co-worker

[farmmer1]

just collecting thoughts on co-worker relations, is their any one else having a NSA sexual relation with some one at work? I'm not talking a relationship, just when the opportunity presents itself the trousers drop, mutual satisfaction and carry on with the day end of story?
We are both married but it seems we just need something "different".

Anyone?

 

[lookingman69]

just collecting thoughts on co-worker relations, is their any one else having a NSA sexual relation with some one at work? I'm not talking a relationship, just when the opportunity presents itself the trousers drop, mutual satisfaction and carry on with the day end of story?
We are both married but it seems we just need something "different".

Anyone?

It ends badly just as any sane person will tell you. You know the answer yourself anyhow. - Ignore the clown who has wet dreams about it and chooses to make this anonymous forum his fictional tale..

Not a question to ask in the SP but allow me to explain the point of a SP so you can extrapolate that back to your current situation....

- SP are TRUE no strings
- SP are anonymous you don't see them at work the next day
- SP aren't going to get drunk and spill the beans at the company Christmas party
- SP aren't going to form feelings with you
- SP don't have a significant other who's going to kick your butt
- SP don't screw up your job when you get caught
- SP are not going to cause a divorce unless you are an idiot
- SP may leave you with a goofy grin but the other party isn't around in the same office so everyone and the company pet goldfish can connect the dots.
- SP are not going to cause you new residence to be a 1 bedroom apartment over a Mac Milk store.

Now believe it or not many of us here are not here because we have to pay for sex. It would be easy enough to pickup the secretary, shoot a little under your league in an ideal time and anyone can have an office roll in the hay. Reason why its easier to hire a SP is because it saves the mess that is much more of a pain in the butt than spending $200..

Beyond that, ask Dr. Phil

Damit the Dr. Phil in me is talking... Rather than making a mess why not talk to your wife about alternatives. Not to shatter your ego but if you feel you need more from her its all but certain she feels the same. Why not explore together? There are many swinging options, and also getting a SP for both of you. You might be surprised what she says if you bring up the subject tactfully, at the right time. However if you feel you must do something on your own, unless you want a divorce and a $^$^#($ job DO NOT DO WHAT YOU ARE THINKING AND GET A GOOD SP INSTEAD!!!!

 

[peter4025]

^^^^^ +1

 

[Morning Glory]

just collecting thoughts on co-worker relations, is their any one else having a NSA sexual relation with some one at work? I'm not talking a relationship, just when the opportunity presents itself the trousers drop, mutual satisfaction and carry on with the day end of story?
We are both married but it seems we just need something "different".

Anyone?

Lookingman69 has pretty much summed it up, both you are heading for a disastrous situation in the making. Seen it, seen it, many many times and most are found out one way or the other. you have already started talking maybe she has to LOL Find a SP n drop your draws, just not at work.

 

[farmmer1]

Thanks for the opinons, strange but some how i new that was going to be the answer. As for the SO sex is a dirty word to her, and is just somthing she has to do as part of the marital contract! dont get me wrong she has good o's when when it happens its just not something she wants.

 

[Morning Glory]

Thanks for the opinons, strange but some how i new that was going to be the answer. As for the SO sex is a dirty word to her, and is just somthing she has to do as part of the marital contract! dont get me wrong she has good o's when when it happens its just not something she wants.

Hey not to ruin your morning, but maybe shes like you and getting lots of Ooooos elsewhere-sorry just had to LOL

 

[Mr. Piggy]

Free sex, just go with it and be careful.

 

[Morning Glory]

Free sex, just go with it and be careful.

Mr Piggy it may appear as free sex, yet it is almost guaranteed free trouble brewing

 

[Mr. Piggy]

Mr Piggy it may appear as free sex, yet it is almost guaranteed free trouble brewing

It could very well be, but maybe not. If it was me, I would be going with it.

 

[hi up in the sky]

One of my co-workers did the pretty young office fling, and when it fizzled the fling showe dup crying on his doorstep. I'm sure it doesnt always happen that way but I agree with lookingman.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

It's a bad idea. If you ever get caught how are you going to explain that you work with the person you cheated on your wife with? You'll either go to work with this person your cheating on her with everyday and expect a messy divorce and that your wife will never trust you or get over the infidelity or you could try and work through it and quit your job. Just find an SP that looks like the lady you're thinking about hooking up with. It will cost you less money in the long run. lol

I'm a firm believer that you just shouldn't be with someone your not happy with. If anyone disagree's that's fine. But staying with someone for any other reason than being love with your partner is a terrible idea. If your thinking about cheating on your wife, you might be in the wrong relationship.

 

[nineinches]

did it with a married co-worker 20 years ago.We had fun for almost three years and it was the start of some of the best sex in my life.She was horny 24/7 once spent a full night with her and came 7 times,tried for eight but was shooting blanks.To this day we are still co-workers and pretty good friend. She was my first deepthroat and cim experience and I have been hooked ever since.

 

[florida]

did it with a married co-worker 20 years ago.We had fun for almost three years and it was the start of some of the best sex in my life.She was horny 24/7 once spent a full night with her and came 7 times,tried for eight but was shooting blanks.To this day we are still co-workers and pretty good friend. She was my first deepthroat and cim experience and I have been hooked ever since.

Similar experience for me, we were both hot for each other and used to fuck in the car after work before heading home. Did that for a year before moving. Best sex ever......but wouldn't do it again, ended badly for me with divorce.

 

[florida]

If none of us cheated on our wives, there would be no demand for SP's right?

It's a bad idea. If you ever get caught how are you going to explain that you work with the person you cheated on your wife with? You'll either go to work with this person your cheating on her with everyday and expect a messy divorce and that your wife will never trust you or get over the infidelity or you could try and work through it and quit your job. Just find an SP that looks like the lady you're thinking about hooking up with. It will cost you less money in the long run. lol

I'm a firm believer that you just shouldn't be with someone your not happy with. If anyone disagree's that's fine. But staying with someone for any other reason than being love with your partner is a terrible idea. If your thinking about cheating on your wife, you might be in the wrong relationship.

 

[lookingman69]

did it with a married co-worker 20 years ago.We had fun for almost three years and it was the start of some of the best sex in my life.She was horny 24/7 once spent a full night with her and came 7 times,tried for eight but was shooting blanks.To this day we are still co-workers and pretty good friend. She was my first deepthroat and cim experience and I have been hooked ever since.

^ Exactly the crap I predicted.

Completely illogical sequence on events not grounded in any sort of reality from this planet at least.

There are those that have never had a chance then make up stories like that, then there are those that actually get the chance that it which the answer is think twice. Not a forum question, one best to ask a sane buddy in real life where you can gauge their credibility.

 

[florida]

Actually true story. And I also had a full night with my lady and she made it her mission to make me cum as many times as she could. I was drained after 6 and couldnt squeeze out another drop. You have a valid point though, talk to a buddy about your concerns and get his pov.
Cheers

^ Exactly the crap I predicted.

Completely illogical sequence on events not grounded in any sort of reality from this planet at least.

There are those that have never had a chance then make up stories like that, then there are those that actually get the chance that it which the answer is think twice. Not a forum question, one best to ask a sane buddy in real life where you can gauge their credibility.

 

[Dawgger]

Similar experience for me,
..but wouldn't do it again, ended badly for me with divorce.

same for me
and the cost of the divorce just ain't worth it!

 

[florida]

Hell no, would've been cheaper to keep her around is how the song goes.

same for me
and the cost of the divorce just ain't worth it!

 

[Cobra Enorme]

I used to bang my co worker all the time, in the bosses office, the stock room etc. One time a customer asked one of the other workers "Wow they're going at it back there eh?" I remember telling her to keep it down that day couldnt believe the entire store was hearing it. Started off with "Do you give your bf blowjobs?" and she said, "No, I nver have dont know how" Then me following that with "Well, if you want I can teach you" and laughing it off like it was a joke. Then after a few more jokes one day she looked at me dead in the eyes and said "Ok, lets go to the back... after that we banged every day for 2 years. Both had relationships. It was just wam bam every day at work, blowjob here and there, we never called each other or anything. Just work play. Both of us were in relationships.

 

[lookingman69]

Guys its painfully obvious that you don't get out much with stories like those and are just reciting porn movies to make it look like you have a life.

Yes SP do attract those that couldn't get laid any other way.

Again OP ignore. In real life it ends badly (period).

Here is how real life works. Women cannot separate love from sex, start having sex with them and you are going to get feelings involved (exception, a complete slut, more on that later). Even in the case of a SP many times the SP is doing it for the pimp they love (don't trash me here SP I know there are exceptions). That makes it messy. Even a guy may have this issue. Even if you are able to keep your feelings aside it will end one day, and someone is going to get pissed off. If as claimed here from the porno recitals, if it was the best sex you ever had either you or her is going to be pissed off when the other party pulls the plug and you will have perpetual blue balls, and a very awkward relationship at work. Those are the best cases and it never ends like that. It ends in divorce, financial hardship, and child support payments.

A real player picks up outside of work and their social circle. PERIOD.. If you are balling enough to be able to pickup every woman at work, you are good enough to do it anonymously at the bar without complication. Lower on the skill level, there is POF. This allows you to make moves, even per the porno movie example above "what to suck my dick" - that if used in any work setting would have you fired for sexual harassment before lunch in the real world.

If you do happen to have an office slut (more often the office cock tease you aren't getting into the pants of anyhow its just about attention, the true slut is a rare breed ), per the porno examples above, its a sure bet she has tried or is trying to go around the whole office, that is what sluts do. If you start banging the slut in the office now you run into jealousy issues with the co-workers which end in someone's early departure from that job (you) and acts of sabotage like your jealous co-worker anonymously ratting you out to both your wife and the boss. Yet another reason why life isn't the same as a porno movie! Exception that the OP is going to bring up, "we are only interested in each other, not the whole office" <---- there Sir you already have feelings involved and you didn't even know it.