If you get that often from the SAME GIRL, why would you continue to bother with that same girl???
Sp's advertising and interpretations
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I think for a lot of service providers that offer bbbj it can be a ymmv thing at times. Just like with a hobbiest its "your hygeine may vary" sometimes.
Uh... I don't message the same person.. Read it again. Lol it should read like I msg the person who says open minded to have the say they're clinical freaks.
For example, today I got a text from someone new that just said, "bbbj?" I didn't even answer, and I definitely do bbbj. But fuck that shit. If you can't even say, "Hello" or "Hi, I'm X, do you offer bbbj?" then I'm not that interested in seeing you.
Agreed that you wouldn't/shouldn't resond. But we too get text replies that are only one or two words even after sending a lengthy enough text. It works both ways.
Yes, nothing worse than trying to be polite, try to get the lady to provide some insight into her service, such as to you provide kissing, BBBJ, Daty, etc. And the response is I provide GFE. Thanks, that's helpful.
GFE does not guarantee you BBBJ etc... Because it is usually ymmv. And some ladies consider themselves GFE without providing BBBJ.GFE means different things to different people.She hasn't seen/met you yet so cannot guarantee that service to you over the phone . Before meeting you she has no idea whether you are clean, respectful, breath stinks etc....if she tells you she does bbbj etc... over the phone then doesn't when she meets you u can turn around and tell her that she mislead /lied to you about the services she provides.
Everything is ymmv... We get that. All we want to know is - What services would be provided in the best case scenario? If there are services that you will never provide to a client, don't list them when you advertise.
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Thanks, exactly. If the lady refused for good reason, we should accept that, but the point being is that some of the services are not a YMMV, they are no, never kiss, never bbbj under any circumstances. If she is concerned about mis-understanding, all she needs to do is qualify that I will only provide those services, at my choice. Anytime I get an answer like I provide GFE, I just move along anyway. I take it as typically there are significantly restrictions, and you will only find out when you arrive.
Exactly! We are not idiots! We just want to know what is possible and then we can decide if we want to visit. Simple. But if we get a minimal response without any info, then we have to assume misdirection.
WTF???!!! My wife is working as an escort?I noticed in another thread that, as usual, there are problems with the "interpretation " of some of the ads. Rather an understatement. I recently contacted a lady who offers "no restrictions." In a series of texts, some 15 long, I finally boxed her in and determined, sort of, what she means. She distinguishes between restrictions and responsibility. No restrictions does not mean there are no restrictions; there are many of them. She has a "responsibility" to stay healthy (fine) and in furtherance of that, there is no exchange of fluids -- no DFK, Lfk, no bbbj, no daty, no anal, no digits, no mouth on any part of her body. you get the idea. Rather an imaginative way of using the phrase "no restrictions." I will let you be the judge of whether or not this is misleading.
Unfortunately some guys do not understand the concept of ymmv or want to understand.As for an escort listing services in her ad that she knows she will never provide is wrong and misleading.
Julie88xxx, your description of your service is appropriate, it's the thousands of other fly-by-night escorts who uses the description flagrantly who isn't only diluting but outright putting words down without even understanding what they are saying. BBBJ ... Should always be YMMV bases on hygiene, that is never an issue.
When listing Open-Minded please mention something Julie ...
Open-minded to fetishes such as role-play, dirty talking, foot, dress up, sub, Dom...
No-restriction - anything goes except for abusive physical violence, bb sex ...
and gang bang is additional use fee of 100 per additional person per hour
I do have to say that some gentlemen do not respect the ymmv concept. If you usually provide bbbj and refuse a client a bbbj, as an escort you are usually bombarded and questioned to why you do not want to provide that service to them. You insult a client and they still feel like they got the short end of the stick. This is a business but people still do have feelings and sometimes if you do not provide the same service for everyone, the gentleman who does not receive this service feels rejected. One can say well get a backbone and just dig you heels in the ground, give an explanation/get over it and another can say that a lady who does not want to provide a service she usually provides should not be questioned at all. Whatever you perspective is, I just wanted to point out that certain situations are delicate and regardless of what you do sometimes peoples feelings get hurt/you piss someone off. I agree with being honest with people to avoid any awkward situations, tho.
