when a client gets obbessive
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I can't believe all the patsy sweethearts on here that actually spend time analysing their relationships with sp's, do you really think you even cross their mind when you're gone, other than taking another 300$ from you. This is a hit it and quit it hobby, the girls know that but the same old usual suspects on here don't.
Clearly you wouldn't cross anyone's mind, except like a bad cold, something to be forgotten ASAP !!
Do you have "relationships" with anyone except the mirror ???
(at least it isn't a human being LOL !)
#1 - make enough money $$ that paying for stuff isn't such a cheap skate obsession
#2 - stop paying your doctor, dentist, lawyer, accountant or any other helpful provider and see where you stand !! This is their source of income / livelihood so of course they should be paid whether you develop a friendship or not. I've only accepted freebies from reg sps on my birthday or a special occasion, and often insisted on paying because they need / deserve the money much more than I do !
Get a life cheap skate whiners !!
LMAO, he is still bitter from the COLD..the guy comes loaded with baggage and looks at any chance possible to project his insecurities, trust issues, and relationship problems to put down the ones who are capable of emotion and forming genuine connections. He just knows how to project his deficiencies and social failures onto others when they open up...classic signs...
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?299604-Would-you-reccomend-marriage/
Yes, ask yourself that question, why is it that you can only get companionship from a paid SP. Why do you see the need to put others down and criticize others when you have no clue what is actually going on in their interactions? How do you know that this is not part of the fantasy. When was the last time you actually took a girl out, any girl out, that liked you for who you were. Do you even have friends? Sounds to me like you are criticizing others for what you do.
You generalize and throw blanket statements, when it is so complex, and some people actually get affected. The majority of hobbyist have a good head on, however there is a percentage of the clingy clients who are social losers and can't make friends or form companionship without paying, then there is the sociopaths and wolves that pray and exploit plus many many more to name on here, it is too complex just to splify like that.
Well, it is the SPs job to make us feel special, as they do want us to come back ,but I think once a client always a client
That's your opinion of me, I look at you guys as sad pathetic losers like one of the girls mentioned earlier. Many of these friendships you speak of is out of sympathy by the lady or getting a few free gifts.
Of course a guy can be friends with an SP. The issue is when clients say they want to be friends but really want more and get weird about it. While a guy like Titalia's fake online personality could handle it, in real life, especially in a community of men that pays for sex, often the guy becomes obsessive and will turn on the lady when he starts feeling rejected. Lady is dissapointed and feels burned. As for all the guys in here judging you for having a different viewpoint....keep in mind that this forum, like many online communities, is obviously a role-playing outlet for some and having several thousands of posts in an escort forum (any forum actually) does not equal real-life credibility. Sometimes quite the opposite.
Listen to your self, are you even capable of posting in a thread without name calling and generalizations. Nothing in your post adds value to this discussion and is aimed at trying to make others look bad to make you feel good. At least you have all grown up to follow in you daddies footsteps. Way to go, hope you find that bride you've been pondering in the Philippines or Thailand... Lol..and yup we are sad and pathetic losers.
First post does not equal not following all along which I have. Titalia went into his maturity bit and made it about the client (fluffing himself in the process) right from the beginning hence my Phoebe Cates reference.
Yah the loser talk does seem a little redundant haha. That's why I make fun of the guys in here that try to come across as Yodas of sex and relationships. Not really the place for that haha.
Tell us more about these brides in Thailand....
I think we have different views of what a friendship is, to me it is something geniune where a bond is built, not just an artificially built one. What these guys call friendships are just only people they know, I know many people but wouldn't consider them friends, maybe in make believe land they don't tell themselves they're paying for it.
OK, don't disagree with this.
Now the question to answer is what it the actual approximation of clingers vs. decent cleints vs. an actual friends and client relationships.
Is it different for SPs vs. MPAs. Is there really a problem or do we just focus on the negative cases and blow it out of proportions and make it seem like its a majority.
Maybe this thread can serve to help some clients who are clinging but do not recognize.
I think only the SPs and MPAs can answer this best and we are just speculating at best if we try guessing the actual numbers or try to use this thread to shame others...lol
What these gentlemen have to get a handle on is that the service is for "Entertainment" not a substitute for a real relationship. Sorry Amber and other ladies to hear that this has happened.
Guys ...... relax, have some fun and get some...... then leave
Guys ...... relax, have some fun and get some...... then leave
I'm weening myself out of this hobby in part because of a situation precisely like this. I got too close. Both of us contributed to it, both for innocently enough reasons, even honourable ones.
The bottom line is that getting together in this industry is a business relationship, plain and simple. It may involve intimate behaviour but it's still a pre-arranged client/provider relationship.
When stuff like this happens, it's the fault of both parties. To the guys who fall into this trap: get a-hold of yourself and shake it off. If you weren't paying $$$, the woman would have NEVER looked your way (even if off-the-clock encounters happened). To providers, however painful and distressful the result may have been, for some reason the client was given reason to think there was something more when there was none. Find the kill switch quicker next time and have an honest conversation with yourself how it happened in order to prevent it happening again. And no, i don't accept the premise that you can be real friends with each other. Friendly, yes, but there is always an ulterior motive to the friendship by one or both parties.
Rant over.
Quite sure your percentage is inaccurate .. but if that's all you're looking for, why not just use your right (or left) hand ??? You seem quite budget conscious, it's way cheaper LOL !!
