So yesterday I saw an SP from a reputable agency and was really thrown aback when I thought she suggested Bareback.
After discussing it with the booking agent, she hoped we could chalk it up to a misunderstanding, but I'm wondering if I'm out of line with my take on things...
The session with this SP started really great and overall she was great. As things got hot and heavy she got really into it, or at least acted like it (can't tell for sure, right?).
So during the session I told her to talk dirty and that's how things progressed. Now, when it came to put on the cover she opened one and threw it me and said she didn't know how to put one on (an act maybe?)
So after things progress, she seemed like she was really into it and mid way through she asks, "are you clean?" and I respond "yea.. (then I thought wait).. why?". I couldn't make out what she said next, but I heard the words "bareback" sort of muffled. I kept asking "what? what?" and she said "nevermind" and then a couple minutes later she said "I said I would never do it, but you're one of the few people I would do without a cover" in a way that sounded a bit like an excuse.
My little head was taking over and I tried to finish ASAP, but in my mind I felt she suggested us to go bare and I was really really concerned.
after i finished, I left and voiced my concerns with the agent, she talked to her and she said SP said that I brought up not using a condom (really?!, this really annoyed me because it was the SP that asked if I was clean), and that she was just going through with the dirty talk. I understand that there are conflicting stories here, and that an agent can't rely on he said/she said, but the lack of resolution still bothered me. In this profession, I don't think bare should ever be talked about outside of a "no bare allowed" context.
out of respect for the agency/sp, I've left them unnamed, but I'm looking for some feedback. Is this really reasonable to be chalked up to a misunderstanding, or should I still be super concerned and be warning fellow TERB members?
After discussing it with the booking agent, she hoped we could chalk it up to a misunderstanding, but I'm wondering if I'm out of line with my take on things...
The session with this SP started really great and overall she was great. As things got hot and heavy she got really into it, or at least acted like it (can't tell for sure, right?).
So during the session I told her to talk dirty and that's how things progressed. Now, when it came to put on the cover she opened one and threw it me and said she didn't know how to put one on (an act maybe?)
So after things progress, she seemed like she was really into it and mid way through she asks, "are you clean?" and I respond "yea.. (then I thought wait).. why?". I couldn't make out what she said next, but I heard the words "bareback" sort of muffled. I kept asking "what? what?" and she said "nevermind" and then a couple minutes later she said "I said I would never do it, but you're one of the few people I would do without a cover" in a way that sounded a bit like an excuse.
My little head was taking over and I tried to finish ASAP, but in my mind I felt she suggested us to go bare and I was really really concerned.
after i finished, I left and voiced my concerns with the agent, she talked to her and she said SP said that I brought up not using a condom (really?!, this really annoyed me because it was the SP that asked if I was clean), and that she was just going through with the dirty talk. I understand that there are conflicting stories here, and that an agent can't rely on he said/she said, but the lack of resolution still bothered me. In this profession, I don't think bare should ever be talked about outside of a "no bare allowed" context.
out of respect for the agency/sp, I've left them unnamed, but I'm looking for some feedback. Is this really reasonable to be chalked up to a misunderstanding, or should I still be super concerned and be warning fellow TERB members?