If you think there are no differences between men and women then you are an idiot. Pointing out that we're different is not misogynist. Men chase, and women are chased. That means that ordinarily men are the ones to deal with rejection, and we simply have more practice doing that. Thus if it comes down to a point where a relationship needs to end--and generally both parties kind of know it when that happens--the classy man allows the woman to be the one to call it off.It doesn't take much for Fuji's condescending and misogynist view of women to emerge
This right here is why you are either single or unhappily married. You have no emotional intelligence. You sit down and have a talk like that with someone if you think there is still a hope, so you start trying to talk to each other to work through the problem and save it. Once it's beyond that and you've decided it's time to call it quits if you as the man sit down and have this serious, frank "why it's not working out" conversation then you're just being a jerk. What woman wants a man who is dumping her sitting down and telling her why she isn't good enough for him???? Absolute jerk.Most classy is sitting down with the person and saying stuff is not working, so that while each of you might walk away saying "he/she wasn't for me", you don't also say they did something reprehensible too.
I guarantee you that women are smarter than you are, emotionally--especially you--and they know that you're unhappy in the relationship. All you need to do is drop a few hints that it really isn't going to work out--possibly by transgressing in a variety of ways (nothing too hurtful). Go out with friends and don't call her. Be inattentive. If she doesn't get the message stand her up a few times. She will figure it out and then she will ditch your ass.
If she is one of those rare emotionally unintelligent women who does NOT get the hint then maybe, then after trying for awhile to send her a message then MAYBE as a last resort you sit her down and have this conversation. But really, if you do that, you are saying to her, "you are a stupid woman, who needed me to treat you this way".
I know why I'm on an escort review board: I like to cheat. I like to have sex with a variety of women.
I also now know why you are, and it's not because you like to cheat...