SP Staying Overnight - Safety Concerns
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Yes yes and I agree! Stranger danger! What SP "asks" to stay over? Why doesn't she want to go home after? She just met the man under business circumstances. Sounds unstable to me. Remember, we aren't paying her for the sex or her time as much as we are paying her to leave.
When I landed in Canada, I lived in my car for 6 months until I had figured out the Canadian industry. The online aspect was beyond me, I had never had an email, let alone understand how to run as an independent. I was an agency girl from down south and the agencies here in Ottawa that I worked for didn't know how to market a provider my age and I barely made enough $ to put gas in my car and feed myself. Several clients were kind enough to not show me the door when the appointment was over without knowing my circumstances. Genuine acts of kindness which I will never forget and to this day I am thankful for. A couple of them gave me keys after we got to know each other so I would have somewhere to shower and sit safe while waiting for appointments and to this day I smile when I drive past their homes or our paths cross.
I agree that care should be taken when inviting a stranger into ones home but there are those ladies who sometimes need a safe place to lay their head. A soft pillow, a hot shower and a warm body to hold can be soul renewing when life is a little rough...
cat
I agree that care should be taken when inviting a stranger into ones home but there are those ladies who sometimes need a safe place to lay their head. A soft pillow, a hot shower and a warm body to hold can be soul renewing when life is a little rough...
cat
All true, and very touching, but that's what friends, not clients, are for.
I once booked with a hot young EE lady. We were very intimate in our booking and she was very complimentary. I just chalked it up to her being very good at her job. A few months later we met at a TERB party downtown. We left about the same time, and though the intention was not to leave "together", that's more or less what happened.
2 Years later she was in trouble with her landlord, breaking up with her boyfriend, and a mother of a six month old. She looked me up, readily admitted it was a stretch, because, as she said it, she had no friends in this town, and I stood out in her memory as a sweet and memorable client and under her circumstances, was the closest person to a friend she could think of. The fact that she was travelling with a baby made her seem somehow more safe. Personally I thought it was very sweet and touching that, despite her desparation, she remembered me at all, let alone thought of me as a friend she would trust to bring her troubles and child to.
As it turned out she was using her client list as a resource list across town, looking for easy marks to con out of a few nights, weeks, or months of room and board. It always ended with some kind of petty theft.
You'll be safe as long as you are prepared beforehand.
1. When it's time for sleep, put on a garland of garlic. Wear this all night, do not take off until you see the sun has risen.
2. Also keep symbols of Catholicism all about your abode. Crosses are most effective in keeping you safe from any harm.
3. Put on clean underwear before retiring. You know what your mother told you!
1. When it's time for sleep, put on a garland of garlic. Wear this all night, do not take off until you see the sun has risen.
2. Also keep symbols of Catholicism all about your abode. Crosses are most effective in keeping you safe from any harm.
3. Put on clean underwear before retiring. You know what your mother told you!
Madam, go look up the definition of petty. Perhaps to you it is significant but not compared to what most young SP get for "few nights, weeks, or months".
Lol! I pay SP to never have to see them again once I've made a mess??? I have had enough drama with getting civilian chicks to leave after I drunk fuck'em when I offfer them cab money. I think the biggest worry I would have is her calling her pimp in the middle of the night and sneaking away with personal belongings.
Have you been following the Luca Magnotta story lately.
Do you want your balls delivered by Canada Post to Conservative or Liberal office ?
Funny thing is that guys will bring home a chick from the bar without a second thought.
Heck look for a guy who is dressed nice and maybe if a spotter outside happened to see what kind of a car he rolled in on, bingo there's your target.
Get him to take the girl home. She slips something in his drink. Calls her buddies in a van outside and rob him silly.
People should be careful about bringing anyone home. So don't be cautious because she is an SP be weary because she is a stranger.
Heck look for a guy who is dressed nice and maybe if a spotter outside happened to see what kind of a car he rolled in on, bingo there's your target.
Get him to take the girl home. She slips something in his drink. Calls her buddies in a van outside and rob him silly.
People should be careful about bringing anyone home. So don't be cautious because she is an SP be weary because she is a stranger.
Agreed but in my case, I had just arrived in Canada courtesy of Homeland Security after relocating many, many years before. I actually didn't know anyone here at that point.
I'm really sorry you were part of con, it's disturbing to me on every level when I hear stories like that. Your's isn't the first, likely won't be the last and it makes it hard to trust anyone once you've been taken...
cat
guy was probably summoned to help her clean the house of all valuables while you were asleep. What else could he have been invited to your house for?
well.. unlike you, most of us don't sleep over or have some random person sleep over at our place. Whatever happened to the saying, SPs are in this for a business.. Friends and family sleeping over are different
Have you never spent the night at someone's house?
Have you never had someone spend the night at your house?
Because she is an SP, it makes it all different somehow?
Now you have to "take precautions"?
I wouldn't have someone stay at my house if I felt I needed to "take precautions".
I woke up one day and found this milf on my sofa in her panties eating beans warm out of a can from my cupboard that was few years old. The evening before was a blur. Then she tells me she had missed court that morning and she most likely had a warrant out for her arrest. I was like WTF! She did not want to leave and was trying to get her sister to drop clothes off to her ( she thought she was moving in or something, lol!).
THIS +1
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In my best Caddyshack, Bill Murray Groundskeeper voice, "Just coming over for an unannounced visit at 5am. No big deal."
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By the way, in my case petty theft was my HP Pavillion desktop computer ($700), my NOKIA cell phone ($400), my 35mm camera ($300), and keys to my home and car. This happened in 2003. I had to change my home and car locks ($275).
