Western Women Interviewed On Why Western Men Go To Thailand
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Spoken like someone without experience. I've had both and so I can make a real decision.
not sure how do you figure...50% of marriages end up in divorce, out of 50% that stay married a good half has got to be unhappy as fuck but are afraid to break it up...how could majority of people (western or eastern) be considered successful in their relationships I don't quite understand.
Frankly if one's experience leads one to this board it is hardly something to brag about.
Clearly.
Firt of all, the "statistics" you quote apply equally to both western and mixed relationships so it does nothing to support the premis that western women are inadequate.
Secondly, a successful relationship (have you had one) need not end in marriage or be permanent. Your view is far too narrow.
Out of curiosity how do you define success here? Particularly in a divorce.
A divorse is often times indicative of the failure of a marriage and thus of the associated relationship. While there are exceptions, I am not suggesting that a divorce is usually the expected or desired result.
However, even if 50% of marriages end in divorce (and I believe that this is probably an exaggeration) the number of relationships that end in marriage is only small fraction of all actual relationships. A one-night-stand is a relationship as is a summer romance or an affair. FWB are in a relationship and some of us have relationships with SPs. In Canada, in the vast majority of relationships where the man is western, the woman is western as well.
If you can't work out the math, I can't help you.
I know a few people whose marriages ended in divorce, who would probably still consider it a success. They're still on good terms with their ex, the marriage produced kids, they share custody and collaborate on raising the kids, they love their kids, and wouldn't change anything in their life that would mean the kids weren't there.
So they moved on to have sex with someone else -- that still seems like a successful relationship.
Certainly a bitter divorce where the kids become a battle is a whole different story, but quite a few people manage to get an amicable divorce and don't wind up trying to kill each other. Whose to say that's a failure?
So they moved on to have sex with someone else -- that still seems like a successful relationship.
Certainly a bitter divorce where the kids become a battle is a whole different story, but quite a few people manage to get an amicable divorce and don't wind up trying to kill each other. Whose to say that's a failure?
There's no e-book. Just be someone a woman can respect. Keep your promises. Don't represent yourself falsely. Try something ouside of your comfort zone. Do an activity no one else does. Read books. Keep clean. Dress appropriately for the occasion. Be polite.
Money, girth, looks, material goods... they all become irrelevant to how attractive you are.
The problem with doing the things I do is that they take effort. People like you and PlanB seem to lack the motivation, so your excuse is that the blame lays in those around you, and never in you.
