donation - put it in an envelope or count it in front of sp?

[freestuff]

I`ve always put the donation in an envelope and then jumped into the shower (i.e. I was not in the room when the SP counts the money). But it seems like some guys do wait until the SP counts the money before doing the deed.
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So, am I in the minority now? And how do SP feel about this?

 

[frankcastle]

I'm a money on the table/quick count kind of a guy. If there's a chance to lay the money staggered so that it is clearly visible and easy to count without picking it up I do that.

 

[einar]

I've never understood this envelope silliness. I suppose that comes from the US, where prostitution is illegal. I just hand the woman her money at the beginning, and either I count it or I watch her count it.

 

[d_jedi]

I prefer to just leave an envelope on the table discreetly.
It's more GFE that way, IMO..

 

[asterwald]

envelope on a table, and head for shower

 

[doggee_01]

well i am an outcall guy and just leave it in plain sight on the dresser. the odd time with a lady i have not seen before she may ask "is this for me" or count it, but usually i see the same few ladies and it is just gathered up and put in her bag at the end.....

 

[shack]

I've never understood this envelope silliness. I suppose that comes from the US, where prostitution is illegal. I just hand the woman her money at the beginning, and either I count it or I watch her count it.

Very simple and foolproof.

What's even harder to understand is how the envelope maintains the GFE mood. Must be the sensitive metrosexuals.

 

[ctv250]

It's about time someone started a thread on this topic!

 

[shack]

she may ask "is this for me" or count it,

I love when they ask that. Who else would $260, neatly fanned out on an otherwise empty counter near the front door be for?

That's one time I actually keep the sarcasm, which has more chance of killing GFE than an envelope, to myself.

 

[CUTTERBUCK]

Donation - put it in an envelope or count it in front of sp?

In an unsealed envelope in plain sight on the coffee table, no lady has ever counted it, nor would I expect them to count it.

 

[asterwald]

Very simple and foolproof.

What's even harder to understand is how the envelope maintains the GFE mood. Must be the sensitive metrosexuals.

I think it has to do with the Client thinking that the lady sees him as a scam artist (akin to being followed at convience stores), and the lady feeling like a cheap hooker who only cares about money.

 

[frankcastle]

Anything a girl does to protect herself from getting ripped off is fine with me. Why should she trust me on a first meeting?

I bet the sinking feeling from getting ripped off is far worse then the sight of a stack of bills.

If someone wants to follow me in the store go for it I have nothing to hide and they are just doing their job.

 

[mightymouse007]

I don't see the point of the envelope. I mean if your SP is going to count it anyways, makes no difference than giving it directly to her. Just like you would buy something in a store and pay cash, would you put it in an envelope and give it to the cashier?

Or if for some reason the SP is offended by that, you could prob leave it on the table or perhaps in the washroom and give it to her indirectly in a way she will know its there.

If it was a gift or something confidential, I would understand why they put it in an envelope.

 

[Ripped 101]

envelope on a table, and head for shower

Same here.

 

[HentaiRanger]

never, ever have I counted money in front of a client. I've always thought it such bad manners. I did get an empty envelope once...

I always count the money just to make sure I have the correct amount. I miscounted once and ended up paying her the next visit.

 

[mightymouse007]

I always count the money just to make sure I have the correct amount. I miscounted once and ended up paying her the next visit.

My take on it, it shouldn't matter. The proper way is to count it in front of the person.

When you go to a bank at the service area. You withdraw let say $500, the agent serving you will count the money in front of you to confirm. It's just the proper way to do business.

But I guess if you're use to seeing the SP, the level of trust increases, and it's much easier to hand her the money indirectly without making such a big fuzz or counting.

 

[HOF]

I once had a guy give me the donation in a greeting card... It made me more inclined to open it in front of him so I could read the message and smile and say thank you Technically it also made it less awkward to count right in front of him lol

This is exactly how I operate, the use of a small greeting card allows the SP to read the card and witness the donation prior to the shower. Additionally, I provide browns & reds, so it's easier to count.

 

[Clear History]

I also place an envelope on a table or desk etc and hop in the shower.

However, in order to save the planet, I will be charging sps a 5 cent envirofee for the envelope.

 

[DigitallyYours]

I pay using loonies so instead of an envelope, I use a plastic bag.

 

[gypsy]

Why would you guys ever pay first? That is the surefire way of getting a bad session...