Anyone have experience with Sugar Baby relationships?

[Autumn-desilva]

Just a thought

Maybe some of the gents interested in an SB relationship should ask an SP. Well if you want a full, no bs arrangement.

Many of the girls are sugaring/providing for the same reasons. Paying off debts, travel, lifestyle and cost of living expenses, school, business starters, etc.

Like I've posted, I have had a couple SB/ SD relationships and I enjoy them. Its like a break from work (if the connection is genuine). And when the time is up, no hard feelings everyone wins. Yes, the arrangement is a lot less than my hourly rates vs the time I spend with a SD; but if its right its right.

I was on SA actually and didn't find anything legit. I found it odd, the expectations and donations some of the gents wanted to make.

However just in my ordinary life I find I get the right connections. Strange lol.

So just a thought, as long as your fair and respectful with your $$$ offering, give it a try and ask your SP. Best of both worlds

 

[ultistar]

Just a thought

Maybe some of the gents interested in an SB relationship should ask an SP. Well if you want a full, no bs arrangement.

[snip]

So just a thought, as long as your fair and respectful with your $$$ offering, give it a try and ask your SP. Best of both worlds

That's a good idea, I'll keep it in mind.

BUT it looks like most guys are looking for the thrill of getting a not-so-pro girl. A semi-pro, who hasn't gone all the way over to the dark side, for some element of exclusivity. Of course that's all a facade as SB's are pros since they are exchanging money for sex.

 

[LickingGravity]

Just a thought

Maybe some of the gents interested in an SB relationship should ask an SP. Well if you want a full, no bs arrangement.


Like I've posted, I have had a couple SB/ SD relationships and I enjoy them.

Half the girls are sp's or mpa's including two well known and reviewed mpa's. There pricing tends be similar but they don't watch the clock as much and there is no within MP limits nonsense that nobody understands anyway

 

[Tony2000]

I have done both SP and SB in the past, now I am mostly into SB relationships. When hunting for a SB, you have to be prepared to commit A LOT of time to emailing on sites like Seeking Arrangement. Many of the women on the site are not serious - and the fact that they don't have to pay for a membership makes it easy for them just to sign up on a lark. After emailing, you have to meet them for a coffee and see if there is a mutual connection. Maybe 1 in 4 works out.

I have had a few different SB experiences:
1. An awesome recent grad who was fun, smart and hot. We would meet up for dinner and then hotel fun. Unfortunately, she moved overseas.
2. A total nutjob. I count myself lucky to have gotten out of that without serious damage.
3. A young woman who fell in love with me and wanted me to leave my wife. We had an amazing time together but ultimately it became awkward when she persisted in wanting to turn it into a full-time relationship. We had to split
4. My current SB is a student and we have been seeing each other for five years. We meet for dinner/fun and have been on a few trips together. We both have an awesome time. Recently, her BF found out about us .... so it has become a bit dramatic. LOL. We'll see what happens.

 

[FelixKrull]

How do you find a SB? Is there a site? I just found one that was mostly a SP that wanted to see me a lot. Wasn't sure how to handle it at the time

 

[Iluvsc's]

I'm currently on Seeking Arrangements, my first time diving into the sugar bowl. In my first email to a new potential I'm upfront about what I'm looking for (dinner date plus first date sex) either I get back a reply or I don't. Going out on a first free coffee date is a great idea, you can establish chemistry between the two of you, and verify if her pics are accurate, unfortunately I don't have the time to go out on a bunch of coffee dates. I figure I'll still be getting laid at the end of the night anyways.

Just want to touch on a couple of points already discussed in this thread, allowance and if a sugar baby is less expensive. I've also been upfront that I want to do the arrangement on a per date basis. Most are fine with that. Personally I think it should be done this way at the beginning, allowances shouldn't be happening till later down the road when you have found the right one. I've gotten some pretty good offers already. Lowest is about $150, another wants me to pay a bill for her (a few hundred), and another has a bill needed to be paid quite quickly (needs about a grand, think she is getting pretty desperate). I haven't negotiated with any so I may end up getting a bargain. Still waiting to hear back from a few as well. Think I finally made up my mind about which one, and probably going out with her in the next few days. So no you don't need to pay thousands in allowance. You won't know until you ask, right?

I will be covering the hotel room, date expenses, and the fee to the girl, all in should be around five bills or lower. I figure the night is going to be at least four hours (modest estimate maybe), one sog at least, if I get more then bonus. A similar first date with an sp would likely cost more, so I come out ahead a little bit. The big pay off with a sugar babe is when you get an overnight at her original negotiated rate, great if it happens but not expecting it. If you can get it savings go through the roof compared to an sp. An sp isn't likely still to be in your bed in the morning when you only paid for an hour or even a few hours, lol. I like the idea that I'm not the fifth dick that has been in her that day, Im well aware a sugar babe may have more then one daddy and that is fine, however I may be the only one that day. Guys are crazy to pay a big monthly allowance for exclusiveness, never really knowing if she is keeping up her end of the bargain, guaranteed she is fucking her bf or date on the side. More likely to get gfe from your sugar, texts/calls in between visits (it that's your thing). Basically I'd rather have a pt girlfriend then just to get off. Sugar dating can be less expensive, all about the negotiations and how much she enjoys your company I guess. Maybe I'll report back after my date.

My membership on SA is coming to an end in a couple weeks, I don't plan on renewing at this time. Just collecting as much contact info as I can for future use. I'll most likely join again some where down the line, right now though I have more than enough options already.

 

[Judge_Knoll]

I don't do the SB/SD thing per se. I do like 'What's Your Price' to arrange dates with beautiful women. I've had good luck with the service thus far.

 

[ExoticCharmer]

If you book multiple hours with SPs regularly (which I do), then SBs is a very viable route to get more for your money. If not, then like implied69 mentioned above, it's not worth it. Your mindset is different so it won't work.

I will be covering the hotel room, date expenses, and the fee to the girl, all in should be around five bills or lower. I figure the night is going to be at least four hours (modest estimate maybe), one sog at least, if I get more then bonus. A similar first date with an sp would likely cost more, so I come out ahead a little bit.

Thank you for proving my point, you have to have the right mindset for this otherwise, it's not worth it. Good luck with your search, hope it pans out for you. I'd personally avoid the SBs who want you to cover their bills, as those expectations can stack up rather quickly.

 

[Caelus]

they had a sugar baby summit 3 weeks ago ... the SB are learning how to find the right SD LOLL
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aCAkAIIujjQ

 

[imwildru]

where can I find SB from Ottawa, any links, I tired seeking arrangements but nothing local, am I doing something wrong

 

[afterhours]

Has any SD here figured out how to get a reduction of payment as the relationship progresses? It seems obvious that interest fades with time, yet SBs expect consistent payments. The easiest answer is to move on to a new one, which is fine and has its advantages, but I just thought maybe someone figured out how to politely explain to a woman that fucking her the 10th time is not as exciting as the first time.

 

[roger20]

Has any SD here figured out how to get a reduction of payment as the relationship progresses? It seems obvious that interest fades with time, yet SBs expect consistent payments. The easiest answer is to move on to a new one, which is fine and has its advantages, but I just thought maybe someone figured out how to politely explain to a woman that fucking her the 10th time is not as exciting as the first time.

I never haggle with this aspect so I just move on if I'm not getting the same bang for my buck. Frequently they do come back with a more favourable arrangement (more visits or more effort in visits) or lowered allowance but there's so many girls out there, why not go new?

Basically just ask her. It's more trouble for a girl to get a SD then a guy to get a SB.

 

[DELETDrileydaniels]

They have Sugar Baby Summit coming up.

 

[ExoticCharmer]

Has any SD here figured out how to get a reduction of payment as the relationship progresses? It seems obvious that interest fades with time, yet SBs expect consistent payments. The easiest answer is to move on to a new one, which is fine and has its advantages, but I just thought maybe someone figured out how to politely explain to a woman that fucking her the 10th time is not as exciting as the first time.

How do you set up your arrangements (per date, per week, per month)? I usually do per date until I've seen someone multiple times to set up a long term arrangement. Could be a month or a few months before that happens, so putting this in place, gives me the opportunity to change the amount.

Another way, is to set a 2 part arrangement: Base + expenditure on gifts/dinner/etc. Let's say you're willing to spend $600 per date, split it up, $300 or $400 base and the other $200 is for gifts/dinner. That way you can fluctuate on the gifts/dinner.