I've always been upfront about my age, and I find it works to my advantage. At 38, I'm comfortable in my own skin, I have life experience, and I have the maturity to relate to many of my clients (not saying younger ladies don't as well). I have no desire to pretend to be a younger version of me, and I find my age tends to attract an older clientele, which usually means manners and respect and a better understanding of how this industry works. Of course, this is not across the board, and that's not to say many younger gents don't act in this same manner. What I also notice, is that I also get many young guys contacting me because they love the idea of an older woman.
Does age really matter when choosing an SP??
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Lisbeth,
For me at least, it much more depends upon common interests both sexual and non-sexual a escort and I have in common and then on top of that looks play a role.
At this stage in my life an extremely young escort (under 22) has very little appeal.
For me at least, it much more depends upon common interests both sexual and non-sexual a escort and I have in common and then on top of that looks play a role.
At this stage in my life an extremely young escort (under 22) has very little appeal.
I share the same opinion. Why would I pay for something I could get for free ? It is a fantasy encounter - I don't go to bed dreaming about frumpy 50 y/o women. I should add that the age is only used as a barometer of expected physical appearance. There are some hot MILFs out there but they tend to be the exception. I like smooth tight spinners at the peak of Mother Natures design specs.
To each their own. I'm glad there is differing tastes so that I don't have to compete with an army of clients wanting the same SP.
I'm an older gent and I run the whole gamut from 20's to 50's and 60's if I could find them. It's a paid encounter with MY money so exactly like any business transaction I will purchase what appeals to me that day.
I totally live by the "variety is the spice of life rule" each and every single day of my life! It's not always the perfect encounter but nothing in life will ever be.
I totally live by the "variety is the spice of life rule" each and every single day of my life! It's not always the perfect encounter but nothing in life will ever be.
The best is a milfy type... with all the experience and vivaciousness that goes along with that, and with the body of a 25 year old.
(BadKat and Jayde cum to mind immediately, but there are plenty of them out there.)
(BadKat and Jayde cum to mind immediately, but there are plenty of them out there.)
Everybody has and is entitled to his/her own opinion... BUT LIFE has proved: younger 20s has the best look of NATURAL beauty, and if a mate looks for JUST physical appealing mate then it is a natural choice. Is nature creepy?
The deciding factor might be VERY different for every John: curvy vs skinny, tall vs short, services vs looks, natural vs enhanced.... even on skin color. Each his own.
Whether anyone thinks/approve these preferences or not, what rocks your boat, mate?
Myself: natural, 105, less than 5'7, facially pretty, not over-acting (at least not-too-obvious), open minded to a point, easy to talk to or not to talk much but comfortable to be with... do not have to be JUST legal age but then prefer under early 30, not appealed at all to late 30s and over.
The deciding factor might be VERY different for every John: curvy vs skinny, tall vs short, services vs looks, natural vs enhanced.... even on skin color. Each his own.
Whether anyone thinks/approve these preferences or not, what rocks your boat, mate?
Myself: natural, 105, less than 5'7, facially pretty, not over-acting (at least not-too-obvious), open minded to a point, easy to talk to or not to talk much but comfortable to be with... do not have to be JUST legal age but then prefer under early 30, not appealed at all to late 30s and over.
This thread had me thinking about my personal selection criteria.... I have three broad categories - looks, maturity/wisdom and emotion/temperament.
Looks - A-cup is my favourite, B is good and C is limit. Red hair is great, but not a prerequisite. Eyes, not choosey. Prefer slim athletic build.
Maturity/wisdom- must be able hold a conversation, ads like "seen the rest, now try the best" don't get a second glance as they indicate a very shallow and uncreative mind. Don't need apolitical strategist but at least know what the latest developments are and be able to discuss more than 'the other girls'.
Emotion/temperament- Laid back, with a good sense of humour would be the preferred combination and aggressive,demanding would be much lower on the preference scale.
Now..... I realise that I personally am not gods gift to the female gender and so these criteria can be compromised to a degree but it is unlikely to find them in women under 30 and so I don't bother looking until I see the posted age above that threshold, my absolute best experiences with SP's has been with women in their 40's and 50's.
Looks - A-cup is my favourite, B is good and C is limit. Red hair is great, but not a prerequisite. Eyes, not choosey. Prefer slim athletic build.
Maturity/wisdom- must be able hold a conversation, ads like "seen the rest, now try the best" don't get a second glance as they indicate a very shallow and uncreative mind. Don't need apolitical strategist but at least know what the latest developments are and be able to discuss more than 'the other girls'.
Emotion/temperament- Laid back, with a good sense of humour would be the preferred combination and aggressive,demanding would be much lower on the preference scale.
Now..... I realise that I personally am not gods gift to the female gender and so these criteria can be compromised to a degree but it is unlikely to find them in women under 30 and so I don't bother looking until I see the posted age above that threshold, my absolute best experiences with SP's has been with women in their 40's and 50's.
Age is absolutely important to me. This is why I seldom see ladies who are not in their 30s or more. Some of my most memorable experiences have been with the MILFS. On the other hand, when I see an add that states that the SP is "19 years old", I just move on. Nothing to see there...
You're a professional provider and actress. I think that makes you mature for your young years. That may also explain the shocked expressions, but I'd gather those are just initial reactions to your young looks.
Yes, when I was in my late twenties (or even very early thirties), I'd be on a dinner date with a client and would get carded. Even when ordering wine with dinner occasionally heard "Excuse me sir, I need to see your daughter's ID." LOL
I like women of all ages ( although not younger than 21) all the way up to their early 50's ( remember the beautiful Giselle of FKS). What I object to is that 90% of the sp's and mpa's lie blatantly about their age. Clients are now in the habit of mentally adding 5 to 7 years on to advertised age because of this. For some reason I find this insulting as the women must think that all punters are stupid. A number of well-known veteran mpa's have been 24 for at least 8 or 10 years. The recently retired Ivana was listed as 24 for at least 8 years. How about a novel concept like a truth in advertising - or least keep the lies within the bounds of reason. Nobody minds 31 year old saying they are 28 but anything more than that is insulting.
I filter my searches for 19-23. Too many times I've gone slightly older (advertised as mid-late 20's) only to be greeted at the door by a soccer mom. Of course there are some very attractive, youthful looking older women, but why take the chance?
I'm in my 20's myself though. Probably a lot of older pooners don't prioritize youth as much.
I'm in my 20's myself though. Probably a lot of older pooners don't prioritize youth as much.
A number of years ago I was in Calgary and decided to order room service from a local agency. I didn't specify any requirements, feeling like rolling the dice to see what experience came my way. The girl that arrived at my door looked to be about 16. I asked her age, she looked uncomfortable then said 20! I didn't believe her...I gave her a little money for her time coming to the hotel, but sent her away, I felt it was just not right. A while later I got a call from the agency asking what happened, told them, they understood and offered to send someone else but by then the urge had past. Often wondered what happened with her and whether she continued in the business.
So......to me age matters, if the age is too low. Older is my comfort zone. With age comes experience, comfort with who you are, and conversational skills. All these matter to me. My two cents!
So......to me age matters, if the age is too low. Older is my comfort zone. With age comes experience, comfort with who you are, and conversational skills. All these matter to me. My two cents!
I can confirm that about Adriana's appearance. Adriana also has this interesting combination of youthful joy, but also maturely sexual - and there is a lot more going on inside her mind too (likely due to her veteran human status and innate smarts). She is as much fun to yabber with clothed or de-clothed. Thus age becomes irrelevant with someone like her. It's the end person you are companioning with that matters. (lol...companioning...)
I finally met you at the cruise.
You do look younger, but you've got great organizational skills he, he, and carry yourself well.
A few years ago, you were my date to a concert. We drove with my friend and his GF. He thought I was "rockin' the cradle" (as he later told me), but that's a compliment on you.
