This is very interesting. I never thought that black Carribean people were this obsessed with their skin colour:
Kate Beirness(sp) is getting really darker.. You could technically argue the same exact thing for Caucasians obsessed with tanning and darkening their skin tone.
It's nothing new. You could technically argue the same exact thing for Caucasians obsessed with tanning and darkening their skin tone..
You couldn't have said this more better than I.I'm surprised someone would think there isn't a stigma about POC having dark skin or that some would want to lighten their skin if they could. In Asia skin brightener/whitener is heavily promoted. It's really unfortunate that the media and advertising seem to promote "light is attractive" and make people of colour feel bad for having a naturally darker skin tone. How many threads on here have we seen where a guy is ONLY looking for Caucasian/Latina/Asian girls no ebony girls, or ONLY light skinned ebony girls etc. It's really sad, and a lot of this programming comes from the media dictating what should be thought of as attractive.
Whatever makes you comfortable in your own skin, if someone wants to adjust their skin tone and isn't hurting themselves, it's their choice.
I'm surprised someone would think there isn't a stigma about POC having dark skin or that some would want to lighten their skin if they could. In Asia skin brightener/whitener is heavily promoted. It's really unfortunate that the media and advertising seem to promote "light is attractive" and make people of colour feel bad for having a naturally darker skin tone. How many threads on here have we seen where a guy is ONLY looking for Caucasian/Latina/Asian girls no ebony girls, or ONLY light skinned ebony girls etc. It's really sad, and a lot of this programming comes from the media dictating what should be thought of as attractive.
Whatever makes you comfortable in your own skin, if someone wants to adjust their skin tone and isn't hurting themselves, it's their choice.
Interesting name choice:whoo: You my Beyonce! xox
Sad reality for many but this does not represent all black Caribbean people. You will often find me on a beach happily soaking up rays deepening my rich complexionThis is very interesting. I never thought that black Carribean people were this obsessed with their skin colour
I remember how beautiful you were too Kathleen xo.Absolutely, you're 100% right, it does go both ways. I find I'm tanning 2-3 times a week during the cold months because I'm never dark enough. I'm slightly happier in the summer, because I lay out so much in the natural sun, but never content. I always want to be darker.
I envy you Chloe, because I've met you, and absolutely love your skin tone.
You speak the truth, but Caucasians are rammed with the media / advertising too. Maybe more when you consider the tanning beds, the lotions and bronzers you can buy at Shoppers.
Endless vacation ads with laying on the beach in the sun. Its all just to make lots of money by convincing Caucasians that being darker is better.
People consider being too pale as unhealthy and frail, and very tanned as being healthy and alive. We also know too much sun is dangerous, but ignore it to look better.
As for passing on types of girls, that unfortunately is personal preference.
I work at a MPA, come out to say hello with out girls, and when someone picks an Ebony, East Indian girl, or red head, just feel I wasn't their cup of tea. It happens.
But great points.
True. But there is a big difference between why black (especially women) people alter their appearance as opposed every other race. It deeper than just beauty.Absolutely, you're 100% right, it does go both ways. I find I'm tanning 2-3 times a week during the cold months because I'm never dark enough. I'm slightly happier in the summer, because I lay out so much in the natural sun, but never content. I always want to be darker.
I envy you Chloe, because I've met you, and absolutely love your skin tone.
You speak the truth, but Caucasians are rammed with the media / advertising too. Maybe more when you consider the tanning beds, the lotions and bronzers you can buy at Shoppers.
Endless vacation ads with laying on the beach in the sun. Its all just to make lots of money by convincing Caucasians that being darker is better.
People consider being too pale as unhealthy and frail, and very tanned as being healthy and alive. We also know too much sun is dangerous, but ignore it to look better.
As for passing on types of girls, that unfortunately is personal preference.
I work at a MPA, come out to say hello with out girls, and when someone picks an Ebony, East Indian girl, or red head, just feel I wasn't their cup of tea. It happens.
But great points.
You thought it was just Whites who were obsessed with the black people's skin colour?This is very interesting. I never thought that black Carribean people were this obsessed with their skin colour:
Excellent post.I'm not surprised by this at all as my mother taught me about her experiences growing up in the islands all the time: as a naturally light-skinned Caribbean girl she was praised and doted on by all the elders for being a light, bright, "good" girl. Due to the large amount of mixing that happened in some of the islands, my mom is often mistaken for Chinese BY Chinese people that start talking to her in Mandarin/Cantonese and then are baffled why she can't reply. Her life experiences compared to my father's (who is a more typical deep brown tone) are wildly different. Much like the "passable" blacks from the segregation days, "light makes right".
I'm not surprised that the second a racial topic came up someone suggested that white people are the target of tanning/skin tone marketing too but let's not forget one key difference here:
A) white people did that to THEMSELVES via some silly female celebrity (Coco Chanel I believe is credited with the fault) where being tanned generated the impression you were rich enough to afford sunny vacations
B) black people do it to themselves as a consequence of their past/ongoing negative interaction(s) with white culture (from the slavery days where you had some masters that thought they could "breed the blackness out of them", to being a passable black being a survival camouflage mechanism in segregated white society, having lighter-skin has often been an advantage for visible minorities entrenched in a predominantly white society).
Being lighter also helped blacks land better jobs back in the day, and the mental reinforcement continues to this day. When whites forced themselves on the black population, they brought at least three things to them: chains, Christianity, and misplaced self-loathing. The effects of these various "gifts" are still being felt today, though I hope that they will dwindle through the ages and one day all peoples will be healed and able to stand together in peace and harmony at last, whatever skin they're in.
Absolutely, you're 100% right, it does go both ways. I find I'm tanning 2-3 times a week during the cold months because I'm never dark enough. I'm slightly happier in the summer, because I lay out so much in the natural sun, but never content. I always want to be darker.
I envy you Chloe, because I've met you, and absolutely love your skin tone.
You speak the truth, but Caucasians are rammed with the media / advertising too. Maybe more when you consider the tanning beds, the lotions and bronzers you can buy at Shoppers.
Endless vacation ads with laying on the beach in the sun. Its all just to make lots of money by convincing Caucasians that being darker is better.
People consider being too pale as unhealthy and frail, and very tanned as being healthy and alive. We also know too much sun is dangerous, but ignore it to look better.
As for passing on types of girls, that unfortunately is personal preference.
I work at a MPA, come out to say hello with out girls, and when someone picks an Ebony, East Indian girl, or red head, just feel I wasn't their cup of tea. It happens.
But great points.
At the end of the day I guess there's nothing wrong with it.You thought it was just Whites who were obsessed with the black people's skin colour?
When the physical shackles were loosened, they weren't mentally.
Bob Marley's Redemption song called for it - Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery.
BTW: It's not just black Caribbean people. It takes place in Africa too. Also - Examine India (with the caste system), where these products are reportedly made. Ask the dark skin Indians about it