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An unfortunate PSE session with Candice Cane.

Jezebel.Valentine

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Dear Gentlemen who enjoy PSE,

There is a reason we screen more deliberately. Despite the fact that Candice and I both really enjoy PSE we had the unfortunate circumstance of having to kick out a client last night. Every single time I turned my head he crossed Candice's boundaries. It's ho's before bro's and I could tell she was not ok. The boundaries that she had specifically laid out in emails, on her website and verbally at the start of the session were all violated. The fact of the matter is that he took full advantage of Candice every time I turned my head. He didn't stop when she said red and he secretly took video and photographs of her which we are still unsure we were able to remove from the camera. The both of us are quite shaken up by this event as neither of us have ever had to ask someone to leave. The reason we are both able to offer PSE safely is because we have our individual limits and the capacity to verbalize them. It is the mans job to understand, respect and not violate. In this situation I was so incredibly turned off, Candice was in pain and almost crying and there was just no way I was going to continue to provide pleasure to this person who clearly demonstrated absolutely NO RESPECT for Candice's boundaries. I feel he really took advantage of the fact that she is tiny, very young, new-ish and a complete sweet-heart who just wants to please. I have seen Candice fuck like a rock star several times and in this situation, the client wasn't getting anywhere with her because he was making her feel so disrespected and turned-off. I got so turned-off and angry that I had to kick him out. I called him out on his behaviour and I hope that there won't be any drama on TERB.

I just wanted to put it out there that PSE is awesome fun until something like this goes wrong and then it is GAME OVER. I will always make sure play is 100% consensual and if you OVERTLY go beyond someone's consent then YMMV applies and you sink and you lose.

It was a really unfortunate turn of events as this was an extensive session that Candice and I prepared for much in advance right down to specific toys and outfit requests. We really wanted this to go well, but it didn't. Neither of us are crooks, but you can be damned sure we are self-respecting women who don't tolerate being blatantly violated. Yes, I am angry as hell. But I am not going to let this one asshole cause me so much anxiety that I pull back on what I am offering. I have been enjoying doing more PSE sessions lately, but when something like this happens, it reminds me of why I need to be screening more carefully.

THANKS FOR READING
lots of love,
Jezebel

PS- Candice is okay, we got out of the situation and I had her back. We both want to be able to keep offering what we do and being able to enjoy it as well. xo
 
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Jezebel.Valentine

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ps- we are not going to name names on this board. We are going to give the guy the benefit of the doubt that hopefully he learned his lesson.
 

night ride

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Glad you're both okay. You did the right thing by booting him out and shouldn't worry about being labelled crooks for (I assume) not refunding the donation.
 

Jezebel.Valentine

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we love dick heads in the more literal sense, not the slang sense.
 

TheKittensMEOW

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So sorry to hear! Do you think as a public service announcement that his information should be shared privately among ladies of the board to ensure this does not happen to anyone else? Or was this just damage control incase he posted? This is scary!
 

Carling

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that sucks...hope you guys are alright!....i can't believe the asshats out there...if i ever had a chance to do a duo with you two, i'd be very repectful to your rules...that is a no brainer....treat them with respect, for gawd sakes look at the service they do for us!!!
 

Jezebel.Valentine

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Any girl who wishes to know his name can contact me privately and I will most definitely share his info. I am not going to post it public because that will just escalate the damage and I am going to give the guy the benefit of the doubt that he will remember that not all SPs will tolerate being taken advantage of.
 
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Hyena

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I for one am glad your okey. Both of you. I suggest you both treat and pamper yourselves. Mabee
Stick with your favourite gentleman callers and have them pamper, pleasure and treat you like the
Pse queens that you both are.
Also invest in a" code red" policy so that somthing like this can get nipped off quick.

All the best. H.
 

zpinkz

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No idea what happened but it sounds more like a BDSM session gone wrong rather than a PSE session.

Not that, that detracts from the seriousness of what happened. Glad 2 hear the session ended before it got any worse.
 

TheKittensMEOW

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I for one am glad your okey. Both of you. I suggest you both treat and pamper yourselves. Mabee
Stick with your favourite gentleman callers and have them pamper, pleasure and treat you like the
Pse queens that you both are.
Also invest in a" code red" policy so that somthing like this can get nipped off quick.

All the best. H.
He didn't stop when she said red and he secretly took video and photographs of her which we are still unsure we were able to remove from the camera.
Code red was not respected!
 

Musketeer

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That sounds possibly violent? Glad to hear you are both OK and we're there to help each other
DITTO! Wow, so sorry to hear this from two lovely ladies. Yes, it's important to know who you are dealing with. There are some real idiotss out there who don't respect boundaries. happy that you are both OK.
 

curious newbee

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Both of you have had great things written on here and are well respected already. Even for those who may not be as well known or respected, no one deserves to have their boundries crossed like that. It was great that you had Candice's back and hope that she is doing okay now. Jackasses like this give men a bad name...in and out of this hobby!
 

d_jedi

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Ladies! Don't ever let a guy remove your heels! They are not just for looking sexy!
A bit off topic... but YIKES! I don't like where this (the heels :) ) is going - I'm not into that! :)
 

K Douglas

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It's unfortunate but some guys want to have the girl feel pain, it gets them off. I'm glad that Candice is ok and that the situation didn't get uglier when you asked him to leave. No amount of screening can weed out all the assholes. Stay safe girls.
 

mightymouse007

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I offer my condolences as well. I'm a little curious. The guy went after only 1 gal? Jezebel was safe the whole time? If there's a disadvantage about independents, it definitely be security.
 
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