Some questions for the gents:
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Absolute worst is not being clean, followed closely by smelling bad.
Best is a really good deepthroat.
Timbit
My $0.02
Best is a really good deepthroat.
Timbit
My $0.02
Ask about my marital status.....Huge turn off... even in chit chat... thats why I'm seeing the sp or mpa, or dancer....don't go there... biggest turn on...just be interested...
Agreed. Asking about marital status is a turn off.
Machine gun funk in the lady zone is a real problem too...bad breath, stinky pits; malodorous zones in general are probably the biggest no-no
Anything to do with their phone after notifying whoever that you have arrived.
Over the top fakeness can be very distracting too. I get it, I'm the greatest thing in the world and so far I've barely even touched you...relax.
Machine gun funk in the lady zone is a real problem too...bad breath, stinky pits; malodorous zones in general are probably the biggest no-no
Anything to do with their phone after notifying whoever that you have arrived.
Over the top fakeness can be very distracting too. I get it, I'm the greatest thing in the world and so far I've barely even touched you...relax.
Turn off..texting during session.
Turn on...being greeted at the door with big kiss, big smile, big hug
biggest turn off, talking about your boyfriend. (this has happened to me a few times)
Biggest turn on, just being nice and genuine.
Biggest turn on, just being nice and genuine.
From the start, being rude on the phone or short terse texts. In the room, attitude like shes doing me a favor, no smile, bad hygiene, calling me names like hun or sweety or stud
Turn ons would be, engaging, cheerful, a little dirty talk, slightly submissive, intimacy,(or at least the pretense) and a little pillow talk after.
Turn ons would be, engaging, cheerful, a little dirty talk, slightly submissive, intimacy,(or at least the pretense) and a little pillow talk after.
Turn off:
Upselling (except greek)
Poor communication
Poor hygiene
Badly Misrepresenting age.
Phone not turned OFF
Upselling (except greek)
Poor communication
Poor hygiene
Badly Misrepresenting age.
Phone not turned OFF
SP usually request that us guys shower before a session which is fine. We all want to be fresh I would think. But how often do,the ladies shower after a session? I once was having a nice session with a great SP some years back. We were kissing etc I went to her ample boobs but to my horror could smell.TASTE the bitter cigarette smell of her previous client!
I almost puked. Got up and said sorry, I couldn't go through with it !keep!the money and told her you might want to shower before your next client and left.
I almost puked. Got up and said sorry, I couldn't go through with it !keep!the money and told her you might want to shower before your next client and left.
For me, the turn offs are - bad breath, poor hygiene, poor attitude such as acting as if she's too good for you, no enthusiasm ie., not totally into it. There was a lady who refused to use gum and she thought her breath was fine using other breath-freshener, but it was not. Another visiting lady took it so casually that her breath smelled like she had not freshened up after getting up from her bed.
I just love it when the lady gives me a big welcoming smile, a hug and some passionate kisses. She'll get my repeat business when she gives me full attention, treats me with lots of enthusiasm, and if she's a non-clockwatcher.
I just love it when the lady gives me a big welcoming smile, a hug and some passionate kisses. She'll get my repeat business when she gives me full attention, treats me with lots of enthusiasm, and if she's a non-clockwatcher.
Appearance and hygiene aside, biggest turn-off is a general lousy disinterested or distracted attitude.
Sometimes things turn around quite nicely once both unclothed, but a lousy attitude at the door is often a harbinger of a bad session to come.
Sometimes things turn around quite nicely once both unclothed, but a lousy attitude at the door is often a harbinger of a bad session to come.
Turn off - any hygiene problem. Obviously high or drunk. Disinterested. Scams me out of time, even if it's just 5 minutes.
Turn on - seems to like me, affectionate.
The biggest turn on is when SHE offers to pay ME for the session, but this has never yet happened. (I am still hoping though.)
I don't mind a girl talking about her rlbf when I have seen her a few times and we are fuck-buddies. In fact, it's weird and fake for her to pretend that she's single month after month. OTOH, I recall a girl telling me on the first call that the reason that she was in the business was because her ex had fathered a child on her and then disappeared and she needed to fuck me for $$ to buy diapers and formula for the baby. Now there is NO WAY IN HELL that I thought she was sexy after that anecdote.
Turn on - seems to like me, affectionate.
The biggest turn on is when SHE offers to pay ME for the session, but this has never yet happened. (I am still hoping though.)
I don't mind a girl talking about her rlbf when I have seen her a few times and we are fuck-buddies. In fact, it's weird and fake for her to pretend that she's single month after month. OTOH, I recall a girl telling me on the first call that the reason that she was in the business was because her ex had fathered a child on her and then disappeared and she needed to fuck me for $$ to buy diapers and formula for the baby. Now there is NO WAY IN HELL that I thought she was sexy after that anecdote.
Turn-off: Hygienically-challenged kitty. Bad smell/taste experience was the only time I ever ended a session early.
Turn-on: Treat me like we're friends being naughty!
Turn-on: Treat me like we're friends being naughty!
