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Perry Mason

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OK... this is a question I have had in mind for a long time ...

I fully understand BBBJ, and I also well understand CIM... because these are "about me," my sensations...

But what is it about swallow?

It doesn't do anything for me, as such... is it about some aspect of domination or humiliation?

I can understand it if the lady [or gent? :Eek:] likes it in the sense that I "like" DATY: and I am told some men taste very good.

But why do so many guys request or demand it? What's the attraction?

Ladies? Do you have any opinions?

Perry
 
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I never request it, but I won't say no to it.
Actually I had an SO years ago that really, really, REALLY loved it... we would actually debate about where I should cum, because I'm really into cumming inside my partner, and she always wanted to swallow as much as she could... sigh, first world problems.
 
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Its a personal preference for some..
If she does CIM and no swallow..it kinda kills the mood if she all of a sudden jumps up to run and spit it out and you're left laying there with a cum soaked dick
the COF/COB..is a visual thing for some guys and if the lady doesnt have to take it in her mouth ,all the better for her..although she will eventually have to clean up,
Snowballing can be a hot exchange if you're into that

But the CIMSW to me is the ultimate feeling of her accepting you,
 
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Perry Mason said:
I fully understand BBBJ, and I also well understand CIM... because these are "about me," my sensations...

But what is it about swallow?

It doesn't do anything for me, as such... is it about some aspect of domination or humiliation?
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No - I don't agree on both points. DATY is as much about her as it is for me and the mutual enjoyment of BBBJ is the same for most of my lovers. If there isn't a swallow - then there must be a spit and suddenly a warm romantic moment becomes a 'get this disgusting stuff out of my mouth'. I don't force my lovers to swallow but there is an obvious additional warmth to our love session when she does swallow.
 
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james t kirk

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I like it for a lot of reasons.

First and foremost, I love women who are very sexual, kinky and horny and nothing signifies all of the above like swallowing semen.

Second, it shows that she's not squeamish about sex.

Third, there is an element of humiliation to it and I like that. (And before anyone flames that statement, I will be the first to admit that I enjoy being humiliated from time to time as well too. I can't explain it, I just do.)

Fourth, if you're going to suck a cock, the objective is to take the cum and swallowing it demonstrates to me that she loves the cock and I love women who are honest and open about sex. A horny woman is a complete turn on.
 
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james t kirk said:
I like it for a lot of reasons.

First and foremost, I love women who are very sexual, kinky and horny and nothing signifies all of the above like swallowing semen.

Second, it shows that she's not squeamish about sex.

Third, there is an element of humiliation to it and I like that. (And before anyone flames that statement, I will be the first to admit that I enjoy being humiliated from time to time as well too. I can't explain it, I just do.)

Fourth, if you're going to suck a cock, the objective is to take the cum and swallowing it demonstrates to me that she loves the cock and I love women who are honest and open about sex. A horny woman is a complete turn on.
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Its not every woman's cup of tea especially with strangers, but that doesn't 't make them any less sexual or horny. Where did you come up with this crap? Don't tell me. Porno.
 
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Titalian

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Perry Mason said:
OK... this is a question I have had in mind for a long time ...

I fully understand BBBJ, and I also well understand CIM... because these are "about me," my sensations...

But what is it about swallow?

It doesn't do anything for me, as such... is it about some aspect of domination or humiliation?

I can understand it if the lady [or gent? :Eek:] likes it in the sense that I "like" DATY: and I am told some men taste very good.

But why do so many guys request or demand it? What's the attraction?

Ladies? Do you have any opinions?

Perry
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Your right Perry, I don't see the point either, but I believe a certain level of humiliation does play a role here as mentioned
by another poster. I always thought the act of sex, was to pleasure your partner, not humiliate them. :confused:
 
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Titalian said:
Its not every woman's cup of tea especially with strangers, but that doesn't 't make them any less sexual or horny. Where did you come up with this crap? Don't tell me. Porno.
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I have to agree "squeamish about sex" it has nothing to do with being squeamish about sex you do realize that some of you don't have the greatest tasting cum in the world. Would you swallow something that tasted completely aweful to you I don't think so.. Nevertheless swallow is something I do and I hold back the feeling of trying to throw up because some guys cums oh boy just taste really really horrible the taste of your cum it all depends on your lifestyle whether you eat healthy or you smoke a lot and don't eat healthy
 
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Titalian said:
Your right Perry, I don't see the point either, but I believe a certain level of humiliation does play a role here as mentioned
by another poster. I always thought the act of sex, was to pleasure your partner, not humiliate them. :confused:
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I think the humiliation/domination aspect of it plays more a role than even those who claim it's about intimacy will admit. Most escorts don't lay there and wallow in post-coital bliss after you cum in a condom inside their pussies either, they get up and clean you off, so it's not really any different than them getting up to spit. When they come back and cuddle up after that is where the intimacy comes in, I find.
 
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james t kirk

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Titalian said:
Its not every woman's cup of tea especially with strangers, but that doesn't 't make them any less sexual or horny. Where did you come up with this crap? Don't tell me. Porno.
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Oh man, where to start with a guy like you......

First off, spare me your bullshit judgement. My sexual personae is so far removed from yours, you aren't even on the same planet as me. I make no apologies to you about my "crap". So take a look around as to what site you are on and get off your high horse.

Perry asked a question (and frankly, Perry is one interesting cat to me. I've have read his posts over the years and I KNOW that he is every bit as much a kinky fucker as I am. (In fact, he's such a kinky fucker (and god bless him) that I wonder why he posted such a vanilla like thread as this in the first place)) and I responded as to my thoughts. Thoughts which just rock your little white bread vanilla judgmental world obviously.

I've had a lot of varied and interesting sex over the years. From mild to wild to over the top.

Here's the thing......

I've pretty much enjoyed it all. All vanilla sex all the time bores the shit out of me.

It has nothing to do with "porno" and everything to do with who the hell I am. (For better or for worse.) I make no apologies to you or anyone else frankly.
 
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james t kirk

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Titalian said:
Your right Perry, I don't see the point either, but I believe a certain level of humiliation does play a role here as mentioned
by another poster. I always thought the act of sex, was to pleasure your partner, not humiliate them. :confused:
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And what if your partner enjoys being sexually humiliated?

Ever think of that one?

Maybe the women (woman?) you've been with over the years knew that you were too judgemental and uptight to ever ask you for anything but lights off perfunctory sex.
 
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Titalian

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james t kirk said:
And what if your partner enjoys being sexually humiliated?

Ever think of that one?

Maybe the women (woman?) you've been with over the years knew that you were too judgemental and uptight to ever ask you for anything but lights off perfunctory sex.
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First of all I would not be with a partner that enjoys being humiliated. Just not my style.
And if you took the time to read my reviews you,d understand that I do enjoy bbbj and cim
But swallow really does nothing for me, so maybe you can call my relations with women
Milk chocolate rather than vanilla.

Lights off? again where do you come up with this crap, I've been with women you could only dream
Of being with, why would I want the lights off? There are many enjoyable
Aspects to the act of sex and worshiping her body is one big turn on for me especially
If she is enjoying it. This is miles away from humiliation. But again I guess we are
All different. What ever turns your crank Captain.

Oh and btw, why don't you read what darkcoco (who posted above) has to say about this sensual act.
 
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Personally, I find a good hork (sp?) to be romantic
 
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