More like "If you love something, set it free. If it stays with you it is true love. If it flies away it was never yours."
It was a fast way to cut out a lot of garbage and worry. Also you put the money tag. I said time.
In love with an sp, what to do...
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It was a fast way to cut out a lot of garbage and worry. Also you put the money tag. I said time.
Now, that's really good advise. OP, you should listen to what Alona is saying.You have to remember that the good SPs know how to establish a realistic and friendly connection. But you also have to keep in mind that WE know this as well. Most of what the posters before me have said in this thread are more or less true, and all SPs are aware that this is the way that hobbiests think. If we shared feelings and wanted something to happen with a client (which DOES happen) we SPs would know that we'd have to go way out of our way to prove to YOU that we want to invest real emotions AND time (unbilled time, of course). In the same token, just because an SP is willing to spend a little extra time with you does not mean that she is in love with you - you might just actually be a cool person that she doesn't mind hanging out with.
My advice is to keep a safe distance and to not make assumptions. If an SP wanted to start a relationship for some crazy reason like true attraction to YOU and not your wallet, she would be the one doing the work to make it obvious and doable. Don't put an SP in the awkward position of having to explain that you have misread her "signals", despite how wonderful things are when you are together. EVEN IF she lets you take her out for dinner.
Just like in real life, friendliness can often be misconstrued. You could ruin a good client/SP relationship by trying to make things "real" and she might put you on her blacklist. If you have a good thing going, either 1) keep it going by not making it awkward, 2) nip it in the bud and stop seeing her for your sanity's sake, 3) go out on a limb knowing what risks you are taking. Your life, your choice... But be nice to the SP and also don't let yourself get played.
Alona M
Don't be such a pushover. But I think I might know who the sp is.DUde, you gotta tell us who she is so we can help you
i assume that your Mr Caloki is rational so he must have made the following calculation// average global cost per female assisted ejaculation is 50 bucks (high number Id think globally, but we'll use it because he likely made a quality adjustment in respect of your beauty )
so @ $2.8 million/ $50/ ejac .... he must have thought you were good for 56,300 ejaculations.
Hope you have a strong wrist, plenty of lip gloss and practice your kegels and sphincter regimen... and of course I assume you are fantastic to talk to
so @ $2.8 million/ $50/ ejac .... he must have thought you were good for 56,300 ejaculations.
Hope you have a strong wrist, plenty of lip gloss and practice your kegels and sphincter regimen... and of course I assume you are fantastic to talk to
Sadly no Internet at sea. The dome thing is not happy. Possibly needs more pixie dust. But most marinas have Wifi. I have Flir lesson soon so must go.
kratz seems to equate sex with what a man wants from a woman. And he likes math. Sorry, neither is my fault.
I need to learn how to use it.. It might be unnecessary some day. We are crewing the boat ourselves as soon as we can.
Google tells me that a FLIR is some sort of thermal imaging camera. The only people who use sh*t like that are spies, police officers, etc.
Is Lord Loki a secret agent? Is Mrs. Caloki involved in some sort of Black Ops?
hmmmm
Is Lord Loki a secret agent? Is Mrs. Caloki involved in some sort of Black Ops?
hmmmm
yes but with "any woman" an hour does not = 250. This is the problem with "cultivating love" in a client - sp relationship.
Dont get me wrong, i have come perilously close to "falling for" some of my paid companions. A number of then are amazing. But to really get to know a woman, Enough to learn and appreciate her best, as well as worst qualities, requires significant time, for the average earner, this would have to be "off the clock".
There was one (and one only) that I danced this dance with.
It won't work.
Use your intelligence in this case and not your heart.
Trust me.
It won't work.
Use your intelligence in this case and not your heart.
Trust me.
Shower her with expensive gifts, tip her double her rate, take her on dinner dates, overnights and weekend trips. Just lavish her. She'll love you back.
as for what to do? First thingmis tomgive your head a shake. Nowmwe allmhave metmwomen, and chatted with themmand felt like there was potential for more. But you have had this, then had the opportu ity to have her provide the real life version of your sexual fantasies!
Key is to be reasonable. And realistic. You arent in lovemwith her, you are infatuated. Sure in a small percentage this can leadmto something meaningful. But just cuz you have never feltmlikemthis with any other sp, doesnt mean you will li e happlily ever after.
