Does experience with sp get worse with repeat visits?

[stinkynuts]

I only repeated a few times in my life, as this hobby is all about variety. Unfortunately, the ladies I have repeated with turned worse with each session. They became, I guess, less cautious about satisfying me, and meeting my needs. You know the saying, "familiarity breeds contempt"? I have found that they take you for granted, and their service levels decline. Most memorable was Leo/Dominique. First session was amazing: lots of DFK and she worked hard to satisfy me. On the third session, she moved her head away from me when I tried to kiss her as we were doing missionary. She did not let me do greek (which she normally does), and she complained about a lot of things.

I have some sps I really like, but am afraid to repeat with them, as I feel I will just be disappointed. Any observations? Your experience?

 

[fmcgrew]

I have only repeated twice.

First girl was amazing the first time DT,BLS, CIM, none of that on the second trip but I was also the first client of the day vs the last on the second visit so it could have been that.

Second girl was good the first time and amazing the second, more open and she even remembered everything we talked about 4 weeks earlier.

So 50/50 I guess.

 

[stinkynuts]

Thanks for sharing your experience. I guess it depends on the lady.

 

[Titalian]

There are a few ladies, I have repeated with, one I've been seeing for a couple of years now, and service has never changed, in fact sometimes its better!
I guess it's due to their hornyness at the time lol. I'd say its about the connection you have with them. jmt

 

[DanJ]

Most of the girls I repeat with a third time, the second has been as good or better than the first. I only have 4 girls I have seen more than 3 times, one of them about 15, one 8, 5 and 4. One of them has sort of gotten a bit complacent with my willingness to be flexible with her scheduling. But she is still awesome during the session. And I really like her, so I put up with the "Hey, can we change to tomorrow night instead" type of things. As annoying as they are.

 

[LisbethNova]

Thanks for sharing your experience. I guess it depends on the lady.

You guys need to stop thinking that you guys as clients are all the same. In reality it is about the lady maybe but also its about the client and the kind of relationship he's looking for. Plenty of clients would rather rapport with a lady and feel comfortable as time goes on. This relationship may grow, or it may not. Other guys, like yourselves see ladies more like a box of chocolates and you want to try them all. Not all clients are like this.

Different strokes for different folks.

 

[Celticman]

I have never had a declining experience when I have repeated.

 

[Mr Deeds]

It gets soooooooo much better the second time. Your much more comfortable with each other. How ever IMNOHO the nature of the hobbyist is to seek variety, so unless there's some serious chemistry or the lady is really good at her job,(and I have met a few) then you will eventually move on. But again for me a second or third meeting will be so much better than the first

 

[ValeriaBeleza]

It gets soooooooo much better the second time. Your much more comfortable with each other. How ever IMNOHO the nature of the hobbyist is to seek variety, so unless there's some serious chemistry or the lady is really good at her job,(and I have met a few) then you will eventually move on. But again for me a second or third meeting will be so much better than the first

I agree with this ^^+^^ I believe as an SP id never get a second chance to make a first impression and once that is established and the chemistry is there..then the other times get better! guys are more open as to what they'd like to do next time... they get very very creative and we get to try many things... the awesome thing about it is that there is no inhibitions and always respect for boundaries... but that is shared....i always want to please my men and keep variety... most important is to build a connection IMHO....

 

[thumper18474]

The way i see it
if it ain't broke don't fix it
I'm coming up on my 100th visit with a certain lady and they have all be an amazing time
we're comfortable with each other and have so much fun cus we know eachother so well
we laugh and joke with each other so much sometimes we forget...its like oh yeah let's fuck...Lol

 

[Titalian]

It gets soooooooo much better the second time. Your much more comfortable with each other. How ever IMNOHO the nature of the hobbyist is to seek variety, so unless there's some serious chemistry or the lady is really good at her job,(and I have met a few) then you will eventually move on. But again for me a second or third meeting will be so much better than the first

There's many reasons for repeating, especially when it comes to preferential treatment,
things like she's never changed her rate with you, even though her rates have gone up.
She never watches the clock when your around, She always returns your calls,
In my case I'm a stickler about being the first one of the day (Its a hygiene thing with me) and my long term, beauty always makes sure of that.
And small things like dfk when you arrive and updating you about whats happenning in her life.
Wearing a different sexy outfit for you. All these things count when it comes to repeating. Especially long-term
Not just the wild sex itself.

 

[trm]

There's many reasons for repeating, especially when it comes to preferential treatment,
things like she's never changed her rate with you, even though her rates have gone up.
She never watches the clock when your around, She always returns your calls,
In my case I'm a stickler about being the first one of the day (Its a hygiene thing with me) and my long term, beauty always makes sure of that.
And small things like dfk when you arrive and updating you about whats happenning in her life.
Wearing a different sexy outfit for you. All these things count when it comes to repeating. Especially long-term
Not just the wild sex itself.

There are two SP's that I have been seeing for over ten years. You develop a rapport and get comfortable with each other and it is like spending time with an old friend. That feeling is much more satisfying than visiting lots of strangers, to me anyway.

 

[Ridgeman08]

I often repeat, unless there's little or no chemistry with a lady the first visit. In every case, rapport and ease of comfort improves each time as well as service levels. I've seen a number of ladies more than half a dozen times and I find it peaks around that time.

Having said that, I've have seen a few ladies that I would have liked to repeat with, but something else got in the way.

 

[smilybob1]

I hope not !!! I making a couple of return visits with a couple of ladies in the coming weeks

 

[stinkynuts]

I often repeat, unless there's little or no chemistry with a lady the first visit. In every case, rapport and ease of comfort improves each time as well as service levels. I've seen a number of ladies more than half a dozen times and I find it peaks around that time.

Having said that, I've have seen a few ladies that I would have liked to repeat with, but something else got in the way.

So, do you mean that after about six times, the service begins to deteriorate? I'm assuming it peaks and stays good, right?

 

[Ridgeman08]

I'm assuming it peaks and stays good, right?

Correct, it levels off... (In my experience).

Having said that, everyone has an off day... and in the off chance that this happens, there is usually some correspondence between the SP and myself to indicate as much.

 

[SexB]

I've been going to see a couple ladies regularly for just over a year and each time is amazing.

 

[doggee_01]

the ladies i have repeted with i have done so because they are amazing and they get better every time

 

[Titalian]

There are two SP's that I have been seeing for over ten years. You develop a rapport and get comfortable with each other and it is like spending time with an old friend. That feeling is much more satisfying than visiting lots of strangers, to me anyway.

Call her your part-time Mistress .

 

[legmann]

I've repeated with many ladies over the past few years in three different cities, liking the familiarity and comfort of seeing a regular as opposed to taking a chance on an unknown.

For the most part, I've had little disappointment or letdown. With some SP's, there's always some spark, every session, such that I never get tired of seeing them.
With others, the excitement/spontaneity of the first session can never be duplicated and so my satisfaction tends to wane somewhat with each subsequent visit.
That said, there is at least one SP I can recall whose service levels/attitude, after a long period of seeing her, began to drop and become noticeably inconsistent such that I tired of seeing her.