Walking out on Appt?

[DaBum]

I've been hobbying for years, on many occasions when I get there I find the lady not exactly what I was looking for, B&S, 20 years older than advertised age, 50lbs heavier than pics, etc. etc.
I don't know what it is, but I was never able to walk out, I think I felt guilty that I already booked their time so I just went through with it to pay for their time, or just didn't want to get into any fight. On all of those occasions, I just got the deed done quickly and got out of there, later on hate myself for wasting my hard earned money.

I'd like to find out from those who have walked away because they didn't like what they see, if they had any trouble walking out and how to deal with it?

 

[George The Curious]

tell her you forgot the money in the car.

 

[spendin2much]

IT's the same reason why many people have a hard time leaving a restaurant once they are seated but don't like the menu..it is uncomfortable to leave since you have to explain why to the waiter/waitress.

 

[gudnite]

If it's a really bad B & S just walk out. Tell her she is not what was advertized and leave. I might stay if the lady is reasonably close to her pics..

 

[George The Curious]

Or ask for impossible services such as bb greek, she will want you to leave. If she accepts, then run like hell.

 

[DaBum]

IT's the same reason why many people have a hard time leaving a restaurant once they are seated but don't like the menu..it is uncomfortable to leave since you have to explain why to the waiter/waitress.

Yes, very good analogy, I can't walk out of a restaurant after taking the menu either. I guess that's why they pour you some water as soon as you sit down.

 

[DaBum]

If it's a really bad B & S just walk out. Tell her she is not what was advertized and leave. I might stay if the lady is reasonably close to her pics..

I remember once I said "you don't look like the picture on the website" but she kept insisting "picture me" and pointed to herself.
Has anyone walked away and SPs/pimp ran after you?

 

[VictoriaBlack]

Hmmm... difficult topic.

Although it's uncomfortable, you have a reasonable right to expect what the woman advertises as is what you'll get. Personal chemistry is not guaranteed, but getting a BBW in place of a spinner is miserably misleading.

 

[jjbee62]

Hmmm... difficult topic.

Although it's uncomfortable, you have a reasonable right to expect what the woman advertises as is what you'll get. Personal chemistry is not guaranteed, but getting a BBW in place of a spinner is miserably misleading.

I think the technical term for that is a "Splatter".

 

[Ridgeman08]

Fortunately for me...

I've never had to walk out. I have at restaurants... but never with and SP.

My thoughts:

1. The trick is to never to be put yourself into that position in the first place. This is very reason I research my dates thoroughly in advance.

2. If you do find yourself a victim of false advertising, you are doing a disservice to "the hobby" by NOT walking out. (Because you are inadvertently telling the advertiser that she was successful in her false advertising and she will continue to do so.)

3. Politely excuse yourself explaining that her advertising and marketing is very misleading.

4. Don't feel guilty about it... HER lack of sincerity is not your problem.

Its YOUR money... spend it wisely.

 

[Stoo]

I think the technical term for that is a "Splatter".

LOL... That conjures up an image...

I've been very fortunate with incalls maybe because I tend to see the same ladies a number of times. The one time I was really disappointed was with an outcall when I was in Montreal. The body type was more or less accurate, but facially, she was just really unattractive, with bad teeth and crossed eyes (really) and was a heavy smoker. When I saw her through the hotel peek-hole, I was tempted to either not answer, or answer and seem surprised that someone was there, since I wasn't expecting anyone etc.

Of course it was late and I was in the mood and went from a closed-eyes BJ to Doggie and Bam. She got the job done and all was good in the Universe.

 

[DaBum]

Hmmm... difficult topic.

Although it's uncomfortable, you have a reasonable right to expect what the woman advertises as is what you'll get. Personal chemistry is not guaranteed, but getting a BBW in place of a spinner is miserably misleading.

This only happened to me once several years ago, advertised as "fit", but more of a small BBW, she said she gained a few lbs since the picture.
I never said anything about personal chemistry, I don't expect it because I understand that it is a business service, if it's there great, if not doesn't matter. Not sure why you even mentioned it.
Most of the time it's age difference, advertised as 20 but for sure old enough to be a mother of a 20-year-old. I expect that some SPs lower their age just to be more attractive as young, but it must be reasonable, but not 20 years difference, I would say up to 6 years is acceptable.

But this whole thread is not about the reasons. It's about how to get out of it without getting into trouble.

 

[IM469]

IT's the same reason why many people have a hard time leaving a restaurant once they are seated but don't like the menu..it is uncomfortable to leave since you have to explain why to the waiter/waitress.

Sometimes you have prepared for a meal, your hungry and walking out just aggravates your problem - not solves it. One time I arranged my business appointments to put me in the location of one of the popular Asian agencies here. I pre-booked, checked a couple times through the day and actually waited an additional 30 minutes for the appointment in the parking lot. When I went to see my selected date (as confirmed on the phone 10 minutes earlier) - it was a B & S.

All that trouble - I said 'fuck it' and salvaged what I could of an entire planned afternoon. Maybe I just reinforced a B&S operation but I did come back and report it on terb (most of which was dedicated to explaining why I stayed).

 

[JanHammer]

I look at the girl and say politely and calmly....

"Sorry...you're not the girl in the pictures".

And then I leave. Never had an issue with it.

 

[TheKing]

In this age of technology there is NO reason to have a pic that is inaccurate. You can't have gained a few lbs since your last photo because you are holding a cell with a camera and can take a pic any time you want.

There is no excuse for photos that are stolen, inaccurate, from years ago, etc. You are posting on backpage, you own a smartphone, you can certainly take a pic that is recent (<24 hours old)

If I walk in the door and there is clearly a difference from what I saw in the pic, I spin on my heel and walk out the door. Anything else rewards the SP for lying to me and/or others.

If everyone walked just as I do, there would be NO more bait/switch and stolen pics.

Guys, please memorize the pics before you walk in. If the ass isn't shown, look at the boobs and vice versa. Find a few things in the pics and memorize.

Then when you walk in the door if things aren't the same please BAIL

 

[Ridgeman08]

When I went to see my selected date (as confirmed on the phone 10 minutes earlier) - it was a B & S.

All that trouble - I said 'fuck it' and salvaged what I could of an entire planned afternoon. Maybe I just reinforced a B&S operation...

Maybe???

First, lemme say, I'm not surprised Asian's have a bad rep for B & S... Now we know one of the contributing factors.

In this age of technology there is NO reason to have a pic that is inaccurate. You can't have gained a few lbs since your last photo because you are holding a cell with a camera and can take a pic any time you want.

There is no excuse for photos that are stolen, inaccurate, from years ago, etc. You are posting on backpage, you own a smartphone, you can certainly take a pic that is recent (<24 hours old)

If I walk in the door and there is clearly a difference from what I saw in the pic, I spin on my heel and walk out the door. Anything else rewards the SP for lying to me and/or others.

If everyone walked just as I do, there would be NO more bait/switch and stolen pics.

Guys, please memorize the pics before you walk in. If the ass isn't shown, look at the boobs and vice versa. Find a few things in the pics and memorize.

Then when you walk in the door if things aren't the same please BAIL

Amen to that my brother! Anything else and you are part of the problem not part of the solution.

 

[CapitalGuy]

Its YOUR money... spend it wisely.

Exactly. The SP (as wonderful as most of them are) does not have a right to your cash just because you booked her and walked in the door. Its your money; she has to earn it.

 

[movzzz]

There are some ladies who's objective is to "Get them to the door." When you want a steak and only burgers are available you will still eat! Or so they think.

I simply walk out and go to another restaurant!

 

[Petzel]

IT's the same reason why many people have a hard time leaving a restaurant once they are seated but don't like the menu..it is uncomfortable to leave since you have to explain why to the waiter/waitress.

Just say you changed your mind.

 

[simon482]

tell her you want to shove a lego in her butt. she will probably ask you to leave.