It's obvious I'm new here. I'd like to ask the more experienced hobbyist how they decided on their first encounter? If you had to do it all over again, would you have picked differently? Any suggestions for a first timer to see? My only preference is blonde + easy to talk to and intelligent. I think I narrowed it down to 4 but I keep going back and forth between them based on the reviews I've read and what they've expressed on their websites. I don't want to mention names in fear of offending someone.