[Butler1000]

Service will get you far. Your "look" you can only do so much with, and with a pretty large pool of Hobbyists there are some that will go for you on that basis.

But give an outstanding BJ, or GFE, Or PSE, and the reviews will sing your praises.

 

[The Options Menu]

I'm not from Toronto so curious because I think standards and majority preference, particularly in the industry, varies from province to province. Or is it all about service?

First of all, I'm a strip club guy and not a SP guy, but I've been here on TERB and in Toronto for a long time, and I'm a guy. I'd say:

1) Service should be job #1. Don't over promise. Be discreet. Be punctual. Be enthusiastic AND present. Be clean.

2) Toronto is one of the most diverse cities on the planet. I'd say cultivate a persona or image, and as long as it isn't too extreme or fringe, you should find a market. Cute GND in Yoga pants, Old school stripper look who likes PSE, Open minded Alt/Indy Girl. Whatever. You'll want to be consistent for decent stretches at a time, and not too generic, but ultimately it's probably best to cultivate an image that you find interesting / exciting in a part of the market you're comfortable serving.

 

[Ellaaaa]

Well, how long does it take to get reviews?

 

[The Options Menu]

Well, how long does it take to get reviews?

If you're too good people might want to keep you secret.

But honestly, if you're an enthusiastic / good provider, who advertises and interacts with review boards, reviews will probably come fast. It makes guys feel better about TOFTT and fellas like their e-respect. If you're less (or not) involved in the community, but have a decent web site (or agency page) that people can point to, and are active and an enthusiastic / good provider, reviews will still come, but maybe more slowly. A decent web presence (or a page on a reputable agency's site) makes people less wary to TOFTT. If you're a random online advert girl, who changes their number all of the time, but is active and an enthusiastic / good provider, you'll get reviewed eventually. Maybe. Though going that road makes it hard to build a following (but you'll probably still find plenty of customers if your pics are OK and legit).

 

[Mr Bret]

1) Service should be job #1. Don't over promise. Be discreet. Be punctual. Be enthusiastic AND present. Be clean.

What he said here can be key, but I'll turn it up a notch.
Under promise and over deliver. In other words, deliver on what you initially promised but throw in a little something extra as a nice "surprise" for your clients
That will definitely get their attention and keep them coming back.

Other things that should be obvious, but are sometimes sadly lacking:
- Impeccable hygiene
- Punctuality
- Not rushing a client out the door because another is waiting in the hallway
- Try to remember some details about whatever you discuss with a client. When you see him again, ask about something you discussed last time, like "How was your vacation to XYZ you told me you were planning?". This shows you are genuinely interested in him. Take notes after a session if you think it will help you.

 

[Born2Star]

I'd say if you're clean and always punctual in respecting appointments, you're above 80% of the rest already.

 

[Ellaaaa]

Thank you everybody! I think that certain "looks" get more attention than others though, no?

 

[Mr Bret]

Thank you everybody! I think that certain "looks" get more attention than others though, no?

That may be true for first visits, but not nearly as much for repeats.
And regulars are your bread and butter.

 

[The Options Menu]

I think that certain "looks" get more attention than others though, no?

You probably want more than, "totally generic middle of the road", but beyond that pretty much anything that's not too fringe or extreme, that you're excited about and where that excitement carries through, will work. You probably don't want to change up your look like a rollercoaster. So if you think plunging lines in evening wear look great on you, go with that. Really, anything more than totally generic and middle of the road, that you're excited about, is your best bet.

edit: And repeats are mostly a matter of perceived chemistry (one sided or not) and consistent good performance.

 

[Ellaaaa]

You guys are so smart! Lol thanks!

 

[TFZL1]

Thank you everybody! I think that certain "looks" get more attention than others though, no?

Ella, you need to work on marketing. So far you're just a name on here.

Haven't seen your pic
I have no idea how to book
Where are you? Ontario ?
Do you have a website
Are you on twitter? Or elsewhere?

You could answer all those questions in you filled in your Signature, picture and avatar.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

Hey ella.

Being an sp can be extremely hard. Especially when you feel that you don't have the "look" guys are looking for. ( eg. model types, spinners,etc) . To me the most important thing is service. If you give good service and are very personable than that can triumph looks. Everybody has a preference, including us. Sometimes the guys we see are not always attractive but they are very nice and respectful which triumphs their looks and makes them equally as attractive. Just be yourself, have fun , and if you feel unhappy with your look then change it but don't do it just because you feel you aren't what society wants.

 

[Ellaaaa]

Hey ella.

Being an sp can be extremely hard. Especially when you feel that you don't have the "look" guys are looking for. ( eg. model types, spinners,etc) . To me the most important thing is service. If you give good service and are very personable than that can triumph looks. Everybody has a preference, including us. Sometimes the guys we see are not always attractive but they are very nice and respectful which triumphs their looks and makes them equally as attractive. Just be yourself, have fun , and if you feel unhappy with your look then change it but don't do it just because you feel you aren't what society wants.

Thank you for your feedback! I know I am very pretty but just... nothing to stand out I guess in my photos maybe. I don't know. But I do like how I look. Thank you sweetie.

 

[spraggamuffin]

A big plus for me was always attitude, more so than looks.
I understand the guys who prioritize looks though as it is a fantasy in most cases.
I however like a variety of women types.
Maybe I just like to eat pussy.
It's not like I'm being chased by many hot women in my civvie life.
Just like women appreciate confidence in men, I'm sure men appreciate confidence in women and being contented with who they are.

 

[sweetiepieexo]

Some things to use to your advantage is the mirrors in the room and use the beds to the best of your ability. Also different poses and if you want to really stand out use different outfits and you can also keep updating your photots so that you give everybody a little bit of variety. I update my pics every week. It always keeps a sort of spice going. Anytime you need any advice feel free to inbox
xoxoxo

Thank you for your feedback! I know I am very pretty but just... nothing to stand out I guess in my photos maybe. I don't know. But I do like how I look. Thank you sweetie.

 

[bcd]

I viewed your profile and learned that you are with Sexy Friends Toronto. That answers the question a couple of people had. Not being an Agency patronizer, I guess that's why I had not seen anything from or of you. The fact that you started this thread may just result in a review or three. A question I have- do you have a Twitter account/handle? That seems to be the medium where many girls promote themselves on. Connections on Twitter have resulted in me visiting a couple of ladies which resulted in a review. However, I also use Twitter as a filter of who not to see based on some comments made by SP's and I would guess I am not the only one in that category so if you do open or already have a Twitter account, try to keep your posts positive!!

 

[castaniabrucciatta]

I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but my question is in regards to "standing out" as an SP in this industry. Does one have to distinguish herself and if "yes" then how?

I'm not a spinner, but no bbw. I'm not exotic and my boobs are average, I think. Each time I check the review board (my little guilty pleasure), I see a lot of reviews and requests for women who have a certain "look". Is there a typical "look" that's most popular in GTA? Keep in mind, I know all men are different but is there a consensus?

I'm not from Toronto so curious because I think standards and majority preference, particularly in the industry, varies from province to province. Or is it all about service?

For me, it's not about the look. You're all pretty

It's not about the service either. You all have a menu. BBBJ is important to me, DFK, etc.

Two girls could both be pretty and offer the same menu.

The thing with me is how you make me feel or more precisely, how I feel when I leave.

To me, I love a True GFE. PSE doesn't do it for me.

When I feel like I've been with an old (or new) girlfriend who I sense had as great a time as I did, that's important.

I know there's an exchange of money for services. I wouldn't want it any other way, ie. I don't want or need a girlfriend.

But when I'm made to feel that it isn't about the money and you want me as much as I want you.

When there's that illusion coupled with the intensity of being with a really horny woman.

THAT'S what I look for. Tall order? Asking too much?

Searching for this is part of the fun for me.

And I have found it many times. When I do, that's my heroin......

CB

 

[Ellaaaa]

I am just going to say it... I think, from my reading of reviews over the past two months or so, guys love young spinners with big breasts and a PS menu. Just saying! eep: