Excuse me?I assume as you have been on TERB since 2010 you have established enough of a good reputation to need not worry about one guys opinion even if not a legit one..
Excuse me?I assume as you have been on TERB since 2010 you have established enough of a good reputation to need not worry about one guys opinion even if not a legit one..
I'm on Heather's side.What's the problem? Many guys in the above thread would say it's just negotiation and haggling over price is ok, so he used a bit of threat, no big deal right? Everything is negotiable according to some of those Terbites in that thread.
there is a difference between negotiating and threatening.What's the problem? Many guys in the above thread would say it's just negotiation and haggling over price is ok, so he used a bit of threat, no big deal right? Everything is negotiable according to some of those Terbites in that thread.
Don't even give it a second thought Heather. There are many guys who are gutless and hide behind a screen or phone and use threats but never carry them out.
So am I, always have been on the ladies' side of this, read the link I posted. I was being facetious in my post.I'm on Heather's side.
However, the guy could post something along the lines of "she charges X but the going rate is Y." But, that isn't what he is attempting to do, instead he is making threats reduce your price or I'll give you a bad review and that sort of behaviour is indefensible!
lol, thought you might pop up considering you were in that other thread.there is a difference between negotiating and threatening.
there is a difference between a threat and negotiation, there is no matter how you want to word it. "hey will you do .... for this price" is way different that 'if you don't do it for this price then i am going to do .... to you". threatening a girl with a bad review could hurt her business and hurt her emotionally and should never be done, threatening anyone in any industry for a better price should never be done. asking if there is wiggle room on the price and then moving on when told no is acceptable. have a nice night, i'm not gonna hijack this girls thread when she was just looking for support.lol, thought you might pop up considering you were in that other thread.
This moron used threatening techniques as part of his negotiations. He's not threatening her life, he's just a gutless moron who was negotiating for a lower price from Heather by using the threat of a bad review. It's still negotiating a lady's price, regardless of one's tactics. You just don't negotiate, find another lady that fits your budget.
lol, thought you might pop up considering you were in that other thread.
This moron used threatening techniques as part of his negotiations. He's not threatening her life, he's just a gutless moron who was negotiating for a lower price from Heather by using the threat of a bad review. It's still negotiating a lady's price, regardless of one's tactics. You just don't negotiate, find another lady that fits your budget.
Sorry, it obviously wasn't clear that I was adding to, not disagreeing with what you posted.So am I, always have been on the ladies' side of this, read the link I posted. I was being facetious in my post.
You hit the nail on the head Simon.there is a difference between a threat and negotiation, there is no matter how you want to word it. "hey will you do .... for this price" is way different that 'if you don't do it for this price then i am going to do .... to you". threatening a girl with a bad review could hurt her business and hurt her emotionally and should never be done, threatening anyone in any industry for a better price should never be done. asking if there is wiggle room on the price and then moving on when told no is acceptable. have a nice night, i'm not gonna hijack this girls thread when she was just looking for support.
I guess, that is if you consider blackmail an acceptable negotiation tactic.... It's still negotiating a lady's price, regardless of one's tactics...
Don't intentionally misunderstand what the majority of those people were saying. Negotiation is a lot different from threatening to post an unjustifiably bad and false review.What's the problem? Many guys in the above thread would say it's just negotiation and haggling over price is ok, so he used a bit of threat, no big deal right? Everything is negotiable according to some of those Terbites in that thread.
just to play devils advocate here and i am not trying to attack anyone. take heather out of the equation and just make it generic. take the threat to post a negative review out of it as well. what would happen if a guy posted a negative review of someone just because he didn't have a good time ? would you all blindly attack him just because she has reviews that are good and because people like her ?Heather has a great track record and no bad reviews, so if someone posts up a bad review then i think any smart person on this board will know its bullshit and will attack this idiot.
No worries heather, don't be sensitive. Sensitivity is for overweight women that don't get sex from their men anymore.