Western women have little problems getting men indeed - it's keeping them that's the problem, ie., the 50% divorce rate (and I assume a good portion of the other 50% who are very unhappy)
Western Women Interviewed On Why Western Men Go To Thailand
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I ... I do not know where to begin !
What the fuck did you do ? What the fuck do you do when you meet a "western woman" ?
I understand that sometimes you have to actually talk to "western women", but ga-damn that is not that difficult is it ?
And yes some, some, only some(way less then half) can be a little high on themselves, but most are reasonable if you just put a little effort into it.
The picture you paint Plan B is ridiculously so far OFF the mark.
Where have you gone to meet women ? Did you ever leave the house ?
Maybe you are correct ... for you. Maybe you and "western women" are just not a fit.
As someone else previously stated .... I will paraphrase "planes leave several times per hour from TIA(Pearson if you perfer)".
Good luck to you where ever you land and happy hunting.
Maybe you can get a package deal for two with Don Draper to parts unknown.
T.O. will never change in any way. I had a similar impression of the city as this lady so many years ago when I first landed here as a 16 year old kid. I couldn't then understand why strangers would flinch sometimes when I would try to chat them up...that had never happened to me in Europe. I also remember finding it odd finding people spending time alone when in a public setting, again, something which was unheard of over there. In Europe, if I'd seen someone alone, I would introduced myself and invited him/her over to our table and talk to them. That was just normal. Nobody thought that anyone would actually choose solitude in public, so everyone in our group would make a small effort to make the new guest feel welcome. Here, that would be considered obnoxious behaviour bordering on rudeness. Different land, differing customs, I guess.
There's an old saying that goes something like this; the key to enjoying life is the 3 Fs; Friends, Family, and Fuck everything else. Well, I don't think I'd go that far, but there's more to living than the rat race.
I have given up on north american women, I know that I am not what they are looking for. so getting marry to a north american woman is not going to happen. I have average looks, average income, average education, nothing about me stands out. so I go to other countries to have fun. label me what ever you want. i got to work with what i got. if that involves travelling to other countries to feel that I am worth something than i will do it. it makes me happy
People divorce at a higher rate than they used to because divorce has become more acceptable. I assume nothing has really changed, people just are more willing to put a name on it, as it's more socially acceptable. I bet just as many people were unhappy in their marriages 100 years ago, they just maintained polite separations while staying married in name only--now they get divorced and remarried.
If you look at these countries you praise, cheating is far more socially acceptable. A latina, filipina, or thai woman really has no problem cheating shamelessly on the husband she stays loyally married to. It's just a cultural difference--divorce is unacceptable in those cultures, but people still want to fuck. Infidelity is FAR more acceptable in asian countries than it is in the West, just so long as you continue to do your duty to your family, what you do on the side is your business--for men and women.
Unless I can convince my wife to go for a vacation there, I'll probably not see Thailand again, but up to the age of 42, I went there seven times. Spent years there in fact.
So the gist of this conversation is funny to me. The capacity for men to delude themselves is really beyond belief. Men who go to Thailand and claim that the women there are "different", are just so freaking hilarious. Thai women may well (generally speaking) be feminine and submissive in a way western women are not, but that has nothing to do with why 19 out of 20 western guys get to fuck them.. Soon as your western pay cheque is factored into the relationship, your opinion about "how Thai women treat men so much better" loses all credibility. Sorry guys, the painful truth is that guys who go to Thailand for the express purpose of getting laid are losers when it comes to relationships. They're either unattractive, painfully shy, or plain ol assholes. Often all three. They are not a reliable source for assessing women anywhere else on the planet.
If you were comparatively as rich in Canada as you are in Thailand, you'd have a pretty easy time finding the same calibre of companionship here, as indeed you would anywhere in the world.
I had occasional fun with bar girls during my first two trips, and later on I was fortunate enough to have relationships with some civilian Thai women. Trust me, if the latter had ever dreamed that I even for a moment thought of lumping them in with the bar girls...they'd have dropped me in a second.
There may be superficial differences in women, indeed in people, from country to country, but deep down the things that make you attractive or not are all the same no matter where you go.
So the gist of this conversation is funny to me. The capacity for men to delude themselves is really beyond belief. Men who go to Thailand and claim that the women there are "different", are just so freaking hilarious. Thai women may well (generally speaking) be feminine and submissive in a way western women are not, but that has nothing to do with why 19 out of 20 western guys get to fuck them.. Soon as your western pay cheque is factored into the relationship, your opinion about "how Thai women treat men so much better" loses all credibility. Sorry guys, the painful truth is that guys who go to Thailand for the express purpose of getting laid are losers when it comes to relationships. They're either unattractive, painfully shy, or plain ol assholes. Often all three. They are not a reliable source for assessing women anywhere else on the planet.
If you were comparatively as rich in Canada as you are in Thailand, you'd have a pretty easy time finding the same calibre of companionship here, as indeed you would anywhere in the world.
I had occasional fun with bar girls during my first two trips, and later on I was fortunate enough to have relationships with some civilian Thai women. Trust me, if the latter had ever dreamed that I even for a moment thought of lumping them in with the bar girls...they'd have dropped me in a second.
There may be superficial differences in women, indeed in people, from country to country, but deep down the things that make you attractive or not are all the same no matter where you go.
western women are more financially secure therefore demand men who abuse their bodies with steroids. this is not right, as it is evolutionarily backwards. men were always valued for their ability to provide resources, not looks. women are valued for their looks. now that we give women financial freedom, we produce bunch of wussy pretty boys who can't make money and be supported by professional career women. this trend will continue until gender is reversed - women become more more productive in business, while men become better cooks, dancers, and other such stuff as entertainer for women.
another observation:
there are two types of women in Toronto: urban career women who will not marry and have kids, and suburban moms who have 10 kids with a half dozen bros and pimps or dealers.
for guys, you have to be either of the two types to score consistently with women:
type 1: extremely good looking and have a good income. (Super rich won't do much good because money usually buys gold diggers, such as strippers and prostitutes. western civilian women usually don't have sex with you just for the money.)
type 2: criminal bad boy type. Yes, even if you are ugly, some fine ass suburbia moms will want to have your babies because you are so bad and dangerous.
If you are anything in between will mean you get 1 or 2 civilian pussies obese or fugly in your life time at the best.
there are two types of women in Toronto: urban career women who will not marry and have kids, and suburban moms who have 10 kids with a half dozen bros and pimps or dealers.
for guys, you have to be either of the two types to score consistently with women:
type 1: extremely good looking and have a good income. (Super rich won't do much good because money usually buys gold diggers, such as strippers and prostitutes. western civilian women usually don't have sex with you just for the money.)
type 2: criminal bad boy type. Yes, even if you are ugly, some fine ass suburbia moms will want to have your babies because you are so bad and dangerous.
If you are anything in between will mean you get 1 or 2 civilian pussies obese or fugly in your life time at the best.
I propose that all you guys who hate western women and feel like you do better in other countries should all go there. Buy a one way ticket to Thailand or wherever the fuck you think you'll do better. I happen to love western women, and the less of you guys bothering them and constantly dumping on them the better. Guys on this site have some really deluded ideas about women in general, and this city specifically.
Before you leave on your one-way trip, though, make sure to liquidate all your assets and show up as poor as a typical local. Then tell me if the women are still better than the co-called gold-diggers over here. Thai women don't like you because you are western, they like your money.
Before you leave on your one-way trip, though, make sure to liquidate all your assets and show up as poor as a typical local. Then tell me if the women are still better than the co-called gold-diggers over here. Thai women don't like you because you are western, they like your money.
yeah, ok... like East Asian women don't have a sense of entitlement...
http://www.echinacities.com/news/What-are-You-Five-Chinese-Women-and-Sa-Jiao?cmteditid=#page_cmt
"Sa jiao helps to ensure that everyone is playing their expected role. If the relationship progresses, the man will be expected to provide in full for his partner, which in modern terms often means that he’ll have to produce an apartment, a car and a steady job before a woman will even think of marrying him. While a Chinese woman may be very competent, and perfectly able to take care of herself, she will still expect her husband to support her, to look after her material needs while she does her part and looks after him physically and emotionally. "
Seems like a hypocritical attitude.
Canada has been built on people leaving their home countries to go to a new country because they think it's a better environment for them. Seems hardly fair to condemn a Canadian for doing the exact same thing.
If a guy cannot get hooked up with a local girl, he will see an escort. If a girl cannot get hooked up with a local guy, then she ends up becoming a man hater and a feminist. Some will end up becoming an escort just to get attention from guys. At the end of the day, who the hell cares. If North America becomes #1 for having most single people, then great. At least we are #1 at something.
To him, he wants his women to be docile, dainty, waify, sweet, look up to her man and know her place (don't talk back, etc). Makes him feel like a real man
Also, many men go elsewhere to find what ever it is that they want because they cannot get it at home. So who's fault is that? It goes back to supply and demand thing. There is a great amount of demand here, but no supply. So why not to a place where there is ample supply and satisfy the demand.
The reality is that most North American men and women are in long term relationships by their late twenties and stay in relationships for life. In the modern world, maybe not with the same person for life, and maybe not as formally. We have a lot more cohabitation, divorce, and remarriage. But almost everyone is in a relationship at any given moment in time.
These people who moan about Western women, or the women who hate men, are a rejected minority who just happen to be very vocal on terb, second only to bitter divorced men (likely some overlap).
If you cannot pair up with a local woman because of your disabilities, then sure it's better to go find a woman in the third world. Better than nothing.
These people who moan about Western women, or the women who hate men, are a rejected minority who just happen to be very vocal on terb, second only to bitter divorced men (likely some overlap).
If you cannot pair up with a local woman because of your disabilities, then sure it's better to go find a woman in the third world. Better than nothing.
Seems like you answered your own question:
There`s more in his thread, but I can`t be bothered going through it:
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...tudes-of-Toronto-dating&highlight=third+world
