Hobbying is more efficient than Dating.

[Titalian]

Just finished watching the movie "Shame". Thanks for recommending it.

Yeah that's totally becoming me. Although I'm not so sure where the film was going with things.

After listening to you through 61 posts you sound very immature to me, so I guess my question becomes have you yourself ever been
in a true and serious relationship, The only comparison you bring up is that of your parents and their relationship which I believe is
unfair to them as you were not there when they first met. Let me give you some insight its not all about sexual gratification but
about sharing and commitment to each other especially when there are children involved. I'm not saying that sex is not important
but it does take a back seat when it comes to priorities such as these. At least that was what I was taught by my parents. Being myself
single this escorting thing which I enjoy, is just a stepping stone for me, until I can find someone hopefully that I can be serious with.
What ever you do, don't make this your life. Fulfillment is what any true mortal is looking for and sex is only part of the equation.

 

[frankcastle]

Definitely a great way to get kinky sex.

But the problem i find is that civilian girls become boring.

If you are interested in a relationship in the nesr future i think moderation of hobbying would be a good move.

I look at it a bit like fast food..... convenient but not good for you in large doses.

 

[x1949x]

Definitely a great way to get kinky sex.

But the problem i find is that civilian girls become boring.

If you are interested in a relationship in the nesr future i think moderation of hobbying would be a good move.

I look at it a bit like fast food..... convenient but not good for you in large doses.

I agree. Hobbying, like you said, it is a tasty fast food. If you consume moderately, it makes you happy without harming you.

Having the option to pay for sex takes the edge of a man. Most guys don't know about hobbying and think we are banging streetwalker.

If you just want to date for sex, then hobbying is definitely cheaper and more efficient.

 

[Insidious Von]

Think I'm going to watch that movie. Looking at the trailer looks like that is becoming like me. Fuck I even jog allot!

waynward, you're better of watching Alfie (the Michael Caine version) than Shame, you're not going to like how Brandon's life plays out. It's a cautionary tale, he's halfway to Patrick Bateman territory.

 

[Laird]

For me (and most pooners) it's not a matter of efficiency but rather attainability. I'm 27, have a full head of hair, and am very lean. Unfortunately I live in a time and place where my female equivalent will only put out for male model types. And since traveling abroad to find a girlfriend isn't an option right now, I'm forced to pay.

 

[mrexcite]

I will give you a quick rundown of my personal history: was a casual hobbyist, always enjoyed it. Fell for a provider (and she did as well) back in December that screwed my head up. I was vunerable because 1) she was hot, had a crazy personal story and we shared a few things in common 2) I wasn't getting it on the home front.

I snapped out of it, treated myself to four women in three weeks (about the amount I would normally do in three years) and got my shit together. I'm now giving up this hobby because I realize at my age: 40ish, kiddies and a wife that is still hot, it was slowly killing my relationship.

Bottom line: once this hobby becomes anything more than an occasional diversion - either a substitute for a real relationship, or your sole source of sex - then you're on a slippery slope to no good. I was going one way. I hate to say it but you're going the other - you've got to try and find a happy medium.

Parting advice: go find that Asian girl's number and ask her to meet you for a drink.

 

[TeasePlease]

For me (and most pooners) it's not a matter of efficiency but rather attainability. I'm 27, have a full head of hair, and am very lean. Unfortunately I live in a time and place where my female equivalent will only put out for male model types. And since traveling abroad to find a girlfriend isn't an option right now, I'm forced to pay.

You live in LA?

I've heard guys complain about this in TO. I honestly don't understand. I'll bet you're trolling the wrong pond.

 

[Worthing_Frodo2560]

You live in LA?

I've heard guys complain about this in TO. I honestly don't understand. I'll bet you're trolling the wrong pond.

How old are you? Approximately. I'm asking because you sound like you are getting laid with civilians a lot. Please give us tips to be like you in getting laid with the civilians part.