Giving gifts to an sp. Why are we doing it?

[Azprint]

I usually never bring anything for my first time appointments, however if I see a girl twice or more I almost always feel like giving her something, normally it is flowers. Sometimes gift cards, I even got something special for the kids of an sp.

I know I am not alone. So what are your motivations guys? Why do you feel bad going empty handed(save for donation) to a regular escort?

 

[Celticman]

When seeing an SP, I always bring flowers, a bottle of wine or a box of chocolates. The fee is always in a gift card. It's just a nice thing to do and is well received. No other motivation needed

 

[TeasePlease]

1. In hopes of improving service/mileage

2. To delude her, or ourselves,

 

[freestuff]

1. In hopes of improving service/mileage

2. To delude her, or ourselves,

Definitely #1.

 

[dirkd101]

I like to give a pearl necklace to the ladies.

 

[Ridgeman08]

I often give gifts... even on a first "date". The reasoning is as follows; my level of research for any given "date" is rather high, and sometimes a little personal in communication with the lady whom I've chosen... so the gift or "tip" is kinda my way of saying thanks for having gone through this process successfully with me.

The gift may include, but not be limited to: extra $, sometimes a gift card for Victoria's Secret/ Stag Shop/ Aren't We Naughty, sometimes in the form of some nice lingerie, or maybe even a nice diner at a local fine dinning restaurant and sometimes all of the above... depending on the level of participation by the lady in question.

 

[shack]

1. In hopes of improving service/mileage

2. To delude her, or ourselves,

Definitely #1.

I wouldn't underestimate the importance of the second part of #2.

Personally, I feel a fee of $250-300 for an hour is plenty of gift.

 

[Madeline Rhodes]

3. To show the woman that some amount of thought, and consideration went into seeing her and she wasn't simply a number in an ad that you wrote down and called because your penis twitched.

 

[rld]

That is how I choose to conduct myself with a lady that I am going to be intimate with. I need no more reason than that.

Although depending on my schedule etc, I must confess that I do not always bring a gift, even to ladies I have seen many times.

 

[Azprint]

Thanks for replies.

 

[Rockslinger]

2. To delude her, or ourselves,

To make it appear like it is a real date and not a fee for service.

 

[Celticman]

3. To show the woman that some amount of thought, and consideration went into seeing her and she wasn't simply a number in an ad that you wrote down and called because your penis twitched.

+1..

 

[GPIDEAL]

Thanks for replies.

I have only brought flowers on certain occasions but with close regulars. For example, a long stem rose complete with baby's breath, etc. the night before Valentine's Day.

For many who work out of hotels, especially those who may have SO's, I don't think bringing a bunch of flowers requiring a vase is practical or appropriate. If they work out of their home, maybe.

Gifts are appropriate for regulars but I've brought a box of chocolates for a 1st time encounter with an agency gal that I'd wanna to repeat as well with the other ladies there too.

Gifts can spice things up. Some regulars are like mistresses, so you go with the flow if the feeling is good.

A hobbyists reputation as a kind, considerate and generous gentleman can precede him. In return, he's treated like a favourite too.

 

[afterhours]

3. To show the woman that some amount of thought, and consideration went into seeing her and she wasn't simply a number in an ad that you wrote down and called because your penis twitched.

that was covered by #2

 

[GPIDEAL]

that was covered by #2

I've joked with a fave that she's getting the BFE - the boyfriend experience. (Honestly, I don't think any gal, even if they care capable, wants to just be treated like a semen receptacle).

 

[Hangman]

I've joked with a fave that she's getting the BFE - the boyfriend experience. (Honestly, I don't think any gal, even if they care capable, wants to just be treated like a semen receptacle).

Some do. Trust me.

 

[Hangman]

To make it appear like it is a real date and not a fee for service.

Said the guy who doesn't see escorts

 

[HEYHEY]

To make it appear like it is a real date and not a fee for service.

lol for the win

 

[DELETDrileydaniels]

I did it to see the smile on his face. Plus whenever he uses the gift he will have to think of me. - costanza

 

[Rockslinger]

I have only brought flowers on certain occasions
I've brought a box of chocolates

At the end of the day she throws the flowers in the trash and offers the box of chocolates to her last client.