Would you marry an SP?

[JakeLive]

Some good posts in this thread. Conceptually, being in a long term relationship or even marrying an ex-SP if she met all of my other criteria would be not be an issue for me. The only thing I probably would not be comfortable with would be in a situation with friends, say a party, and she started talking about her ex-career.

I suppose I'd prefer she kept that part of her life a secret from other people. I don't know if that's fair, but I guess it's the society we live in.

Just my two cents.

 

[foxxxy lady]

This idea that some guys have that all escorts are just gold-diggers who will divorce you and take your money is ridiculous.


Some of us are quite normal (and boring). Sometimes even domesticated! I like to do laundry (I'm weird), cook, garden. I think I'd make a good wife actually. Have had several men tell me that and have had offers of marriage - I will do it when I feel it's right and I won't look back.

u rock and I love your quote by Freddie Mecury Miss Croft

xo

 

[MissCroft]

u rock and I love your quote by Freddie Mecury Miss Croft

Thank you!

 

[explorerzip]

I will do it when I feel it's right and I won't look back.

That will truly be a sad day. Terb should shut down as a sign of respect for your years of enthusiastic service Chloe

 

[Richard.TO]

It always amuses me when this subject comes up. When you enter a long term relationship with a woman, what is the difference whether she is an SP or "civvy"? To look at it from another angle, perhaps the difference is the SP is being honest. If the civvy was an SP but isn't being truthful, how would you know? I had a very good off the clock relationship with an SP and could easily see myself having a relationship with her, she was beautiful, intelligent and very experienced in pleasuring men.

 

[bolt.upright]

Every time this topic comes up I have basically the same answer.

They are just normal women, with emotions and feelings like any other. There will be some ladies you'll get along very well with, some not so much.

There have been a couple of SP's out there, especially my current most regular lady, that I would be very happy to marry, if I wasn't already married and almost thirty years older. Even if those issues didn't exist, of all her regular clients I doubt very much that I would be the best catch if she was looking for a husband. I think it's best that it remains a fantasy, at least for me. But the fact that she is/was an SP would have very little to do with it.

 

[rhuarc29]

I would find it sad if anyone on TERB said "no" to this question.

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

I would find it sad if anyone on TERB said "no" to this question.

Unfortunately rhuarc29, often what is good for the gander/goose isn't good for the goose/gander.

I also find that some people are genuine and consistent no matter what the circumstances, while others are very much one way in private and another when in the public eye. Many people will respond in a socially acceptable way even if they feel otherwise and some may do or say things just to stir up controversy, when in reality they hold an opposing view. It's called playing Devil's advocate, which is supposed to invite healthy debate. Either way, I give kudos to someone willing to say their mind even if it's not a popular opinion, as long as they are not getting insulting. It is usually the ones professing to be this or that all the time that really are not this or that. If they were this or that they would not have to keep saying it all the time. Not certain if they do it more so to convince others or to convince themselves. I personally have nothing to prove so do not need to impose my views ad nauseum. At the end of the day only they know the truth, because especially on here you can say or do anything with very little consequence.

It is for this reason and others that I started another thread in the lounge about how social media doesn't create negativity, merely uncovers it. https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...edia-Doesn-t-Create-Negativity-it-Uncovers-It

 

[andydude]

arent we all just a bunch of whores?

 

[MissCroft]

arent we all just a bunch of whores?

Yup!

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

arent we all just a bunch of whores?

Yes, of course, in one way or another. It's just that most people aren't willing to admit it.

 

[foxxxy lady]

arent we all just a bunch of whores?

lol I am a sexual being and u can call it whatever you like(in the bedroom I love sexy talk or downright dirty) and honest I'm not trying to convince anyone:eyebrows:

xo

 

[TeasePlease]

A couple related, but different, thoughts:

1. If an SP asked you to marry her, would you?

2. Would you want her to continue working? (NOT would you "let" her...)

 

[Vermeer27]

Yes, of course, in one way or another. It's just that most people aren't willing to admit it.

It's not that simple. Some people are not in a social position to admit it, however much they might want to.

 

[IM469]

Would you want her to continue working? (NOT would you "let" her...)

Living off the income of your hooker ... isn't there a name for that ?

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

It's not that simple. Some people are not in a social position to admit it, however much they might want to.

Fair enough, but a lot of people "lie and deny" even when there's no good reason to.

 

[DaleyDDD]

arent we all just a bunch of whores?

"We're all whores, Grace. We just sell different parts of ourselves."

 

[TeasePlease]

Living off the income of your hooker ... isn't there a name for that ?

Sheesh. That wasn't what i was alluding to, but if you want to go there.... Yeah, I've noticed that there's a certain type of guy who seems to be happy to sit back and enjoy the fruits....

 

[red]

arent we all just a bunch of whores?

Is the term for a bunch whores a horde?

 

[red]

Sheesh. That wasn't what i was alluding to, but if you want to go there.... Yeah, I've noticed that there's a certain type of guy who seems to be happy to sit back and enjoy the fruits....

You mean a newfie?