the arbitrary date is good. If it isn't working for you its time for a shrink to help with your pedophile tendencies. wtf is with some of you? is there a correlation between dudes that have to pay for it and being a pedo?100 years from now we will look back on age of consent law like now we do on Muslim rule of no touching hand of married women. Everyone grows up at different rate, how can you set one arbitary date expect everyone to follow?