I suspect I am part of the majority: Married, kids, lack of sex at home led me to this hobby. Professional worker so if I get any kind of criminal conviction, I would not be able to ever do what I do now, which I really like doing.
So when I hear people say it will be fine and no need to worry, i get it but this is the kind of event that is a game changer and the shame/embarrasment of being convicted would be hell. If just my wife just found out about my hobby, that would not be so bad....job is fine, not everyone would know and I could maybe save my marriage or rebuild after that if she left me. But conviction is another ball game.
So my next steps are to lay low. Might just sit on the sidelines for a couple of months. But for now, the risk/reward is just not worth it for me. Will still be on TERB but just lurking to see what is happening.
What are you doing and why?
So when I hear people say it will be fine and no need to worry, i get it but this is the kind of event that is a game changer and the shame/embarrasment of being convicted would be hell. If just my wife just found out about my hobby, that would not be so bad....job is fine, not everyone would know and I could maybe save my marriage or rebuild after that if she left me. But conviction is another ball game.
So my next steps are to lay low. Might just sit on the sidelines for a couple of months. But for now, the risk/reward is just not worth it for me. Will still be on TERB but just lurking to see what is happening.
What are you doing and why?