How many of you GAVE UP on dating figuring your just too undesirable to women?
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if they make self-serving choices doesn't it mean they are smarter rather than stupider?Women are just so sub par in Toronto. Compared elsewhere, I've found that there's no place that I have been where the women posess this combination of just plain dumb stupidness. At least women in other places (like Montreal for example) give it a shot. And there the girls are even more attractive and sexually hungry than in Toronto. The girls here are uglier, stupider, and make incredibly self serving choices.
FWIW, my younger sister avoids other women (by hanging out with FriendZone guys :frown: )Women can't even stand each other, I have yet to find girls that are true friends to one another. They continually manipulate each other and those around them. As I said, women aren't even nice people to begin with.
Nope. That's your perspective because of events that have happened to you. Clearly many people have fucked you over. Clearly you have issues far beyond repair. You are angry, bitter, lonely and prejudiced.Nope. Just telling it like it is without political correctness.
Just because you suck as a person, doesn't mean that what you say is true for those of us who are decent people
Well, lemmings also make self serving choices, and I wouldn't say that they are smartif they make self-serving choices doesn't it mean they are smarter rather than stupider?
Nope, it's just Winstar being his usual self. He bitches about how life and women sucks in Toronto, especially in terms of black and white, then claims to be heading to a better place where his talents are appreciated and the women are angels, but keeps coming back. He was one of a slew of misogynists who got a tongue lashing by various members a year or so back for the same lame shite. I see time hasn't changed him. He'll fade away eventually.And with this brilliant and penetrating insight into the battle of the sexes, I think this thread has reached its natural sexist, racist, and bitter end.
Thank you Winstar for showing everyone what kind of man not to become. Anytime you can advance nearly every stereotype you can name, drop several racial slurs and denigrate several races as well as an entire gender, you know you have reached the shallow end of the gene pool
Well done!
what would lemmings have to do to convince you otherwise? to serve somebody else as opposed to self-serve?Well, lemmings also make self serving choices, and I wouldn't say that they are smart
AhNope, it's just Winstar being his usual self. He bitches about how life and women sucks in Toronto, especially in terms of black and white, then claims to be heading to a better place where his talents are appreciated and the women are angels, but keeps coming back. He was one of a slew of misogynists who got a tongue lashing by various members a year or so back for the same lame shite. I see time hasn't changed him. He'll fade away eventually.
In that case Winstar, may I recommend relocating to Antarctica? I hear the women there hate 'douche bags' and 'black drug dealers'. I'm sure you'll find what your looking for there, and as a bonus you can do the women of Toronto a public service by leaving!
Wow wonder why winstar can't get a girl?!!!!!???
See guys beside him you guys are starting to look pretty good to women.
See guys beside him you guys are starting to look pretty good to women.
Yes, my height (or lack thereof) is the source of my defeatist attitude.
You guys need to understand, it's not just women, but everyone has height as the main descriptor of a person. Think about watching a detective TV show or movie, the first thing witness describe anyone is the height, ie "Tall black male" or "Average white female".
As for women's attraction, I don't blame for seeing height as one of the attractiveness qualities. It's biological. It's the same reason why we men stare at women with big breasts more than the small ones.
However, my case takes it to the extreme. I've read about guys 5'5-5'6 lamenting how women wants tall men (and not just the short women, almost all women). It made me realized that these guys are 5 or 6 inches taller than me, and yet they still have problems.
As for online dating, my height has left me outside of probably 95% of women's search filters, so there's little chance of them contacting me. And with the nature of online sites, where even the average looking women gets messages of from dozens of different guys everyday, I'm just a small fish in the plentiful sea.
So that's why I don't even bother with civilian dating. It's SPs, MPs, and strippers for the foreseeable future.
You guys need to understand, it's not just women, but everyone has height as the main descriptor of a person. Think about watching a detective TV show or movie, the first thing witness describe anyone is the height, ie "Tall black male" or "Average white female".
As for women's attraction, I don't blame for seeing height as one of the attractiveness qualities. It's biological. It's the same reason why we men stare at women with big breasts more than the small ones.
However, my case takes it to the extreme. I've read about guys 5'5-5'6 lamenting how women wants tall men (and not just the short women, almost all women). It made me realized that these guys are 5 or 6 inches taller than me, and yet they still have problems.
As for online dating, my height has left me outside of probably 95% of women's search filters, so there's little chance of them contacting me. And with the nature of online sites, where even the average looking women gets messages of from dozens of different guys everyday, I'm just a small fish in the plentiful sea.
So that's why I don't even bother with civilian dating. It's SPs, MPs, and strippers for the foreseeable future.
Hey no problem with hobbying I mean that's why we are all here.Yes, my height (or lack thereof) is the source of my defeatist attitude.
You guys need to understand, it's not just women, but everyone has height as the main descriptor of a person. Think about watching a detective TV show or movie, the first thing witness describe anyone is the height, ie "Tall black male" or "Average white female".
As for women's attraction, I don't blame for seeing height as one of the attractiveness qualities. It's biological. It's the same reason why we men stare at women with big breasts more than the small ones.
However, my case takes it to the extreme. I've read about guys 5'5-5'6 lamenting how women wants tall men (and not just the short women, almost all women). It made me realized that these guys are 5 or 6 inches taller than me, and yet they still have problems.
As for online dating, my height has left me outside of probably 95% of women's search filters, so there's little chance of them contacting me. And with the nature of online sites, where even the average looking women gets messages of from dozens of different guys everyday, I'm just a small fish in the plentiful sea.
So that's why I don't even bother with civilian dating. It's SPs, MPs, and strippers for the foreseeable future.
But remember most online contacts are made by the guy. So no worries about not being in their search filter. And on the bright side some might read the e-mail before seeing your bio (not sure what order women do it in) but you might get a chance to let your words be the first impression.
I won't lie it's probably low odds but probably not far off from other average joe's..... assuming you pick girls in the low 5 ft range.
Glad someone else noticed the n bomb..... I didn't see it till re reading the post in your quote....... first time around I stopped reading once I saw it was a crazy rant based on anecdotes and wild conclusions. Guess the non sexual women in his life don't work or date.And with this brilliant and penetrating insight into the battle of the sexes, I think this thread has reached its natural sexist, racist, and bitter end.
Thank you Winstar for showing everyone what kind of man not to become. Anytime you can advance nearly every stereotype you can name, drop several racial slurs and denigrate several races as well as an entire gender, you know you have reached the shallow end of the gene pool
Well done!
Spudd, you're absolutely right...however answer my questions please:Yes, my height (or lack thereof) is the source of my defeatist attitude.
You guys need to understand, it's not just women, but everyone has height as the main descriptor of a person. Think about watching a detective TV show or movie, the first thing witness describe anyone is the height, ie "Tall black male" or "Average white female".
As for women's attraction, I don't blame for seeing height as one of the attractiveness qualities. It's biological. It's the same reason why we men stare at women with big breasts more than the small ones.
However, my case takes it to the extreme. I've read about guys 5'5-5'6 lamenting how women wants tall men (and not just the short women, almost all women). It made me realized that these guys are 5 or 6 inches taller than me, and yet they still have problems.
As for online dating, my height has left me outside of probably 95% of women's search filters, so there's little chance of them contacting me. And with the nature of online sites, where even the average looking women gets messages of from dozens of different guys everyday, I'm just a small fish in the plentiful sea.
So that's why I don't even bother with civilian dating. It's SPs, MPs, and strippers for the foreseeable future.
Would you have a problem approaching/dating a taller woman if she was interested in you?
Would you be able to control any jealousy at her taller male friends (who all want to f**k her), if so?
Im curious, as Im 5'2.
evilbaga if a lady is interested in you, she is interested in you. Take it at face value. Never mind any other guys. AND if she is so flakey to be soon after, interested in some other guys, then she is not worth it. I myself fall short of 6' , but had 2 girlfriends 6'. Height not an issue for me nor them. I have no problem dating a taller woman BUT stats indicate only 1-2% of couples were the woman is taller SO unlikely to happen that I don't approach taller women. Evilbaga I think you create/ conjour up issues when they are not really there.
You forgot Washington D.C.Second to this might be New Jersey, but Toronto takes it by a far margin.
Should have approached the taller women anyways don't let a stat disuade you. I have dated women taller than me on a number of occassions and trust me I am nothing special.evilbaga if a lady is interested in you, she is interested in you. Take it at face value. Never mind any other guys. AND if she is so flakey to be soon after, interested in some other guys, then she is not worth it. I myself fall short of 6' , but had 2 girlfriends 6'. Height not an issue for me nor them. I have no problem dating a taller woman BUT stats indicate only 1-2% of couples were the woman is taller SO unlikely to happen that I don't approach taller women. Evilbaga I think you create/ conjour up issues when they are not really there.
No, I have not read such a book. I presume he is the brain-child of this theory?I do; did you read the book by the same name written by biologist Richard Dawkins?
I said on my post that no woman is better than the wrong woman. I never said that I can't attract any woman.Scott75 said:Genes can't be considered to be weeded out until you die or become infertile. Until then, possibilities still remain.
Well, first of all, you can't blame anyone else to justify sin. Everyone has to take responsibility for their own actions. Is that fair enough?Scot75 said:Why do you think you feel guilty about this?
I like masturbation on a fleshlight and looking at pics because of the pleasure that is extracted from that without having to deal with social dynamics, or internal drama that comes along when I deal with another person. These justifications saying that women don't like me because of omega-sperm resonation simply make it "political", like I'm making some sort of statement. But, at the root of it, I know that I'm making self-propaganda by subscribing to that belief. This is why I should feel guilty because on some level, it simply can't be true.
In a sence this is why an escort actually makes sence with me. Because if I pay money into something, I'd probably be motivated to get my money's worth rather than get into internal dialogues as to whether physically interacting with a woman is right or wrong. Experience shows, with "free" woman who are not professionals but love sex, I have bailed out because of intense internal dialogues and never followed through. Perhaps this is why I find this site interesting.
Probably more at a root, I tend to think allot and have lots of internal dialogue. Mentally, I'm never 100% there because I'm so used to the solace of my own thoughts rather than being with other people, sort of making me into a sort of schizoid personality, and this perhaps is a better explanation over the sperm theory.
In fact, when I tried out pheromone products last year, I noticed that it made me feel calmer, lowered my mental speed to a point I'm better able to focus on my environment, detect blood-chemistry, and zero-in on women who I felt had a similar blood chemistry. Again, may never know 100% why I've either attracted tthe wrong women, or am simply not motivated to date. Genetics is always the easiest thing to blame because you don't have to do anything about something yo can't control and the theory does sound plausible.
Winstar, So, where would you go to find women then? I'd think http://www.loveme.com would be a great idea to travel and meet women. Do you travel to meet women?
