A topic that always pops up. Always has. And probably always will.
There are so many variables that causes this issue to immerge over and over.
I think some of the big ones are:
Good indies or agencies. Not enough of them. I think there's a frustration that Toronto has a bigger market, leading to more girls. And yes, that leads to more reviews of girls with good/great service. But also to reviews of girls with terrible service. But we see the reviews of more girls.
Variety/body types/attitudes - The reviews of more girls means there's variety. Guys have so many tastes. And one guy may have more than one thing that he likes. Could even change with his mood. I want a GND who's a closet pse. I want a spinner, I want a MILF, I want someone busty, I want someone younger, I want someone with tats, I want someone who can party, etc. There is a massive menu that guys want, but out here, not all can be met. And when you add into the mix that there are a limited number of known, good providers, that adds to the frustration level. And guys are always looking for new girls. And that in no way is a slight against any of the ladies who are always well reviewed. It's just part of the "variety" that guys want. More to choose from the sp buffet.
The reviewers themselves Sometimes I think we cause more problems than there needs to be. I've always found the best reviewers are the ones who can be objective in their review. I think some have this attitude that if certain services aren't given for the money that they spend, then they get angry and upset and treat the whole session as a rip off or a waste of time etc. I'm not talking about advertising one way and then only offering less. And YES I do know that YMMV always applies, and that can be a factor. I'm talking of providers who for $150/hh don't provide kissing, only do CBJ and maybe limited positions, while others provide DFK, BBBJ, and all the other abbreviations that point to a potential of full on frenzy of fornicating. The trend seems to be to rip into the girl saying that she overcharges etc for what she offers. Instead of slamming the girl, being objective would be much more helpful. There are some guys who are only comfortable with limited services. And not only that, these are services that SHE may be only comfortable in offering. Nothing wrong with that. Why should I slam an sp for offering those services if there's a market for it. If it's not what I was hoping for, when I saw a new sp, I don't slam her for it. I post what the services were and just say that she wasn't for me, but she may be for others. And this is the key. The idea is to review not just for you but for others. Attitude from the provider is a key factor with her service. She may be restrictive with what she offers. But she can still offer a great time, satisfy her client fully, and everyone's happy.
When I did reviewed, I tried to be as open and honest as I could in them. Even if I didn't have a good time, it wasn't about slamming the sp, unless I felt it was an obvious rip off. But it was about saying how my time was with her, and that her services were or were not for me - but they may be for someone else.
If a poster isn't objective, and slams the sp, and then multiply that by others who do the same thing, then yes, it looks like there are a lot of crappy sp's when that not be the case at all.
Money - ahhh yes. this is what it comes down to. Agencies and Indies set their prices. And yes we all know that's how it works. They set for what the market will bear. If they're not getting enough business at the rates they charge, there are 3 decisions to make - 1) stay at that rate, and take it when it comes. 2) close up shop because it's not worth their time/efforts for anything less 3) lower rates. If the market is bearing what they charge, then those will be the prices. You can bitch and complain all you like but if people are paying it then that's what it'll be. We always want the lower rates. We want that for everything we spend our money on. Guys may or may not have a lot of disposable income. So some may be able to partake more than others. For those who have disposable income, they may be willing to take more risks in seeing women that have no reviews or very few. I used to be that way. I would partake in both. Yes, I wanted to be with an sp that was known for good service. I wanted to know I was going to have a good time. But there were times that I wanted to take a chance, and see if I got to find a hidden gem. That's not easy. And it requires you to spend your money and not have a good time.
I think THIS is where a lot of the issue lies. This is an expensive hobby! If there are not a lot of guys who are willing to part with their money and take a chance on unknown/unreviewed sp's, then it leads to guys going to the ones that ARE known for their good/great service. And if there are "a handful" of those good sp's, then they're the one's we're going to hear about.
Are there girls who are out there, who are just starting out, or have been out for a while, and either are or could be good providers? Absolutely!
Are there girls who are out there, who are just starting out, or have been for a while, and are not good providers? Absolutely!
My question to the men, is who is willing to part with their money to help find them? The more men, that are willing to take a chance, see if that new girl, is a good one or not, then the more possible gems that could be found for others to enjoy. If it's just a few guys that are going to be doing that, then chances are, it's going to take longer to find those gems.
Add to all that, that we're on a review board, that as large as it is, is also a small community. And things that are said on here seem to be amplified.
The reality is this, there are good sp's, and bad sp's. Good clients and bad clients. Not all of our experiences are going to be good ones for both parties. You want them to be. That's what we want to have. But nothing is guaranteed. You take it in stride, chalk it up to experience and move on. Try to find the hidden gems out there, take the lumps when they come. Just try to limit it to a minor concussion. lol