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Celticman

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Perhaps a distinction without a difference.
The difference is that I don't share in his vicious attitudes. He seems to want to cheat not just because he enjoys having sex with women, but for reasons basically of demeaning their husbands. It seems to me that if he got the chance he would enjoy lording it over the husband that he had slept with his wife.

To me, I just enjoy the company of women, including having sex with them. I'm not going to go out of my way to avoid stepping on people's feelings, but I would feel at least a little bit bad about it if the guy cried. I'd still do it--but again, not for the vicious reasons he is.
 

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I was on a Commercial Flight and I finally had my first " sit beside hottie " experience. Anyways we hit it off. She's married with 2 kids, however, like everyone else relationships go stale. We continued to see each other and things started to progress. When this happens most of the time there's one person who likes the other person more. I bailed. I was super poor growing up....not interested in transforming my life from rich to poor if divorce strikes me cause eventually the physco " I love you card " will get pulled. Anyways after I saw two baby car seats in her mini-van my head changed. I don't have the stomach for that.
 

Celticman

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The difference is that I don't share in his vicious attitudes. He seems to want to cheat not just because he enjoys having sex with women, but for reasons basically of demeaning their husbands. It seems to me that if he got the chance he would enjoy lording it over the husband that he had slept with his wife.

To me, I just enjoy the company of women, including having sex with them. I'm not going to go out of my way to avoid stepping on people's feelings, but I would feel at least a little bit bad about it if the guy cried. I'd still do it--but again, not for the vicious reasons he is.

Fair enough. I get it.
 

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Partially true perhaps. I heard they hire women to chat up the boys, using whatever credits they bought. All I know for sure is that the few women I actually met through AM were in need of some attention that I happily gave them. Afterwards, I lost the taste for it all and stick with SPs & MPAs. Probably not much cost difference in the long run but no emotional attachment to worry about and no jealous hubsand to be concerned with.
 

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I was on a Commercial Flight and I finally had my first " sit beside hottie " experience. Anyways we hit it off. She's married with 2 kids, however, like everyone else relationships go stale. We continued to see each other and things started to progress. When this happens most of the time there's one person who likes the other person more. I bailed. I was super poor growing up....not interested in transforming my life from rich to poor if divorce strikes me cause eventually the physco " I love you card " will get pulled. Anyways after I saw two baby car seats in her mini-van my head changed. I don't have the stomach for that.
Reminds me of this scene from Shameless where Fionna fucks an old boyfriend from High School......

 

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You married guys should all have your head examined. Why blame the OP or any guy for that matter that engages in an affair with another man's wife. It is clearly the woman's fault for not having enough moral fiber to say no to the affair.

Also if you're married and you can't keep tabs on your wife to know where she is most of the time then you deserved to be cheated on. Especially if you were married to a hottie. If you're married to a buttaface than I feel bad for you.

On a side note I never understand average guys or even good looking guys date the ugly of the uglies. What is up with that? You guys must have seen couples like that. I mean some women that I look at I know there's no way I can get it up in bed even with the lights off.

I was going to say how we can ridicule the OP when there are married men cheating here, but Bob2071's post #62 puts hobbying with SPs in a better light than seeking and/or seducing attached women.

As for guys dating uglies, she may not have the look but she's got the touch. Also, she may have been much more attractive earlier in that longterm relationship which still endures but isn't based solely on looks.
 

gtamassage

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I kind of hope one you basterds fine my wife. I be happy if she run off with anothr man (or girl ok to)
 

kkelso

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I've heard it referred to as the "Bro code".

Pursuing another man's GF/ wife is the lowest form of human scum. You just don't do it.
Let's be clear though: Wife is very different than Girlfriend. It is, at least for me, an entirely different standard.
 
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