Durham a Wasteland?
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I'll have to save this list. I know Ebony doesn't see black guys based on her ad.
I have to agree with dirkd101. Things have changed quite a bit. Going to have to start looking in adjacent areas for talent. Hate to do the drive, but durham really doesn't have a lot that interests me these days. I'm partial to newer, low mileage, youthful and fit sp's, so it's slim picking. Usually few and far between.
I will say that I prefer phone pics over professional pics as they tend to be a lot more recent, and real. Not partial to sp's who have put on 20+ pounds since the pics were taken. That has thrown me for a loop so bad that I've actually had to stop mid-visit to tell her that " I'm sorry, I'm just not really into this" and leave.
Also have a thing for Asian women but BP is jammed full of scam/bait and switch type ads. Is there not a single low mileage Asian sp who's ads are real?
Rant over, lol!
Ps- I just checked out the York region ads, WTF! !!!! it's like a cornucopia of sp's that I'm interested in. I have been looking in Durham region only for far too long!
I will say that I prefer phone pics over professional pics as they tend to be a lot more recent, and real. Not partial to sp's who have put on 20+ pounds since the pics were taken. That has thrown me for a loop so bad that I've actually had to stop mid-visit to tell her that " I'm sorry, I'm just not really into this" and leave.
Also have a thing for Asian women but BP is jammed full of scam/bait and switch type ads. Is there not a single low mileage Asian sp who's ads are real?
Rant over, lol!
Ps- I just checked out the York region ads, WTF! !!!! it's like a cornucopia of sp's that I'm interested in. I have been looking in Durham region only for far too long!
I think that the apocalypse has finally hit Durham. Reading the thread about Leah, from the trailer in the driveway , to pit bulls and apartments that wouldn't be out of place if they were located in a garbage dump. I have been in the apartments of a few Oshawa area SPs and they were always clean, presentable with no issues of filth and this was when they were younger and starting out. I read now of these young girls starting out and they live in a pig sty. It takes little effort to keep a clean place. I'm also reading how there are people hanging around, bf's/pimps, whatever. This does not lend itself to having a relaxing time, for me it raises my awareness level as my personal well being is first and foremost, so in the end, I'm really not getting what I go for.
On top of all this, just for my own intel, like most of us, I message some of the ladies that I think might interest me, doing my own due diligence in weeding out the riff raff, like the girls who have a base rate and then it's an à la carte menu of sorts and I'm not for that. The most disturbing aspect of this is the fact that without asking, I have been offered unsafe services, which in and of itself just boggles the imagination. Hell, I've been at the hobby a long time and I remember that all bj's were covered and my first body slide at a spa (a well known and major spa north of Toronto) a towel was put between our bodies and now this propensity of many of these ladies to solicit me in this manner, this has happened on numerous occasions.
I have pretty much scaled back my activities, mostly because Durham has become such a wasteland. My mojo hasn't left me, I have just become a better master of my own domain in picking and choosing. I no longer just jump because of who it is, it has to fit my schedule, I no longer throw everything aside. I guess this is what happens when you don't have much of a choice in the area. Hell, if I was downtown or in Mississauga or York I would be going broke, no doubt.
That being said, I think I need to find that one or two....maybe three ladies that I can see when the mood strikes.
I'm liking the look of Jess in Peterborough, she looks like she has a mighty fine frame on her, Brandy in Peterborough has a look that I like, no intel on her, so maybe I need to toftt and Jade Parker's pics look spectacular. A good looking brunette, from what I can discern, with what appears to be as fantastic frame on her. Just what I need to be my muse. Maybe outcalls are going to be my thing in Durham.
On top of all this, just for my own intel, like most of us, I message some of the ladies that I think might interest me, doing my own due diligence in weeding out the riff raff, like the girls who have a base rate and then it's an à la carte menu of sorts and I'm not for that. The most disturbing aspect of this is the fact that without asking, I have been offered unsafe services, which in and of itself just boggles the imagination. Hell, I've been at the hobby a long time and I remember that all bj's were covered and my first body slide at a spa (a well known and major spa north of Toronto) a towel was put between our bodies and now this propensity of many of these ladies to solicit me in this manner, this has happened on numerous occasions.
I have pretty much scaled back my activities, mostly because Durham has become such a wasteland. My mojo hasn't left me, I have just become a better master of my own domain in picking and choosing. I no longer just jump because of who it is, it has to fit my schedule, I no longer throw everything aside. I guess this is what happens when you don't have much of a choice in the area. Hell, if I was downtown or in Mississauga or York I would be going broke, no doubt.
That being said, I think I need to find that one or two....maybe three ladies that I can see when the mood strikes.
I'm liking the look of Jess in Peterborough, she looks like she has a mighty fine frame on her, Brandy in Peterborough has a look that I like, no intel on her, so maybe I need to toftt and Jade Parker's pics look spectacular. A good looking brunette, from what I can discern, with what appears to be as fantastic frame on her. Just what I need to be my muse. Maybe outcalls are going to be my thing in Durham.
Unfortunately I have to agree. I don't want to, but I've had a streak of bad luck and bad experiences lately. It's been a solid half a year since I've walked away from a session going "Damn, I'm going to see that girl again." MPs included.
And when high caliber talent comes in to town (rarely) their prices are through the roof because they know they're raising the averages in Durham just by being there.
Maybe I'm just jaded by my bad luck streak, I dunno. Maybe I'm more upset that any quality talent that works out of durham has either flipped to outcalls only (something I don't have nearly enough trust to deal with) or they barely put up ads anymore.
One thing's for sure, though - every time I drop $100-120 on the table lately, I walk away afterward wishing I could take it back.
And when high caliber talent comes in to town (rarely) their prices are through the roof because they know they're raising the averages in Durham just by being there.
Maybe I'm just jaded by my bad luck streak, I dunno. Maybe I'm more upset that any quality talent that works out of durham has either flipped to outcalls only (something I don't have nearly enough trust to deal with) or they barely put up ads anymore.
One thing's for sure, though - every time I drop $100-120 on the table lately, I walk away afterward wishing I could take it back.
I've been there too many times. It has been too long since I've had a great session, where I've walked away with a grin from ear to ear. A big reason why I'm on the sidelines now.
I agree with shaun and dirk. I have been hobbying far less due only to the good talent drought in Durham Region, definitely not because of a drop in my mojo.
Very interested in sp's like Jade Parker, but with outcall only, and the hotel bill, that puts her in range of a couple of girls that I know, who are not sp's at all. Before you ask, they only see me, lol. Creating an ongoing SD relationship requires alot more work, but there are benefits beyond what the sp's offer.
That being said, I do love the pure simplicity of just contacting an sp. When you leave, thats it.
Very interested in sp's like Jade Parker, but with outcall only, and the hotel bill, that puts her in range of a couple of girls that I know, who are not sp's at all. Before you ask, they only see me, lol. Creating an ongoing SD relationship requires alot more work, but there are benefits beyond what the sp's offer.
That being said, I do love the pure simplicity of just contacting an sp. When you leave, thats it.
Unfortunately, Mike...
Nikki K: Doesn't post anymore, only sees regs. She's said so on another thread. I saw her post a week or so ago, but it was her first post in maybe two months, and she hasn't posted since. I'm not one of her regs, so I don't get to see her.
Spinner: Posts once every two weeks, give or take. Have to hope it collides with my schedule and it usually doesn't
Nikki J: Is she even still in business? She was posting earlier this year but I haven't seen her advertise for at least 4 months.
Hi Guys!!! I haven't been on here for a very long time... once and awhile I pop on to check in and see how everyone is doing!!!! This is a very sad thread!! Sorry to hear that Durham is having a hard time with girls being reliable but I see that the Regular girls are still keeping you all Happy!!! Being an SP is like any business that shows up, some will prosper but others will fail . My Business was amazing , I loved my Job I loved my clients ... you guys treated me with respect and in return you received the same . I thank you for your kind words in this thread and always the great reviews through the years . I do miss you guys , and girls!! Keep smiling ! xo Heather
Heather, good to hear from you!
You are a Hall of Famer because of the way you treated your clients. Great service, great attitude, great lady.
You are a Hall of Famer because of the way you treated your clients. Great service, great attitude, great lady.
No doubt, we need more SPs like Heather. I remember being preoccupied with a few known regulars and never had the time to meet her when she was around. I sincerely regret that.
Good read haven't been on here for a while but sounds like I started the hobby just at the right time.Only used backpage 1 time and the girl that opened the door when I showed up Yikes!!! I'm like WTF? See ya couldn't get out fast enough!! I was lucky enough to be pointed in the right direction by a long timer on this site and can't thank him enough!! Still to this day I see only 1 girl once a week.. She is amaZing and all I need!!I can't imagine having to go through what I saw I mean why would anyone want to spend time with someone that's not even close to what your wife looks like. Again thankyou to the metal man!!
Aaah! Sweetheather and heatherstouch. The last time I saw her was a duo with Kinky Kelsey. Another retired star. I had asked Heather what I could bring to the party. Her answer: Sweetheart, just your sexual energy. And the two ladies deluged me in theirs. Memories etched forever in your ...
