The experience is always better. But scheduling seems to get more difficult.
And for me at least, scheduling is key. So I tried someone new.
And for me at least, scheduling is key. So I tried someone new.
Does experience with sp get worse with repeat visits?
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Well thats going to be a tough act to followI just got home from the most awesome third visit with a gent .... and if he says it doesn't get better each time I'll eat my fucking hat
I'm still twitching ...
If you find an SP you hit it off really well with stick with her ,I find they will develop a trust and comfort with you and they will try more sexual things with you, and after a while they will never look at the clock ,it will be like a sex date you can be there for hours as long as her phone do,nt ring .
My answers to the OP's question are Yes and No.
One beautiful lady whom I had seen a few times provided me with less and less enjoyable time and made less effort to please me. I felt that she was taking my liking and fond of her for granted. When I found out that she charged me more than other customers, I said enough is enough, and stopped seeing her.
On the other hand, there's one fine lady whom I have been seeing for the last few years. With her, I don't feel any complacency on her part - she treats me well each and every time. The more I see her, the more I connect with and trust her -- and I think the feeling is mutual.
One beautiful lady whom I had seen a few times provided me with less and less enjoyable time and made less effort to please me. I felt that she was taking my liking and fond of her for granted. When I found out that she charged me more than other customers, I said enough is enough, and stopped seeing her.
On the other hand, there's one fine lady whom I have been seeing for the last few years. With her, I don't feel any complacency on her part - she treats me well each and every time. The more I see her, the more I connect with and trust her -- and I think the feeling is mutual.
Over the years I saw the same mpa every couple weeks and it got better and better...I'll leave it at that, in between I saw others, and good times were had, usually higher milage than most, but it became apparent you reach a plateau with those mpa's you dont totally click with. Sometimes, in conversations I had with a few of them, they turn down the milage on customers they want to "fire" without being rude, and then are given a bad rep. So if you see your mileage dwindle, take the hint and move on....dont blame the girls... and just find a new mpa or sp...
You should because every visit gets better and better can not wait to see you againI just got home from the most awesome third visit with a gent .... and if he says it doesn't get better each time I'll eat my fucking hat
I'm still twitching ...
Need to get better at planning.Interesting topic. If the OP is seeing declining service on subsequent visits, he's seeing the wrong ladies. The opposite should be the rule every time. As you get to know someone, the chemistry should get better. if it doesn't I won't be back again. As you peel the onion, it should be getting more fun, more intense, more satisfying.
What chaps my ass is when the lady starts taking it for granted and then you have to start over with someone new.
What chaps my ass is when the lady starts taking it for granted and then you have to start over with someone new.
Speaking of which, I hooked up with one lady tonight that I had seen twice before through an agency. I suspected that there was a connection between her and I. But I wasn't sure.
She has recently, gone indy, and I caught her ad on Bp. It had been awhile since I'd seen her last, maybe 3 months, but she remembered me. So I booked with her and
my suspicions were answered. The session I had with this lady today, was way beyond the past sessions, which were good. She did explain to me afterwards that yes, she did feel
comfortable with me, and that this sort of thing dosen't happen frequentely. Was she fibbing, well after that session, I don't think so. Connections and repeats are important to me,
because, I beleive, this is the way you create chemistry between client and provider. Even though it is a fantasy, It makes it so much more real !
She has recently, gone indy, and I caught her ad on Bp. It had been awhile since I'd seen her last, maybe 3 months, but she remembered me. So I booked with her and
my suspicions were answered. The session I had with this lady today, was way beyond the past sessions, which were good. She did explain to me afterwards that yes, she did feel
comfortable with me, and that this sort of thing dosen't happen frequentely. Was she fibbing, well after that session, I don't think so. Connections and repeats are important to me,
because, I beleive, this is the way you create chemistry between client and provider. Even though it is a fantasy, It makes it so much more real !
What makes it wonderful is when the sp is just as happy to repeat with the client as he is with her.Then its great !
Let me try to keep things in perspective here. This lady is not exactly a spring chicken at 36 years old. But
just maybe that was the cause of the connection. I have to admit, I do luv mature women, without a doubt !!!!
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I'd say it depends on circumstances.
Some guys get more complacent and let hygiene slide, some push the boundaries even further on repeat visits and turning off escorts.
Some ladies will take a regular for granted and make less of an effort to please.
Good idea to move on if this happens.
Some guys get more complacent and let hygiene slide, some push the boundaries even further on repeat visits and turning off escorts.
Some ladies will take a regular for granted and make less of an effort to please.
Good idea to move on if this happens.
I have no clue what hygeine has to with this, but my guess is, it depends who you are seeing and who she is seeing!!
Taking regular clients for granted?? As far as my expierence goes, I have never had that problem, not yet anyways.
Cause I treat them all with respect !!
Oh, ok, so a 39 year old woman is defined as a "mature" woman. That's what I thought too. But it was explained to me by another member recently, that a 20 year old is defined as a mature woman in the sex industry...
So confused.
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It depends on the escorts. I use to see one once a month or twice for the past 2 years and I always enjoyed my sessions with her. Service never improved or got worse but her positive attitude stayed the same.
On the other hand there is someone I still been seeing since 2012 but not every month
She never got better but has gotten a little worse as in she will have some kind of reason not to do something I always request. Over time I got bored of her non sense but I do still see her just once every few months.
On the other hand there is someone I still been seeing since 2012 but not every month
She never got better but has gotten a little worse as in she will have some kind of reason not to do something I always request. Over time I got bored of her non sense but I do still see her just once every few months.
Without reading all the other post in this thread, my two cents are this:
It's always going to be different depending on the SP herself, and the client. So I'm sure the answers in this thread have been everything from A-Z.
For me, I've been seeing the same SP now for about 13 years and the service has never dropped, so I kept seeing her. We also just click really well, so I'm sure that helps.
It's always going to be different depending on the SP herself, and the client. So I'm sure the answers in this thread have been everything from A-Z.
For me, I've been seeing the same SP now for about 13 years and the service has never dropped, so I kept seeing her. We also just click really well, so I'm sure that helps.
I have found my greatest sessions are with clients I've seen multiple times. I have several clients that I have been seeing for almost a decade and I consistently love playing with them. The OP mentions a reduction of services and I have found that boils down to two things for me. Hygiene and action. I will suck it up the first time if a client arrives with bad breath and declines the mouthwash available. If he refuses the second visit, kissing is a challenge and instinctively we move away from things that are not appealing. Action also plays a part. I have had my tongue bitten with DFK, copious amounts of saliva tidal waved down my throat and kisses so hard, I actually could not breath. Like turned blue and had to forcibly push the guy off me. It always amazes me how often a guest has never learned how to kiss a new partner. It's like dancing, someone has to lead and it's wise in this case to let the lady do so unless there are prenegotiated power dynamics at hand. These are the kind of things that will result in a guest seeing decreased service on our next visit.
The same applies to other interactions but for me they become more action focused than hygiene. Anal with someone who has no clue what they are doing is tolerable the first time it happens but if he isn't willing to read the body language or listen to the verbal directions, it comes off the table the next visit. Anal can also be a bodily function issue. Sometimes it just can't be done. Daty that leaves teeth imprints on my lady bits, clitoral abuse or such sever stubble burn that it requires neosporin for a week will result in it not being offered the next time.
There is almost always a reason a provider cuts back services and it's up to the client to ask or figure it out. I prefer someone ask if I haven't made it clear. Good providers know that repeat guests are our bread and butter but I would rather go without working than see a client that doesn't get the fact that just because he's paying doesn't mean his behaviour and hygiene isn't going to impact his mileage. The best thing to do is communicate with your provider and clarify what the issue is. Often it is easily correctable...
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The same applies to other interactions but for me they become more action focused than hygiene. Anal with someone who has no clue what they are doing is tolerable the first time it happens but if he isn't willing to read the body language or listen to the verbal directions, it comes off the table the next visit. Anal can also be a bodily function issue. Sometimes it just can't be done. Daty that leaves teeth imprints on my lady bits, clitoral abuse or such sever stubble burn that it requires neosporin for a week will result in it not being offered the next time.
There is almost always a reason a provider cuts back services and it's up to the client to ask or figure it out. I prefer someone ask if I haven't made it clear. Good providers know that repeat guests are our bread and butter but I would rather go without working than see a client that doesn't get the fact that just because he's paying doesn't mean his behaviour and hygiene isn't going to impact his mileage. The best thing to do is communicate with your provider and clarify what the issue is. Often it is easily correctable...
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