Sp's advertising and interpretations

[Mable]

I noticed in another thread that, as usual, there are problems with the "interpretation " of some of the ads. Rather an understatement. I recently contacted a lady who offers "no restrictions." In a series of texts, some 15 long, I finally boxed her in and determined, sort of, what she means. She distinguishes between restrictions and responsibility. No restrictions does not mean there are no restrictions; there are many of them. She has a "responsibility" to stay healthy (fine) and in furtherance of that, there is no exchange of fluids -- no DFK, Lfk, no bbbj, no daty, no anal, no digits, no mouth on any part of her body. you get the idea. Rather an imaginative way of using the phrase "no restrictions." I will let you be the judge of whether or not this is misleading.

 

[vitto]

In my opinion there is only one meaning and interpretation for No Restrictions... and yes it is absolutely misleading... If I was a guy and would read that.., I would totally think that anything goes...,

 

[luv4lust]

lmao and why is she an escort?

 

[Sgt Banger]

Reminds me of Alice in Wonderland, when Humpty Dumpty said: "When I use a word it means just what I choose it to mean -- neither more nor less."

 

[Mable]

It is actually worse than that. I just reviewed the text history and in one she actually says that you can do what ever you want with her, but what she leaves out, of course, are the, er, shall I say it, ...."restrictions."

 

[too2shy]

Doesn't look like she's going to last long in this industry by lying so blatantly like that.

you're kidding right lol.. tons of the girls on bp have this retarded statement in their ad.. better believe they all have restrictions, and aren't open minded, nor are freaks, or even kinky, certainly not open to fetishes //unless you want to suck their toes or something..//

 

[TRman]

FYI - I texted someone yesterday from BP. Her ad contained "very open-minded". I asked - BBBJ. Answer was no.

 

[too2shy]

FYI - I texted someone yesterday from BP. Her ad contained "very open-minded". I asked - BBBJ. Answer was no.

Yea I get that often..from the same girl.. I'm like ok, it says you're kinky and a freak.. What does that mean.. Usually no answer..

 

[curiousm7]

"Open-minded" should disappear too.

"No restrictions" should be stricken from the vocab and I won't even consider an SP who uses it because I learned a long time ago that it is like "classy" or "sexy" in an ad...it is a lie!

While I realize it is a YMMV sport can we stick to things like:
Gfe meaning bbbj, dfk, lfk, bls, digits, daty, and covered service.
Safe gfe meaning cbj, limited kissing or none, no digits, no daty, cfs, mutual massage.
And anything else to be clearly defined: Greek, GS, bondage, light or heavy Dom, toys, etc, etc.

Does that work?

Rzo

 

[sexysophie92]

I'm an SP, relatively new to this, so thanks for your definitions... I said I did safe GFE for me it just meant cbj instead of bbbj... Well it seems like its complicated for us SPs too!
Sophie xx

"No restrictions" should be stricken from the vocab and I won't even consider an SP who uses it because I learned a long time ago that it is like "classy" or "sexy" in an ad...it is a lie!

While I realize it is a YMMV sport can we stick to things like:
Gfe meaning bbbj, dfk, lfk, bls, digits, daty, and covered service.
Safe gfe meaning cbj, limited kissing or none, no digits, no daty, cfs, mutual massage.
And anything else to be clearly defined: Greek, GS, bondage, light or heavy Dom, toys, etc, etc.

Does that work?

Rzo

 

[Jabba]

No restrictions - kinky, freaky, anything goes!
....just as long as you're not in the same fucking room!

 

[incendiaryberlin]

I've said I don't do bbbj to guys whose approach I didn't like.

 

[TRman]

....and that would be correct. Not misleading. Well understood I think.

I'm an SP, relatively new to this, so thanks for your definitions... I said I did safe GFE for me it just meant cbj instead of bbbj... Well it seems like its complicated for us SPs too!
Sophie xx

 

[Mable]

Just had an interesting exchange. Saw ad where she said she will do "anything" and "totally unrestricted." We all know this is bullshit but I wanted to call her on it. First she insisted on condoms. Then she agreed to bareback anal. I texted repeatedly to confirm but she stopped responding. What a bunch of f.....g C....s. Just play'in around to expose these ......613 322 8980
.....

 

[Willow Samoan]

I consider myself to be a gfe, however, I do advertise myself as safe gfe in my adds, now that I do cbj. I still advertise myself as gfe on my website because I feel like gfe is a style of service a client gets, plus I also kiss, do daty, and digits. I do have my restrictions on my website for example bbbj and like I said I put in my adds that I'm a safe gfe. I think that as long as you are upfront and honest with people, that's all that matters. From the sp side of the spectrum you want a client that will be a good fit and that means being as honest as you can. I would never advertise myself as Dolly Parton and I would also never advertise myself as pse either. I still think I offer gfe because I offer an intimate, non rushed service and my focus is on building a connection with my clients. I think it's safe to say that I'm gfe even though I provide cbj.

 

[Catherine St.Claire]

This is why many of us don't offer menus. I'm very open minded and can play ANY game to hard limits but I won't sacrifice the health and safety of my guests or myself. For me, open minded means I don't judge a request so guests don't have to worry if they like things that are outside of the vanilla realm. It doesn't refer to protection being used. Ever.

As for approach, I agree with Berlin. How someone presents to me will set the tone for the mileage he gets. If I receive an email that demands a bbbj, that communicates to me that he isn't a good candidate for an appointment with me because I'm not someone who offers that service to everyone. If that is what he is looking for then his money would be better spent with another provider as I won't guarantee to perform it. I realize that the money that I make is hard earned by my guests and I would rather decline if I can't fulfill his expecations. If a man is rude, obnoxious or appears to feel entitled then I know defininitively we are not a good fit and again, his money would be appreciated elsewhere more. Even a man who makes it thru the booking, arrives for the appointment on time with all the i's dotted and t's crossed and makes it onto my couch but then gives me indication that we may not be a good fit playwise will be shown the door with his wallet intact. A mans attitude will make or break an appointment with any and every provider and those that feel that because they are the customer, what they say goes is going to end up with grudge fucks which are never satisfying let alone satiating...

cat

 

[Julie88xxx]

I think that "Very open minded" would fall under willingness to do fetish service and kinky things. BBBJ would fall under a restriction.

 

[Julie88xxx]

And why is she a working girl???????? I noticed you withheld her name.....................interesting.

I noticed in another thread that, as usual, there are problems with the "interpretation " of some of the ads. Rather an understatement. I recently contacted a lady who offers "no restrictions." In a series of texts, some 15 long, I finally boxed her in and determined, sort of, what she means. She distinguishes between restrictions and responsibility. No restrictions does not mean there are no restrictions; there are many of them. She has a "responsibility" to stay healthy (fine) and in furtherance of that, there is no exchange of fluids -- no DFK, Lfk, no bbbj, no daty, no anal, no digits, no mouth on any part of her body. you get the idea. Rather an imaginative way of using the phrase "no restrictions." I will let you be the judge of whether or not this is misleading.

 

[Julie88xxx]

Hmmmm. Okay, well, personally, I think to be an escort you have to be open minded. Has anyone ever met an escort that wasn't. I mean come on, seriously, consider the nature of our business. And I think any broad that has sex with men for money has some level of kink in her, she would have to. Fetish services are less common. I myself have offered various fetishes (not just toe sucking) and at different points in my career.

you're kidding right lol.. tons of the girls on bp have this retarded statement in their ad.. better believe they all have restrictions, and aren't open minded, nor are freaks, or even kinky, certainly not open to fetishes //unless you want to suck their toes or something..//

 

[Julie88xxx]

I am not sure what you mean by "sexy" being a lie. Isnt that what we are selling? SEXY? Sexy time, sexy girl, isn't that the whole point. I do like the way you defined GFE though. Could you give us your definition of PSE? As for myself I am definitely GFE, with GREEK, and open minded to fetishes. My services have also been described as PSE as well though.

"No restrictions" should be stricken from the vocab and I won't even consider an SP who uses it because I learned a long time ago that it is like "classy" or "sexy" in an ad...it is a lie!

While I realize it is a YMMV sport can we stick to things like:
Gfe meaning bbbj, dfk, lfk, bls, digits, daty, and covered service.
Safe gfe meaning cbj, limited kissing or none, no digits, no daty, cfs, mutual massage.
And anything else to be clearly defined: Greek, GS, bondage, light or heavy Dom, toys, etc, etc.

Does that work?

Rzo