Have to be careful with this. I had a nice 4 year relationship with an MPA in Hamilton. Started out as a client and just slowly let on I was kind of interested in more than just seeing her at the spa. Finally she made the first move and offered up her personal info, I gave her mine and waited for her to make the first move which she did after a few months. Started seeing each other socially, it was a little awkward as I was still seeing her at the spa until it closed and then it was clear sailing. Unfortunately something from her past came back to haunt her forcing her to move out of town. But it was a nice 4 year run and I am glad to have had that time with her.
hired an escort, now i need help!!
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Why don't you suggest having a special session with her where you hire another escort, and then the three of you experiment with bondage, whipping and other crazy shit. This will undoubtedly provide you with some interesting experience in emotional compartmentalizing, as well as giving you some needed life experience. It will also hide the fact that you're in love with her, since generally twenty year-olds suffering from puppy love don't do this.
Finally you can write a nice, detailed review of this session with specific instructions on who this lass is and how we can all get in contact with her.
Then me and fifty other dudes can also do this with her, write our own reviews and brainstorm other depraved sex acts to act out with her.
When all this is finito, you'll probably be better able to shake your feelings of affection for her, and then you can PM me and thank me for my generous idea.
Everyone wins
P.S. ever read Catch 22? there's a character in it named Nately who falls in love with a prostitute in Italy, only to have all the officers in his squadron hire her to mess with him.
P.P.S. It isn't Tori from Cupids or Minka from Select is it? I couldn't deal with that shit
Finally you can write a nice, detailed review of this session with specific instructions on who this lass is and how we can all get in contact with her.
Then me and fifty other dudes can also do this with her, write our own reviews and brainstorm other depraved sex acts to act out with her.
When all this is finito, you'll probably be better able to shake your feelings of affection for her, and then you can PM me and thank me for my generous idea.
Everyone wins
P.S. ever read Catch 22? there's a character in it named Nately who falls in love with a prostitute in Italy, only to have all the officers in his squadron hire her to mess with him.
P.P.S. It isn't Tori from Cupids or Minka from Select is it? I couldn't deal with that shit
also in game of thrones, tyrion falls for tysha(a whore) and his father gives her to all the guards to play with.Why don't you suggest having a special session with her where you hire another escort, and then the three of you experiment with bondage, whipping and other crazy shit. This will undoubtedly provide you with some interesting experience in emotional compartmentalizing, as well as giving you some needed life experience. It will also hide the fact that you're in love with her, since generally twenty year-olds suffering from puppy love don't do this.
Finally you can write a nice, detailed review of this session with specific instructions on who this lass is and how we can all get in contact with her.
Then me and fifty other dudes can also do this with her, write our own reviews and brainstorm other depraved sex acts to act out with her.
When all this is finito, you'll probably be better able to shake your feelings of affection for her, and then you can PM me and thank me for my generous idea.
Everyone wins
P.S. ever read Catch 22? there's a character in it named Nately who falls in love with a prostitute in Italy, only to have all the officers in his squadron hire her to mess with him.
P.P.S. It isn't Tori from Cupids or Minka from Select is it? I couldn't deal with that shit
no none of themWhy don't you suggest having a special session with her where you hire another escort, and then the three of you experiment with bondage, whipping and other crazy shit. This will undoubtedly provide you with some interesting experience in emotional compartmentalizing, as well as giving you some needed life experience. It will also hide the fact that you're in love with her, since generally twenty year-olds suffering from puppy love don't do this.
Finally you can write a nice, detailed review of this session with specific instructions on who this lass is and how we can all get in contact with her.
Then me and fifty other dudes can also do this with her, write our own reviews and brainstorm other depraved sex acts to act out with her.
When all this is finito, you'll probably be better able to shake your feelings of affection for her, and then you can PM me and thank me for my generous idea.
Everyone wins
P.S. ever read Catch 22? there's a character in it named Nately who falls in love with a prostitute in Italy, only to have all the officers in his squadron hire her to mess with him.
P.P.S. It isn't Tori from Cupids or Minka from Select is it? I couldn't deal with that shit
+1. If you are in your 20s and dating most know you have to spend time with someone to get to know them. And falling in love until you know someone is insane.
Once you spend 50 to 100 hrs with someone you can start to talk about love.
You simply can not be "in love" with her yet.
You are "in love" with the feeling you had while you were with her.
And no wonder. She was probably beautiful, made you feel like you were special and fucked you as well!
But that is her job!
You are "in love" with the feeling you had while you were with her.
And no wonder. She was probably beautiful, made you feel like you were special and fucked you as well!
But that is her job!
Thennnnnn fuck us?I agree! Focus on your studies
Focus, then fuck us! I nominate this to the Wise Sayings thread! :thumb:
Why are you resorting to escorts when there are hundreds of gorgeous horny girls at school that would fuck you for free? Come to UoGuelph and I'll show you a good time... plenty of horny chicks bro.
Sorry for not reading the whole thread and possibly repeating. I would suggest seeing someone else. I fell into seeing my first SP several times before branching out, and I thought about her all the time. Once I started seeing others, those feelings became more short term, or even no feelings at all after.
Occasionally, you see someone who just leaves you going "wow" after. That happened to me with a popular lady who posted early in this thread. Nothing wrong with that, and it's a credit to her great service. I had that after glow for a few days after, but probably the worst thing I could have done is see her again in that time. Fortunately, she travels so that temptation wasn't there. But I ended up going to see someone else a few days later and it helped remind me this is about having fun, not looking for love.
Occasionally, you see someone who just leaves you going "wow" after. That happened to me with a popular lady who posted early in this thread. Nothing wrong with that, and it's a credit to her great service. I had that after glow for a few days after, but probably the worst thing I could have done is see her again in that time. Fortunately, she travels so that temptation wasn't there. But I ended up going to see someone else a few days later and it helped remind me this is about having fun, not looking for love.
Yes the best way to get over an SP is to fall for another SP =) Seriously though, I recommend focusing your game (and your income) in the university co-ed market. WAAAYYY more supply of 20y/o hotties, without all the baggage and issues associated with many professionals. They are also in the same stage in life as you so you have lots more things in common to talk about. You are also on a level playing field so to speak in that market, with more or less equal access to the babes. In the SP market you will be competing against corporate executives, investment bankers, professional athletes, asian highrollers, etc, that make up a portion of many SP's clientele, especially in a city like Toronto. They may not be as young or handsome as you, but they've got the resources to book their favorite SPs weekly for 5 hour dates, so at the very least they have way more access to the girl to work their game.
Wow, this is so brutally honest. A reality check. BTW: A lot of these 40 something males are also handsome.
And the C suite older guys are pretty much able to get what ever they want.
And funny, and interesting, and charming. Money gives them access, and power is a huge aphrodisiac for many of us.
So, a 20 year old student without a pot to pee in would have no hope of landing a woman like you? Just kidding for those slow on the uptake. (As a concession to the jerks I will not use "hee,hee,hee" for one full day starting now.)
I had several BFs as a civilian, none were able to keep me interested for long.
Could a 20 year old student with limited funds have had a chance to land me when I was a working SP? Not really.
When a man blows $40,000 on an SP he has purchased the opportunity to not only get to know her, but for her to get to know him. Poor students just cannot afford that.
Please keep in mind, that all that is purchased is a lot of sex and the time. The next step is...... are both people happy with each other? Do they want to be together?
But the student never ever gets a chance to spend enough time to get to know the girl. So he cannot get the girl.
That's actually a good point by Ms Loki.
These threads pop up all the time about falling in love with a SP, whether you can date a SP, etc. I always believed that at least 90% of SPs will never date a client, no matter how good-looking, or rich, or great in bed he is, simply because they want to put up a giant barrier between their personal lives and their SP lives. It's a principle with them. And the ones who do end up dating or marrying a client do so because of the money aspect or because they want a man to 'take care' of them. I didn't consider the fact that the money, aside from being an attraction in itself, is also a tool that allows the SP and client to get to know each other better. More money=more time=more chances that they will find out their personalities will click. Obviously in that case, younger guys are at a severe disadvantage because generally they don't have enough money
These threads pop up all the time about falling in love with a SP, whether you can date a SP, etc. I always believed that at least 90% of SPs will never date a client, no matter how good-looking, or rich, or great in bed he is, simply because they want to put up a giant barrier between their personal lives and their SP lives. It's a principle with them. And the ones who do end up dating or marrying a client do so because of the money aspect or because they want a man to 'take care' of them. I didn't consider the fact that the money, aside from being an attraction in itself, is also a tool that allows the SP and client to get to know each other better. More money=more time=more chances that they will find out their personalities will click. Obviously in that case, younger guys are at a severe disadvantage because generally they don't have enough money
The other big factor from the SP's point of view is why the guy has been seeing SPs?
A man says "I am too busy to do the dating thing" = He will be too busy for me if I fall for him.
A man says "My wife does not understand me" = He will say the same about me in a few years.
A man says "I do not want to get involved" = Why?
It goes on and on.
If a man cannot easily pick up a civilian at the grocery store, do I really want him?
Is he desperate enough to settle for anyone? do I really want to be the one he settled for?
Is he trying to get an Sp so he can carve a notch in his bed post or brag to his friends?
A nice widower who is afraid to be hurt again is a nice choice
.It is also a great idea to talk to other women he had flings with.
So I guess I am agreeing with you. It is not easy to get involved with an SP and making it work.
like clockwork, another new "I am falling for an SP" thread appears.
turtlelover - do a search on this topic in this forum. You'll see many prior posts by various clients who gets infatuated with their favorite provider (SP, dancer, MPA, etc). Anyway, most of us has been where you are... develop feelings for our favorite provider at one time or another.. usually during our early stages of this hobby. I also remember being 20 and how naive I was.
turtlelover - do a search on this topic in this forum. You'll see many prior posts by various clients who gets infatuated with their favorite provider (SP, dancer, MPA, etc). Anyway, most of us has been where you are... develop feelings for our favorite provider at one time or another.. usually during our early stages of this hobby. I also remember being 20 and how naive I was.
