hired an escort, now i need help!!

[turtlelover]

So I'm only 20 years old and back from university for the week. I decide to go full on yolo mode and hire an escort from a prestigious company downtown Toronto. So I find this escort who is really good looking and my age, book her for an hour and she is just amazing. She didn't seem like the type at all to do what she does, maybe I've watched too many movies and I'm just unfamiliar with the whole scenario. Anyways I get back home and a few days later I'm really missing her. I have a lot of friends that are girls and never have I felt as comfortable with one as I have with her. I hope I'm not falling for an escort because from what I hear they will not date or hang out with clients. I have been back to see her and it just gets worse because I don't know what to say...

What the f**k do I do? Been thinking about going with another one, not sure if it will help.

 

[mas0]

So I'm only 20 years old and back from university for the week. I decide to go full on yolo mode and hire an escort from a prestigious company downtown Toronto. So I find this escort who is really good looking and my age, book her for an hour and she is just amazing. She didn't seem like the type at all to do what she does, maybe I've watched too many movies and I'm just unfamiliar with the whole scenario. Anyways I get back home and a few days later I'm really missing her. I have a lot of friends that are girls and never have I felt as comfortable with one as I have with her. I hope I'm not falling for an escort because from what I hear they will not date or hang out with clients. I have been back to see her and it just gets worse because I don't know what to say...

What the f**k do I do? Been thinking about going with another one, not sure if it will help.

Go see civilians.

 

[staggerspool]

What you have here is a good provider of the fabled GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE. If you want her to be your girlfriend, you have to pay by the hour.

As a 20 year old, I fell in love... then the situation didn't work out, and I had to go through the losing your girlfriend experience. It ain't fun, but it is inexpensive.

I sympathize, but I also know that what you are going through is what EVERYONE goes through when love fails. (Yes, you fell in love.)

Perhaps you should reconsider this approach to romance at your age, I doubt you have the cash to keep it up long. If you need someone to talk to, PM me.

 

[Butler1000]

Don't worry. This isn't an unusual reaction for a first time experience. Here you had a beautiful, charming lady who devoted all of her energy to you. You were the focus. Possibly for the first time from a female. Usually we men have to work to get laid. But this time it was easy. And a hell of a lot of fun.

It was also a fantasy. It was her job to give you that exact feeling. Now you have to come to terms with that. That everything was in the moment. Did she enjoy herself? Probably, if you felt that comfortable then the chemistry was there. Its actually what most of us "hobbyists" look for in a session.

Don't fall in the trap. Don't go see another one right away. You're 20. In college. Lots of hotties. Get you game on. Succeed and brag. Fail and tell war stories later.

And OCCASIONALLY. To celebrate enjoy the thrill of a pro.

You'll have plenty of time, money and the Need when you're are age.

Good luck!

 

[SchlongConery]

So I'm only 20 years old and back from university for the week. I decide to go full on yolo mode and hire an escort from a prestigious company downtown Toronto. So I find this escort who is really good looking and my age, book her for an hour and she is just amazing. She didn't seem like the type at all to do what she does, maybe I've watched too many movies and I'm just unfamiliar with the whole scenario. Anyways I get back home and a few days later I'm really missing her. I have a lot of friends that are girls and never have I felt as comfortable with one as I have with her. I hope I'm not falling for an escort because from what I hear they will not date or hang out with clients. I have been back to see her and it just gets worse because I don't know what to say...

What the f**k do I do? Been thinking about going with another one, not sure if it will help.

Turn back!

Others have gone down this rabbit hole before and ended up on a yacht with a half-starting know-it-all baby maker that they had to pay her her own dowry of her weight in gold.

She will spend every spare moment she is not spending your cash on instead of fucking you!

 

[toughb]

So I'm only 20 years old and back from university for the week. I decide to go full on yolo mode and hire an escort from a prestigious company downtown Toronto. So I find this escort who is really good looking and my age, book her for an hour and she is just amazing. She didn't seem like the type at all to do what she does, maybe I've watched too many movies and I'm just unfamiliar with the whole scenario. Anyways I get back home and a few days later I'm really missing her. I have a lot of friends that are girls and never have I felt as comfortable with one as I have with her. I hope I'm not falling for an escort because from what I hear they will not date or hang out with clients. I have been back to see her and it just gets worse because I don't know what to say...

What the f**k do I do? Been thinking about going with another one, not sure if it will help.

Very true. Suggest you just walk. She's obviously good at her job and it is a job. Work. Not really pleasure. Good luck.

 

[Helix]

There's nothing wrong with falling in love with her and enjoying the memory of time spent with her, I've done it a few times with an escort.
The only time it's a problem is when you act on those feelings. If you keep that in check it's okay to continue seeing her, but why not try someone new for variety? Or ask out a civilian?

 

[simon482]

Very true. Suggest you just walk. She's obviously good at her job and it is a job. Work. Not really pleasure. Good luck.

i agree, it's best to walk away before you become that creepy guy in her life.

 

[night ride]

If you feel there was truly a spark why throw it away? You could be missing the love of your life, but this is probably not the case. Escorts are people too and they have the ability to fall in love. Just send her a text and say maybe you are just a little crazy from the great sex, but maybe there was more and see if she'd like to go out for a coffee, and if not you won't bother her again. Whatever you do don't watch the movie Pretty Woman.

 

[turtlelover]

I show no signs of love interest when I'm there, I make sure of that. I want to but know that it would be a bad idea to. I am thinking of seeing her one more time and asking if she would see her clients outside the agency, worth a try IMO.

 

[Helix]

I show no signs of love interest when I'm there, I make sure of that. I want to but know that it would be a bad idea to. I am thinking of seeing her one more time and asking if she would see her clients outside the agency, worth a try IMO.

Worth a try to see if she'll work outside the agency, but it's best to pay about the same amount and allow her to reap the extra income for taking that risk of betraying her employer.
Chances are she likes the convenience of an agency and the distance it allows from dealing with booking clients but you never know.

 

[checkingin]

I fear I am in the same boat. Although I am no longer a young man I am new at seeing escorts and the first lady I saw had me head over heels as it were. I did try the approach of seeing a few others and also a few MA s but the first girl was it for me. I still see her regularly and she might have a clue that I am in fact fighting the feelings. I fell for her pretty hard. I am aware that it is her "job" and I have no problem paying her for her time. Luckily I am in a financial position to see her often and for extended periods of time. I thought about going cold turkey as many here are suggesting and no longer see her but I do not want to deprive myself of the immense pleasure I get while in her company. I figure that as long as the $ is not a problem and as long as I dont fool myself into thinking she will run away with me and live happily ever after it should be ok.

 

[turtlelover]

If you feel there was truly a spark why throw it away? You could be missing the love of your life, but this is probably not the case. Escorts are people too and they have the ability to fall in love. Just send her a text and say maybe you are just a little crazy from the great sex, but maybe there was more and see if she'd like to go out for a coffee, and if not you won't bother her again. Whatever you do don't watch the movie Pretty Woman.

lol, seen it and I also dont have her number I book her through the agency.

 

[Medman52]

Run Forest Run!!!

 

[turtlelover]

I fear I am in the same boat. Although I am no longer a young man I am new at seeing escorts and the first lady I saw had me head over heels as it were. I did try the approach of seeing a few others and also a few MA s but the first girl was it for me. I still see her regularly and she might have a clue that I am in fact fighting the feelings. I fell for her pretty hard. I am aware that it is her "job" and I have no problem paying her for her time. Luckily I am in a financial position to see her often and for extended periods of time. I thought about going cold turkey as many here are suggesting and no longer see her but I do not want to deprive myself of the immense pleasure I get while in her company. I figure that as long as the $ is not a problem and as long as I dont fool myself into thinking she will run away with me and live happily ever after it should be ok.

I just dont know what to do....Im at school in london most of the year and just use the money I make when I work internships in the summer. feelsbadman.jpeg

 

[Ms.FemmeFatale]

lol, seen it and I also dont have her number I book her through the agency.

Does that not give you a clue? You want a date a girl you have paid for sex who's personal name and phone number you do not even know?

Buddy, as nicely as I can be, give your head a shake. You are not falling in love. You had a good time and want that again. I get it but it is not real. So if you can not see that, then walk away now before you hurt yourself.

 

[pusher69]

Turtlelover, you are young, go enjoy university life and the girls that come with it. There should be plenty for you to find some connection with. As SJP said, "Stop seeing her"

Its like breaking up with an ex, avoid all contact and stop looking at her agency pictures.

The girl you saw was there to cater to your needs and made sure you had a great time (repeat clients are always better) and possibly come back. Outside of the couple of hours you spent with her, their is still a whole other side you may not know about.
Again, you had a fantasy moment...thats all.

This hobby is not about finding love or a GF, but getting intimate with another person without the chase. Yeah I know most women love the chase...but that for civillian life!

 

[Vixens]

I show no signs of love interest when I'm there, I make sure of that. I want to but know that it would be a bad idea to. I am thinking of seeing her one more time and asking if she would see her clients outside the agency, worth a try IMO.

And how will this benefit you? Will you still be paying her? More than likely. Does this put her job at risk? Again more than likely. So what really have YOU gained?
If you're going to ask her out, ask her out but be prepared for the answer and respect it. Period.

As a side note, by far one of the biggest complaints I get from the ladies we represent is clients asking for their personal information.
Some men treat it as a game, others develop "feelings" and some truly feel that as an agency, we exploit the ladies we represent and convince themselves that by going outside the boundaries they are "helping them". Rarely are any of these based in reality. Some ladies will take you up on the offer....most wont. Either way as a general rule you're still paying and that will rarely turn into a meaningful relationship.

What you fell for is chemistry and an experience. You know nothing of who she is. You've met her 2 or 3 times? Do not mistake that for love. Good luck.

 

[fuji]

If you feel there was truly a spark why throw it away?

He is 20. Not ready to settle down or whatever, regardless what he thinks he thinks. He should be dating different women for the next few years while sorting out education and then career.

Dating an SP is a possible but deeply challenging undertaking for both parties. Why start a relationship with all that baggage when it will probably and should probably only last a few months.

Different answer if he was more mature, looking for something with more of a future. In that case I would say give it a try while realizing the overwhelming probability of failure. But he is too young.

OP: Whatever you do, don't give her another dollar. Once you are emotionally involved it should not be a financial arrangement. Hard reality is she probably doesn't feel the same way about you but she could easily suck every last penny you can borrow out of your immature fantasy of her.

 

[sirfcukalot]

I just dont know what to do....Im at school in london most of the year and just use the money I make when I work internships in the summer. feelsbadman.jpeg

There are some fine women on UWO. Start looking at those . I don't think hiring an sp ever crossed my mind during my days in uni. Especially if you stay on or near campus.