What are some ways and methods you use to get over a girl faster? [25/m]

Greg1056

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Just got out of a what feels like a long relationship, but find myself missing her and wanting to call her. I've been going to the gym, but cant seem to get my mind off of her.

What do you do to get over a girl ?
 

needinit

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Tap someone else - whether SP or civvie (preferably civvie as it feels more normal, not desperate)...although its been a long time since I was in that situation (I assume [25/m] means 25 years old and male )
 

Mrbluntx

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lol i ask myself this question many times... you are on a hobby forum after all.....either try and talk to her or try and move on with your life. make her see she lost something good.

i began hobbying to get over this one girl i felt really close to... so far, it helps but at the same time it doesnt.
 

bestman007

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Just got out of a what feels like a long relationship, but find myself missing her and wanting to call her. I've been going to the gym, but cant seem to get my mind off of her.

What do you do to get over a girl ?
Don't let her go. Tell her that life is not worth living another day without her. If you really love her you will try harder and fight for her love....

I would suggest that you write out how you really feel about her and how you feel right now. If you think she's the one then pursue her with every fibre of your being. Everytime it gets tough look back at what you wrote and just pick yourself up and go out with more determination.

Don't quit. Be committed and strong. The longer you stay apart the more likely you'll lose her FOREVER!

Good luck!
 

Ringworld

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As a friend told me once; the only reason you're still thinking about her is that you haven't found someone to replace her yet.

Truer words were never spoken.
 

Greg1056

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Heres the kicker, shes actually an escort.

Shes the only escort ive been seeing and ive seen her for almost year now. And at first it was fun, but the more I saw her and the more rapport we built, the more I developed a soft spot for her.

I never thought this would happen to me (I thought this shit only happens in movies, lol)

But I knew she didnt feel the same way so I had to tell her that I couldnt see her anymore.
 

lazysausage

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Heres the kicker, shes actually an escort.

Shes the only escort ive been seeing and ive seen her for almost year now. And at first it was fun, but the more I saw her and the more rapport we built, the more I developed a soft spot for her.

I never thought this would happen to me (I thought this shit only happens in movies, lol)

But I knew she didnt feel the same way so I had to tell her that I couldnt see her anymore.
Unless she sees you off the clock and gives you some good head, dont invest too much
theres a lot of women out there who would be glad to have someone invest in them, so they can give it back one day
abundance my friend, abundance
 

Greg1056

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Unless she sees you off the clock and gives you some good head, dont invest too much
theres a lot of women out there who would be glad to have someone invest in them, so they can give it back one day
abundance my friend, abundance
Something in the back of my mind keeps telling me "shes different, shes special, shes not like the other girls" but its like I cant get that voice out of my head.
 

lazysausage

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Something in the back of my mind keeps telling me "shes different, shes special, shes not like the other girls" but its like I cant get that voice out of my head.
Let me tell you this from a brother to another
i am sure about 90% of people on terb have experienced this at one point in their hobby career
but do you really think a girl will marry a man that knew about this? she realizes you might as well bring it up one point during a argument or another
chances are, she realizes this and wont marry you (if thats what ur after)
why not ask her out and see if she would like to spend time with you off the clock (for free) if she asks money just ignore, who knows it might be something beautiful
then again
 

pablice

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Just got out of a what feels like a long relationship, but find myself missing her and wanting to call her. I've been going to the gym, but cant seem to get my mind off of her. What do you do to get over a girl ?
If you really love her you will never get over her, no matter what she does or who she does. You just have to deal with your feelings sometimes for a lifetime. Use this energy and feelings to be creative, push harder in the gym, or push your self emotionally with other girls. You'd be surprised how heightened your senses are right now...try to take advantage of this. I would not go back after her if she made the decision to leave. I know it feels intense for you now, but treasure this feeling as some never get a chance to go trough this. If it's meant to be life has funny ways to bring you guys back.

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YKlCEUngHB0

Seeing other girls is probably the best remedy at this point in ur time, be yourself and just try to enjoy your time with them. They will help ease the pain, but never try to replace her with anybody else.

Only time will tell if the feelings are mutual and if this is real.

Good luck brother!
 

lazysausage

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if you've talked to her for so and so time and she does spend time to call u and communicate and hang out and do stuff together
see if she introduces her friends/family to you, see if she buys u shit
 

whitewaterguy

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If you really love her you will never get over her, no matter what she does or who she does. You just have to deal with your feelings sometimes for a lifetime. Use this energy and feelings to be creative, push harder in the gym, .....................

Good luck brother!
. ................or push harder into Jim. Try a guy for a change!
 

Frosty

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Oh great! You fell in love with an escort. Come on, unless she's willing to leave the biz for you. This relationship will never frickin' happen. Are you totally okay that she's screwing men for money?
The other thing from what I'm getting, you two haven't even gone out on a real non-paid date. What the fuck is this? And you're so in love with this woman.
 

Titalian

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Don't let her go. Tell her that life is not worth living another day without her. If you really love her you will try harder and fight for her love....

I would suggest that you write out how you really feel about her and how you feel right now. If you think she's the one then pursue her with every fibre of your being. Everytime it gets tough look back at what you wrote and just pick yourself up and go out with more determination.

Don't quit. Be committed and strong. The longer you stay apart the more likely you'll lose her FOREVER!

Good luck!
I disagree, don't be desperate. Yes tell her how you feel, but leave it at that. Don't be needy, women for the
most part are not attracted to needy guys. They are attracted to strong character, independant and caring guys. If that makes any sense.
 

rhuarc29

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Don't let her go. Tell her that life is not worth living another day without her. If you really love her you will try harder and fight for her love....

I would suggest that you write out how you really feel about her and how you feel right now. If you think she's the one then pursue her with every fibre of your being. Everytime it gets tough look back at what you wrote and just pick yourself up and go out with more determination.

Don't quit. Be committed and strong. The longer you stay apart the more likely you'll lose her FOREVER!

Good luck!
Man, you're an asshole. lol
 
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