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Youngbuc

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When you told your story i can't believe how similar it is to my situation but I'm on the other side, I'm sorry it happened dude but it happens, as men we are weak and love the the forbidden but there is lots of fish in the sea and you seem like your in a good position in life, enjoy it
 

IRIS

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I guess when I re-opened this thread I should have explained that the problem was exposed over a year ago. I only just thought to comment on this thread now. I don't think that the guy I caught her with was even in the picture when this thread started, so I'm guessing that he wasn't the first. Anyways to summarize, our marriage was sexless for a mutitude of reasons, one of them being mental illness. I never felt myself to be in a position to dump my wife. Not for cost reasons, but out of moral obligation. Anyways, work became my escape, and yes, I have paid for sex probably 2 or 3 times a year since our troubles began. I've always been self employed, my wife has never worked. I didn't ever think of leaving her...until one day she said "we're separated"...then she said we need time apart...although she wouldn't leave the house, but wanted me to. So I continued to work, she continued to live at home. I asked outright if she was having an affair, and she had no issues with lying to my face. She was really good at it. My lawyer summed it up best when he told me that "parasites don't leave unless they have a new host" so I did a bit of sleuthing and realized she spent 5 days a week at a boyfriends house - a guy that I used to hang out with over 20 years ago. I layed low with my info, did my separation agreement, finished all the paperwork...and then when she was back at her boyfriend's place, I had a lovely boquet delivered with a very personal note. Needless to say, I did ok in the settlement as I knew what I was up against. She left with about 1/2 million dollars, I kept the house and had the pleasure of watching her ass pack and get out the door. All in all, I did ok. It was messy...but things are starting to settle now. Thank you to all those who wished me well, and yes, I understand that I cheated on her too. I just would never have left her andd would have prefered to work things through.
And we're who expensive and immoral right?:)
 

johnnyboy6969

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shes def fucking around, maybe she caught crabs which is more than likely because you cannot use the cream with hair
 

out4fun

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And we're who expensive and immoral right?:)
I really. Wouldn't judge to morrality of SP'S - I. Honestly think that the morality question comes more into play where the guy is concerned. Honestly, in my situation I felt that it let me survive a sexless marriage and continue to provide for my wife.
As far as the costs of an SP, I have no doubt that its the least expensive way to go. I send my wife about 5k a month now, and I'm noticing that I have more disposal income than ever...Its crazy to think what it cost to have a wife at home that made no financial contribution in over 20 years.
 

SchlongConery

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in my situation I felt that it let me survive a sexless marriage and continue to provide for my wife.
As it does for many.


As far as the costs of an SP, I have no doubt that its the least expensive way to go. I send my wife about 5k a month now, and I'm noticing that I have more disposal income than ever...Its crazy to think what it cost to have a wife at home that made no financial contribution in over 20 years.

We need to band together as men and rent one of those mobile billboard trucks to drive around wedding planning stores with this printed on it!
 

HEYHEY

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my girlfriend goes for a brazilian wax all the time and gets her hair and nails done constantly and her husband has no idea what's going on.
no wonder you think magazines should be limited to x amount of rounds! you want a fighting chance when the husband finds you in bed with his wife hahahahah
 

Phil C. McNasty

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This reminds of Jose Canseco, the way he got caught cheating by his wife was Jose went to shower before he went to the gym :biggrin1:
 

out4fun

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We need to band together as men and rent one of those mobile billboard trucks to drive around wedding planning stores with this printed on it![/QUOTE]

Suprisingly, I'm still not sour on marriage. It was a stable way to raise two great kids, and there were a lot of good years. I have more problems with the rules surrounding divorce than I do with the notion of marriage. The laws are really fucked.
 

pipelayer

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Out4fun.. Don't let the critics get you down, which it doesn't seem they are anyway. I'm sure you must have been pretty certain what was going on for a long time, but maybe just didn't want to face the reality and finality of it all. Seeing an sp a couple times a year is nothing compared to her carrying on sexual relations almost every day with another person. She was having a complete relationship with someone else. I don't think those two things are comparable at all.
 

out4fun

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So does it come down to emotional infidelity is bad, sexual infidelity is worse, and sexual & emotional fidelity together is worst?
I wasn't ever engaged in activities that would lead towards me leaving her. I'm not saying that's better, just that I wouldn't give up on my marriage by choice. When she announced that we were spearated, I asked if she was having an affair, I asked if she wanted to try counselling to work on things, and she said she had already worked things through on her own. When you're caught, and you keep lying, its pretty hurtful.
 

loveisblind

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Sorry you had to go through that experience its never easy to let go of a long term relationship good luck in the future :)
 

mrsCALoki

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Out4fun.. Don't let the critics get you down, which it doesn't seem they are anyway. I'm sure you must have been pretty certain what was going on for a long time, but maybe just didn't want to face the reality and finality of it all. Seeing an sp a couple times a year is nothing compared to her carrying on sexual relations almost every day with another person. She was having a complete relationship with someone else. I don't think those two things are comparable at all.
Let me guess, you have a Penis.

If I found out my husband was seeing sps a couple of times a year, and for some reason I could not walk out immediately, I would see nothing wrong with finding a man who loved me and cared about me. Your words are to me as alien as being a little pregnant.
 

out4fun

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Let me guess, you have a Penis.

If I found out my husband was seeing sps a couple of times a year, and for some reason I could not walk out immediately, I would see nothing wrong with finding a man who loved me and cared about me. Your words are to me as alien as being a little pregnant.
There seemed to be a reason she couldn't walk out immediately. She was a parasite and needed a host to live off of. If she would have walked out immediately, I would have had a lot more respect for her.
 

mrsCALoki

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There seemed to be a reason she couldn't walk out immediately. She was a parasite and needed a host to live off of. If she would have walked out immediately, I would have had a lot more respect for her.
I bet she felt the same way. Much happier if you lefy before you started seeing other women.
 

out4fun

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I bet she felt the same way. Much happier if you lefy before you started seeing other women.
I honestly doubt that. She has limited ability to ever be self sufficient. My leaving wouldn't have been a reasonable option, or very fair.
 

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I honestly doubt that. She has limited ability to ever be self sufficient. My leaving wouldn't have been a reasonable option, or very fair.
Do yourself a favour and put Loki on ignore. She is not worth the trouble. If we can we can believe her stories she is the poster parasite for being supported by a man. It probably precludes objectivity.
 

mrsCALoki

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Do yourself a favour and put Loki on ignore. She is not worth the trouble. If we can we can believe her stories she is the poster parasite for being supported by a man. It probably precludes objectivity.
Well, perhaps. Loki wanted to go enjoy his retirement and not be forced to stay in one place. He was great and sacrificed himself so I could finish my education, but after a while he convinced me to become a "parasite". He did however transfer enough assets to my name so that I was secure and financially independent and having a job was pointless from an income point of view. So now we just travel and have fun. Our choice. I do not need to be here. I put my life on hold because he deserved to have a 5 year holiday.

But in a way you are right. I am outspoken and pretty much will always side with the woman in situations like that. I watched my mom crying most weeks long before I finaly understood what she knew and why it hurt her. She was trapped in her marriage. But I think she would have been much happier destitute. Oh well she is out of it now :)
 

Ms.FemmeFatale

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Well, perhaps. Loki wanted to go enjoy his retirement and not be forced to stay in one place. He was great and sacrificed himself so I could finish my education, but after a while he convinced me to become a "parasite". He did however transfer enough assets to my name so that I was secure and financially independent and having a job was pointless from an income point of view. So now we just travel and have fun. Our choice. I do not need to be here. I put my life on hold because he deserved to have a 5 year holiday.

But in a way you are right. I am outspoken and pretty much will always side with the woman in situations like that. I watched my mom crying most weeks long before I finaly understood what she knew and why it hurt her. She was trapped in her marriage. But I think she would have been much happier destitute. Oh well she is out of it now :)
That is so sad. I am truly heartbroken.

To know that if your mom had a backbone and brain, she could have left before you were born and it would have spared all of us you presence here.

Fucking women need to get with times and stop leaching off men. They have no idea how it affects the rest of the world. Selfish bitches!
 
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