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One of the toughest professions in the world, if you're in it, don't bitch about it

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drunkmunky

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I went to an sp that I am not going to identify. My third/fourth visit and she was burnt out.
I felt sorry for her. So much so I didn't even want to do the deed.

I paid and I left.
If you're not up for this. Don't waste your own time, and the clients.

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explorerzip

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Everyone gets burned out once in a while. Hopefully, this is a temporary thing with the lady in question. I agree that people should not be in a field they don't enjoy (especially if they are burnt out), but not everyone can just stop working. There is another side of the story that we will never know.
 
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"One of the toughest professions in the world, if you're in it, don't bitch about it" - excuse me what? I'm pretty sure everyone on the goddamn planet bitches about the profession they're in. Welcome to Earth, chief.
 
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burned out as in she wasn't into it? Did she take up too many customers that day/week?

I would feel utterly terrible if I showed up to see a MP / SP and she was unable to perform at 100%. I'd rather they reschedule on me (it wouldn't bother me - sometimes things happen) and set up a schedule where they would be at 100% than to operate at 50-70% enthusiasm and leave me wondering if I did something wrong or inappropriate.

Good on you for paying and leaving, but she really could've rescheduled - she'd risk you not wanting to come back of course, but now you have a bad experience and might not come back, so which is really the best outcome?
 
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I see this alot. They start out she seeing clients two times a week or once a week. Then the money rolls in but most importantly the adrenaline kicks in as more men want them and some clients like me take them places shower them with gifts. Have you read Fast Girl. It can get better intense. Then they start seeing 2 or three clients a day. The emails start to drop.off. They start to become cynical. This become critical of clients and you see them.starting to burn out. Now they do not prep for dates like they use to. The excitement is not there. They do not put on make up. Or change the sheets with each in all. The clients become customers and dates and dollar bills. Then they need to stop and pull back but they need the money. So the burn out continues. Just be careful because once you start to see good clients leaving they have a problem. Never let a client wander way. Know why they are not calling pr where they went. Make sure Ms SP you provide consistent service. Just my advice. If you invest in a client milk it do not let it wander away. If you are going to do that don't invest.
 
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JackBurton

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I believe it. In the customer service industry, the tendency to not be "on" (make up, hair, seductive attitude" is a mark of not only job stress but also indicates that your SP sees you as a series of $ bills rather than a fun, exciting experience.
(That they are selling)

It's a tricky balancing act for the ladies in the industry and frankly, seeing only one side of men, day in day out will skew someone's perspective of what healthy sexual encounters are in the real world. It's a trade off for $ and once the best clients leave because they feel under served, then it's even harder to bring them back. It's economics 101.

If you feel that she's having a bad day/week/ burned out, as a client you are under no obligation to pay her anything. You can be polite but firm by saying "I've loved our time together in the past but I'm concerned about yiu right now. I think we should rain cheque" is what clients are entitled to.
 
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Freedom1970

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Most indies are past their prime, not too desirable to agencies & are burnt out. Very few young independent gems out there. They naturally gravitate to letting an agency take care of the admin. Want fresh? Go see agency girls.
 
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jackson11

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I thought teachers had the toughest job in the world not sps.......at least that is what their union keeps telling me:p Never heard an sp complain to me about their work but all I hear is teachers bitching about everything.
 
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bazokajoe

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jackson11 said:
I thought teachers had the toughest job in the world not sps.......at least that is what their union keeps telling me:p Never heard an sp complain to me about their work but all I hear is teachers bitching about everything.
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Teachers are spoiled brats.
 
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Vermeer27

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The causal relationship you're assuming exists between the girls state of mind and her job is a bit too neat and tidy. You don't know what else is going on in her life. I've met firemen and soldiers who had, what seemed to me at-least, brutally demanding jobs but those guys swore that they loved their work. Sexwork isn't for everybody, and if you're only in it for the money, you are going to be bad at it and will not last.
 
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whitewaterguy

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Vermeer27 said:
The causal relationship you're assuming exists between the girls state of mind and her job is a bit too neat and tidy. You don't know what else is going on in her life. I've met firemen and soldiers who had, what seemed to me at-least, brutally demanding jobs but those guys swore that they loved their work. Sexwork isn't for everybody, and if you're only in it for the money, you are going to be bad at it and will not last.
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Some women are into it for reasons other than the money? Tell me more about that...
 
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Freedom1970 said:
Most indies are past their prime, not too desirable to agencies & are burnt out. Very few young independent gems out there. They naturally gravitate to letting an agency take care of the admin. Want fresh? Go see agency girls.
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To each his own apparently. I've been lucky enough to find a couple of agency girls that could keep up with the quality of the independents, but I've always found the independents to be the most desirable and absolutely on top of their game.
 
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GGGDickson

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whitewaterguy said:
Some women are into it for reasons other than the money? Tell me more about that...
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I know a few SPs who really enjoy the experience of being with multiple guys. The excitement and anticipation of the date. The thrill of doing different guys and the Wow feelings when she would "hit it out of the park". She is a pleasure seeker and wanted the guy to cum. As she said it is the greatest feeling to get the guy to hit the high note or get them to spend money on her. It was a rush for her. Read fast girl and you will understand better.

More to it then just the money. At least for her.
 
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GGGDickson said:
I know a few SPs who really enjoy the experience of being with multiple guys. The excitement an anticipation of the date. The thrill of doing it different guys and the Wo feelings when she would "hit it out of the park". She is a pleasure seeker and wanted the guy to cum. As she said it is the greatest feeling to get the guy to hit the high note.

More to it then just the money. At least for her.
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I like the attention. It's a bit of a thrill being someone's treat. The person they go to relax and confide in. They look forward to seeing me all week and that's a pretty powerful feeling.
 
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