What is my wife getting at?

[bob4430]

I met my wife when I was 19 and still a virgin.

Now 16 years later, she says to me "do you ever feel like you are missing out having only been with me?"

I answered "No. I love being with you."

Of course - I am not missing out....but that is not a discussion I plan on having.

Any thoughts on why she suddenly brought up this question??

Bob

 

[asterwald]

Either she is indirectly testing your commitment, plans on making your relation more open, or suspects you of cheating.

could be anything really. Why not ask her what she meant?

 

[angiec27@ymail.com]

She's onto you and she will make you sweat it out... keeping a deep, dark, dirty secret is often harder than just coming out and telling the truth. Not saying that you should come clean. Just be cautious. Perhaps, take a break for a bit.

 

[buttercup]

Obviously, she was feeling she's missing out only having been with you. She's at it, baby!

 

[Kenny-sauga]

You came to right place for seeking answer to your question! lol

 

[james t kirk]

Obviously, she was feeling she's missing out only having been with you. She's at it, baby!

I was thinking the exact same thing....

 

[james t kirk]

I would suggest, that you should suggest taking her to a swinger's club.

 

[LKD]

why not try saying to her in a sarcastic/joking manner that you have plenty of women and see how she reacts... then play accordingly

 

[eagle1man]

You came to right place for seeking answer to your question! lol

Have to agree with sauga's sarcasm here. If you value your wife and your marriage, this is NOT the place to come seeking answers for the health of your marriage. Think about it.

 

[harryass]

perhaps she wants to hire an SP with a a 10 inch Strapon for a 3 some with you and her.

 

[Mod100]

She knows or suspects

 

[WoodPeckr]

Any thoughts on why she suddenly brought up this question??

Bob

Maybe she wants to give a Swinger's Club a spin!....:eyebrows:

 

[LKD]

deny, deny, deny

or invite Terb for a gb

 

[GG2]

She's cheating on you.

 

[Catherine St.Claire]

Her intuition is telling her something is up. She may not know or believe that you are cheating but her spidey sense is tingling because something between you two is feeling disconnected to her. This is an excellent opportunity to open the discussion as to whether or not she is happy with your sex life. Often women are as unfulfilled as men are in this area and a frank and honest talk about what can be changed to make it better for the both of you could be at hand. Take advantage of it if you have any desire to better the sexual situation at home. Plan an child free evening with a dinner out and get her talking about what she wants, what her fantasies are, what is her ultimate J/O material made of? You might be pleasantly surprised about the woman you thought you knew...

cat

 

[WoodPeckr]

Maybe she's thinking about trying a

or more-some...

 

[69Shooter]

Hard to say without some pics of your wife! :eyebrows:

 

[fuji]

Did she say this just once? Or does she keep bringing it up?

If she said it just once, just let it go. Maybe she read a book or saw a TV show that day, or heard some gossip about a friend's husband or wife cheating. If she has brought it up multiple times, then it means something. Most likely, she is thinking about cheating, and is wondering whether you have, or suspects that you have, or that you want to.

 

[CapitalGuy]

Is she much better looking than you, or vice versa?

 

[Ceiling Cat]

Ask her if she is suggesting a menage a trois with her hot friend with the big boobs.