Funny you say that because one of the reasons I decided to start escorting is because I really like BJs and was very good at at before I even started working in this industry.
Escorts and Marriage
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Not factual, and why would you speak about women like this? It tells us a great deal about you.
Spare me from a ladylike BJ. :Eek:
And what a terrible idea. Enthusiastic sex acts. Next thing you know, these women will want to be on top AND have their sexual needs met. :biggrin1:
Most guys have marriage prosposals when your so good at a bj ......so I said fark getting married i'm becoming a sp .
If you like doing something and you're good at it, you might as well get paid!
So far, nobody wants to pay me to eat sandwiches, though...
You don't see to realize where this thread is going. Allow me to summarize:
Nope.
Thats only because you were having fun with your BFs or clients not
your husband. Wives seldom enjoy giving BJs. You know the bride always
wear a smile walking down the aisle out of anticipation of not ever having to
give BJ again.
If the girl I'm with is really REALLY good in bed it might be a giveaway. I'd know she's very experienced for sure. Girls you might have to "dumb down" so your guy doesn't become suspicious
Just kidding...
I would tell him the truth and if he judged me for it and started treating me different .......I would leave.
A secure man would be ok with it if that was in my past.
A really secure guy might not even mind if you still did it on the side.
Can't help wondering how likely a secure man like that happens to
be an ex-hobbyist with his own insidious past. In all likelihood no
active hobbyist would feel secure about revealing their weekly
ventures.
I have dated a couple of strippers, and a bdsm domme. In all cases, I met them outside of "work", I had no idea what they did, liked them, and they informed me after the 1st to 3rd date. The relationships didn't work out, although the longest lasted 3.5 years; the breakups had nothing to do with their jobs. By "didn't work out" I mean I'm not married to any of them. They were lovely women and really excellent friends and lovers and I have no regrets about dating them, and I think they'd say the same of me. I've never dated a full GFE or PSE provider, but really at this point it wouldn't make any difference.
If they were going to continue in the business, it would have to be on a condition that she could tell me about her day at work the same as I told her about mine, and that we were both comfortable and had no issues.
Probably more likely, she would be semi-retired but have a few long-term regulars she still saw. I wouldn't have any issues with that. The ex's I mentioned certainly had long-term "fans" and I totally understand the relationship there. It is subtle, and nothing to be judgemental about. My GF that was a pro domme had a live-in slave who would sleep in the closet when I stayed over. I'm probably more open minded than most, but the thing is, if you are open sexually and at all kinky then you let your partner have their kinks too.
The key to me is loyalty. If I know my partner has my back, they are honest and open with me, we can share stories, and not judge, then that is the most important thing whether they are a CEO or an ADM or a waitress. Set our egos aside and not feel threatened and know that this person will be there.
If they were going to continue in the business, it would have to be on a condition that she could tell me about her day at work the same as I told her about mine, and that we were both comfortable and had no issues.
Probably more likely, she would be semi-retired but have a few long-term regulars she still saw. I wouldn't have any issues with that. The ex's I mentioned certainly had long-term "fans" and I totally understand the relationship there. It is subtle, and nothing to be judgemental about. My GF that was a pro domme had a live-in slave who would sleep in the closet when I stayed over. I'm probably more open minded than most, but the thing is, if you are open sexually and at all kinky then you let your partner have their kinks too.
The key to me is loyalty. If I know my partner has my back, they are honest and open with me, we can share stories, and not judge, then that is the most important thing whether they are a CEO or an ADM or a waitress. Set our egos aside and not feel threatened and know that this person will be there.
+100
for the record I have been with many civilians who were real good fucks, and i was with SPs who were average at best.
I actually am on topic. I am saying that being good or dirty in bed tells you very little about the past of the prospective wife in terms of ever having worked as SP.cause the thread is about escorts and marriage ...
but who's keeping track of the topic?
Absolutely! While everyone is entitled to some skeletons in the closet I would be honest about it. I think it would help my partner to understand me better.
I'd be happy to join him on occasion!
Honesty.
+1000!
You hit the nail right on the head.
Was never her client. Met her in the industry. Never asked her to quit her job.
