Its a self selecting sample. The ones still getting married now (despite prevalent cohabitation) are the same kinds of people who would have never gotten divorced in the past.
The sexodus: Men giving up on women and checking out
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my only point about declining divorce rates is that there are still people happily getting married and making it work
and that's a great way of outlining the rationalizing that the guy having trouble getting laid would make...... I see people do this all the time ...... oh it is too hard...... it is not fair
too bad life is neither easy nor fair
did anyone else notice the part on women giving up on monogamy? is there proof of this
If you are a men that it. Look dude. Women can bang up (sleep with guys who are more attractive then they are). Guys cant. They must always get whats below their level of attractiveness. So add porn and escorts to the mix. You have options to bang up. Also young guy has nothing to bring to the table, hes broke. He lacks confidence/experience, and he hasn't been hardened by adversity at that point. The women at his age are more physically beautiful than they will ever be in their lives. Its an up hill battle for him.
I like this guys advice. It makes sense. "disregard women, acquire a life"
Marriage for men is a lot of risk with very little pay off. Schools are indeed geared to women. And traditionally masculine behaviour is frowned upon. So he's got those parts right.
Not exactly sure that women have given up on monogamy; they just altered the rules! And that's fine. The dynamic between men and women has changed. Some of it for the better, some of it not so much. I honestly don't know why any man would get married, and that's kind of sad.
Not exactly sure that women have given up on monogamy; they just altered the rules! And that's fine. The dynamic between men and women has changed. Some of it for the better, some of it not so much. I honestly don't know why any man would get married, and that's kind of sad.
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Published on Mar 29, 2012
Author Michael Gurian is the author of "The Minds of Boys", which is an explanation of why boys are failing at school. He researched schools in 35 countries to find out why girls were outstripping boys. He believes the reason lies mainly with the learning differences of the two genders which are pre-determined by structural differences in the brain. Girls have a greater capacity for verbal skills, which encompass reading, writing and speaking, while boys have a natural advantage with spatial/mechanical skills. (Originally aired October 2006.)
hasn't school always been like this..... why are we just learning about this in the 2000s
look there has always been people with advantages....... I would much rather be a white male in a first world country than a minority woman in a third world country.... hell wven a first world country
whining about how hard it is to get laid without pay is missing all the other great things we enjoy here in Canada
whining about how hard it is to get laid without pay is missing all the other great things we enjoy here in Canada
Its called "branching up" or serial monogamy. Men are polygamous and women are serial monogamists by nature if we look at things evolutionary perspective.
Men count bangs, women count boyfriends: http://caloriecount.about.com/forums/the-lounge/ex-boyfriends/page/3
really how old are technical high schools and vocational schools.... pretty sire they were around in the 60s
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lori-day/why-boys-are-failing-in-a_b_884262.html
How Schools Could Honor Who Boys Are
Simple changes to the pace and tempo of the school day, such as incorporating several brief recesses throughout the day, devoting more time to physical education, and including more hands-on activities go a long way towards alleviating some of the natural restlessness of boys and harnessing male energy in positive ways. How much Ritalin could remain on the shelves if we created schools that are ready for boys rather than boys who are ready for schools?
Just as we collectively addressed the needs of girls over the past couple of decades and made great strides in closing their achievement gaps in math and science, let us now turn our attention to our nation's boys and take equally deliberate steps to assure their success in school and in life. The revolution in brain science over the past fifteen years gives us the knowledge and the tools we need to do this, and we must, for as a society we are setting our boys up to fail in a system that is stacked against them, stacked against the very way they are neurologically wired.
This is not to say that social and cultural influences are not contributing factors to who boys are today, but we now have medical evidence, once elusive, that illuminates the very significant role biology plays in male/female brain development and learning. Parents and teachers need to become better educated about how boys and girls really are different, and how to best meet the needs of each. Particularly relevant to this discussion is the theory of "natural learning," which takes for granted that a learner is a whole person -- a living system -- and that every aspect of a person, boy or girl, contributes to his or her learning.
How Schools Could Honor Who Boys Are
Simple changes to the pace and tempo of the school day, such as incorporating several brief recesses throughout the day, devoting more time to physical education, and including more hands-on activities go a long way towards alleviating some of the natural restlessness of boys and harnessing male energy in positive ways. How much Ritalin could remain on the shelves if we created schools that are ready for boys rather than boys who are ready for schools?
Just as we collectively addressed the needs of girls over the past couple of decades and made great strides in closing their achievement gaps in math and science, let us now turn our attention to our nation's boys and take equally deliberate steps to assure their success in school and in life. The revolution in brain science over the past fifteen years gives us the knowledge and the tools we need to do this, and we must, for as a society we are setting our boys up to fail in a system that is stacked against them, stacked against the very way they are neurologically wired.
This is not to say that social and cultural influences are not contributing factors to who boys are today, but we now have medical evidence, once elusive, that illuminates the very significant role biology plays in male/female brain development and learning. Parents and teachers need to become better educated about how boys and girls really are different, and how to best meet the needs of each. Particularly relevant to this discussion is the theory of "natural learning," which takes for granted that a learner is a whole person -- a living system -- and that every aspect of a person, boy or girl, contributes to his or her learning.
How did all the male engineers, doctors and lawyers cope in the past.
I will be sure to give my surgeon a recess before he works on me
Sorry i am just messing with you. There is a difference between boys and girls but i often wonder how much is biological.
I mean right from a young age there is a difference in expectations for behaviour. Even look at how we play with boys vs girls.
Humans were not meant to be monogamous. Emotional monogamy is different however.yes. I'm living proof
I too like my lovers, one hour at a time.:thumb:
I stand proud as a bra burner, feminism is the reason women are increasing their ranks in business. So buck up men, and move aside lol
Femininity comes from within, it isnt' taught, it simply is. similar to being sexy. have you ever seen a women with no make up on, nails not done, in shaggie clothes and you are attracted to her. It is because she is in touch with her feminine and her sexuality.
What ranks in business? Women cant even ask men out. Are they really willing to risk rejection after rejection to get that elusive contract? Cmon. Men are primed from birth, to go after what they want and endure hardship to get it. Women wait around for things to fall into their laps.
This year, 34 women were added to the 2013 Forbes list of the world’s wealthiest people. Although this is definitely a step up (you go girls), the majority of the list is made up of men. Of the 1,426 people on the new 2013 Forbes list of the World’s Billionaires, a whopping 138 are women. Awesome. To make this momentous occasion even better, only 1 of the 20 richest women in the world didn’t inherit her money from a man.
http://bust.com/all-but-1-of-the-wo...erited-their-money-from-a-man-frownyface.html
The easiest way to frustrate a woman who wants you to treat her like a queen is to get a laid a lot. When your scrotum is drained the desire to have her as another notch on your belt becomes insignificant. After all, you know that her pussy is no different than the dozens you've already fucked. Your cavalier attitude in response to her teases and lead-ons become immediately noticeable to her. Women get incredibly frustrated when they can't use sex as a tool for power. Her reaction will be myriad and contradictory - she will be upset with you, yet want to have sex with you more. Sex is usually the ONLY tool in their arsenal. I suppose it's because outside of sex, men and women have very little in common.
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