How cum you call yourself a sex worker when you have so much fun doing it?
Maybe "playtime sweetie" would suit you better?
I call myself a sex worker because I am a sex worker. SEX is my work, my career and my job. Is it not okay for me to like my chosen and self-built career? Do you like your job? I think it is okay to like your job, in fact, it is fucking excellent.
Sex work is a job. I like my job. I feel it is a good job, a safe job, a fun job and a rewarding job... but hey, at the end of the day, I still put the "job" in blow job.
Pretty much everyone I meet outside of the industry, assumes I am not a sex worker and also assumes a million things about this industry that aren't correct. So often in my daily life I find myself in situations with civilians where I need to pretend I am not a "sex worker" in order to not have to deal with social scrutiny or feeling like I am under a microscope. When I am actually doing sex work itself, this is the last place I feel I should have to pretend I am not a sex worker.
Can you give me another example of a profession where the argument, "don't call yourself a worker if you enjoy it" would make any sense?
I would prefer that my professional status as a sex worker would bring comfort and a sense of openness to those who wish to share an encounter with someone who is extremely experienced, talented, open-minded and loves what they do! There are reasons that many men chose to hobby rather than date. There is beauty in this exchange of sex/power/money/intimacy. For me it is about intention, time and tribute. How we all work to survive, how we go about shaping our lives around producing income is unique. I am pretty satisfied with my methods.
