PART I. Mid 20's in grad school, caucasian lad...she fellow grad student, late 30's ebony, married but husband travels and she's sort of estranged from him...asks me to babysit kids and I say OK cuz she has cable tv and hockey only on pay tv back then..she alerts me to the fact she has left a 6 pack in fridge for me...I put kids to bed..she comes back to her apartment...can I join you in a beer? sure I say..she keeps staring at me and says..."you know something"...then she sidles over right next to me on the couch....and she says "a woman has needs..."..not being presumptuous I say...I guess we all do... and she says "no, I mean, needs..." and then puts a hand on my thigh...and she says "I know you are partial to women of colour" and I laugh...then say "its kinda obvious isn't it" (I was known for dating only asian/latina/ebony ladies and all my colleagues knew that)..and then she says "it is becoming more obvious" and she then moves her hand over to my growing dick ...and I say "so you think i can help you here with your needs?" and she laughs and says "i know you can help me here" and the smooching starts and we're off the races. On the couch, trying to be quiet so as not to wake her kids. At the time, being with an older, more experienced woman was so bloody wonderful - a women really comfortable w her sexuality, in a way late teen and early 20's women sort of aren't. No bullshit, no persuading, just enjoying each others' company with little to no other expectation except fun. An eye opener...she taught me to slow down, no need, to quote John Cleese in "the meaning of life" to "go stampeding to the clitoris" lol....I cherished her, and I was her go-to booty call and loved every minute. She did divorce the hubby within the year.
PART II.She was also part of a "rainbow" Saturday...on-off dating a chinese woman she was out late and a bit hung over rings at 9am and wants to go to brekkie - we do and afterward come back to my place to have an encounter...she goes home at 1pm- I have a Uni function at 2pm...at function start chatting a lot with a caucasian portugese descent fellow grad student who just broke up w her boyfriend...invites me back to her place to get 'a proper drink' at 5pm and we have an encounter...get home at 8pm...message on answering machine (yes the mid/late 80's - so fuck you youngsters) from my ebony femme fatale...she's just kicking back and home and kids will be going to bed by 8:30...so if your bored and want to pop over...so getting that bat signal ring her back in the affirmative and shower up and head over and we're off! So an asian, caucasian, and ebony lady in the same day. Gawd was that wonderful...my life has been downhill ever since lol...