Durham a Wasteland?

[dirkd101]

I peruse the BP ads, a whole lot of nothing. I look in the Durham advertiser's forum and again, a whole lot of nothing. It makes me wonder what has happened in Durham over the years. At one time we had a very vibrant scene, not a big scene, but just right for this area. We had two good agencies and a number of indies to choose from and all was good in Durham. There isn't much here anymore, no good agencies, our good indies are too sporadic and that doesn't always work for me. Hell, I used to be able to make a call and within the hour I'd be with a lovely lady. Now, with most of these BP gals, you can make that same appointment, only to be left languishing in a parking lot, be asked to wait ten minutes, 2 or 3 times, that's if they respond back to you at all.

Man I miss the old days...:frown:

 

[Worf]

I concur. I have been looking on BP for an hour this morning. Texted a lady. No reply. Tons of ads with all kinds of symbols from far and wide. Ads posted many times a day.

 

[summers]

I was never around during these good days. when I ask for recommendations i get the names of girls who live in Pickering but work DT. There are some others but they aren't my type.

 

[dan1982]

Totally agree. Nothing happening. And when the good ladies comes theyre fully booked. Then i look at rork region and downtown but reslistically not possible to sneak a trip down there lol

 

[bolt.upright]

Oh, to live in Mississauga instead!

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Oh, to live in Mississauga instead!

Mississauga is ok if you like your front yard filled with a garage.

 

[taker2ez]

there are lots of good ones out there

some I like more than others

so I frequent them more

 

[bolt.upright]

Mississauga is ok if you like your front yard filled with a garage.

I guess you've never seen my place in Whitby...

 

[dirkd101]

I was never around during these good days. when I ask for recommendations i get the names of girls who live in Pickering but work DT. There are some others but they aren't my type.

You missed some good times.

As far as DT goes, I hate driving down there, it is such a hassle, all the bs of finding parking, thanks, here's my wallet. A 1 hour rendezvous ends up being more like 4 hours in the end, really not doable.

Totally agree. Nothing happening. And when the good ladies comes theyre fully booked. Then i look at york region and downtown but realistically not possible to sneak a trip down there lol

They do book up fast, making it tough for guys like me who have a hard time booking ahead. They book up fast for a reason, they're good at what they do and we live in an area that is void of good SP's or any real SP's for that matter.
York Region is my target area for girls now, I've been doing my homework and when the urge strikes it is much easier to get there, good parking and egress does not take as long as DT. Lot's of good agencies use the area and good BP talent as well.

Oh, to live in Mississauga instead!

Ya, no thanks to that, but they have a lot of SP choice there.

 

[summers]

yeah its easy to get to york by transit, that's why I regularly see CatherineTOG.

 

[Worf]

When I got the urge on Wednesday, I texted a few of the ladies. Also tried to contact Tina by email, since she puts out a ton of Backpage ads. No reply. At least not in the morning when I was trying to set up the afternoon. Then late afternoon/early evening I got some replies, but by then it was too late. The urge went away. As you guys know, when you get DSB you need to get rid of it as soon as possible.

 

[Lily Divine]

I will be honest. I have a wonderful time in Durham, but I seem to be a bit alone with that at times...

The feedback from the women seems to be that there's low balling and time wasters.

I guess I'm okay because I've weeded those out... Though I still disappoint many people with my schedule limitations.

I do keep recommending it to ladies I know. One week there were 6 of us over 6 days with a lot of overlapping. Then nothing for 3 weeks.

 

[dirkd101]

I had the same problem Worf, responses late in the day, that's too late. I also tried Tina, but struck put there. The whole email only thing is too much of a pain.

While I'm on it, do none of these girls know how to take a picture of themselves? Hell, they're marketing a product and the best way to sell that product is with some pictures that actually show what they are selling. Too many ass shots, meh. Too many shots that don't show anything remotely sexy or provocative. Too many pics from behind, ya, nice back... They really need to show something sexy, am I right here? And show what they really have to offer, instead of blurry, crappy photos and way too many ass shots.

 

[thumper18474]

I guess it depends on what you're looking for
I have a few I see out here and are available on a regular basis...but my taste are eclectic so what might be good for me may not be for you...
I do travel into T/O..Sauga ..Markham and the airport but if I'm really in the mood I never fail to hook up with a Durham lady..
And
yeah I have given up on Tina 3 emails with everything she requests and not even a return...fuck off email...
glad she has a 95 % return rate..but if thatis the case why bother advertising? its like she carpet bombs BP durham section!!why if shes so busy???
Its almost like she is testing the waters to see if she is still relevant out here based on the # of emails she gets.....

 

[taker2ez]

here is the thing about Tina

she will contact me asking when I can come see her again, but in the same communication she will tell me how busy she is

 

[cameraboy]

I was away for a couple of years and recently returned. I asked for info on a couple of girls in the 411 section and got zero. All the regular terb advertisers from Durham are gone and backpage is doesn't offer much hope. Like dirk101 said the quality of images is brutal. I am a photographer so this is just brutal to me. Girls that only post a few out of focus cel pics are not helping themselves business wise. Images help sell as well as show us that this is your business and you are professional. 9/10 it seems the reviews here are so fague or negative. When you text the girls they say gfe. When you ask for a menu you get vague responses usually.
Many of us have limited hobby funds and to through money away on a Durham backpage ad is pretty risky. Heather and Sexyspinner provided consistent quality service. Heather has retired and Sexyspinner may have as well or is taking the summer off. Most of the established Toronto Sp's advertise here on terb or have webpages to go along with their backpage ads. You can go there and get links to reviews, see quality images and usually get a menu list. I am not saying you won't find a gem out here but, with the lack of quality reviews I will have to continue going to see women like Catherine Tog. I hate the drive to Yonge & 401 and the $10 for parking but, at least my $200 fee goes towards a quality experience each and every time.

 

[thumper18474]

There are a couple from C/E who have been getting alot of press lately
Charlotte is a very good go to lady
Durhams Candi
Ebony Princess
Amy
Heidi &Nikki When they decide to come out and play
Looks like Jackie is back too based on her BP ad today
there ARE some very good providers out here
it just depends on who and what you ae looking for

 

[bogieboy]

I couldn't agree more. I am not at all interested in BIG BOOTIE. MASSiVE BREASTS. I guess it's just not what I seek in a SP. And low restrictions... Hmmm.... I'm it going near that but good to know lol. Give me HWP attractive lady. One in classy lingerie. And I love the pics. Many ads are great but then there are the ones where the First pic is a teaser, but as I scroll down with each new photo it seems like they add 10+ lbs.

We had some gems. And yes the good ones do book up fast but I don't want to be the 8th appt of the day ... For a few reasons.

York does have a better selection. You can be at Woodbine and Highway 7 in 30 mins. Yeah would be nice if it was someone local only 10 mins away but some days it is worth the drive.

And the new ads list every city and town in Durham region. So you're never quite sure where they are unless you ask. Maybe that is better for them so as to not be a dead giveaway but a general idea would be better.

 

[dirkd101]

Out of focus a jiggling ass video clip, pictures that are old (10-15 lbs old) or borrowed pictures are de rigueur on BP. And that seems to make up the majority of the Durham BP section.

 

[bandit2238]

There are a couple from C/E who have been getting alot of press lately
Charlotte is a very good go to lady
Durhams Candi
Ebony Princess
Amy
Heidi &Nikki When they decide to come out and play
Looks like Jackie is back too based on her BP ad today
there ARE some very good providers out here
it just depends on who and what you ae looking for

Do you have a link for Ebony Princess?