How many of you GAVE UP on dating figuring your just too undesirable to women?

legmann

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T.O.
Just keep in mind I NEVER said it is impossible to find someone that would be attracted to me. Nor I am sure the other guys think the same of themselves. JUST that the odds are so remote that one loses interest in the effort. I am the same way with lottories. Never play since odds so remote & yet people win all the time. I am just not motivated with such poor odds. As I said before, I think once your 30 you have a sense of what your odds are, what general level of attractiveness you have to women. I was just curious to see how many here are in that position & what it is about them that makes them so unattractive. Indeed some can be encouraged to change those factors & improve their odds.
You are WAY too down on yourself, and overly focused on your physical/outward attractiveness. You need to adopt a major shift in thinking (seek professional counselling if necessary) and focus on what else you have to offer.
 

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i get the feeling that there was already a similar joke already.........funnier the first time
granted easy to miss in all these posts
Sorry about that, but you are right about all these posts. I thought Seinfeld was based on the real life experiences of Seinfeld, Kramer and George.
 

kenpachi

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The problem here is that many girls think that they are too good, or hot. Many guys think they are too cool. Well, I've got news for everyone. It's because of this type of attitude that many beautiful single young ladies stay home alone on Friday and Saturday nights. And the silly boys hang out together with other boys acting cool. I have approached many groups of young ladies and pull a fast one liner. Not the creepy ones, but cute ones like "I may not be a genie but I can make your dreams come true" or "You must be in a wrong place - the Miss Universe contest is over there". The girls get flattered, and they will talk to you. There is no harm just as long as you approach them in a friendly manner. It also helps too when you have a bunch of buddies behind you laughing at you from a distance. I've had many group dates this way. If it does not work, then who cares, you get a good laugh and move on. At least you did not harm them. The young ladies go home feeling good about themselves, and they think about it.
 

Don Draper

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A wise man (can't remember who, exactly) said: "Never, never, never, NEVER give up.
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kenpachi

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And trust me. I'm just an average looking buy that likes to have fun every now and then. And who cares if some strange group of ladies laugh at you. At the end of the day, everyone gets to have fun at the expense of one guy "kenpachi" and it's all worth it.
 

frankcastle

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blackrock13, you are such a stud. With the number of post that you have, you must have girls crawling all over you. How does a man who have "them pay your way" have so many posts? Where do you find the time? I need some input from a ladies man such as yourself.
lighten up just a joke.....
 

kenpachi

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lighten up just a joke.....
frankcastle, when I first got on board, I thought "what a great site" there are so many fellow brothers here who have vast experience and knowledge with life. Until blackrock13 started to write about my comments and opinion. To be honest, if anyone disagrees or rebuts my comments, I have no problems. As a matter of fact, I welcome a nice debate. Later, I think to myself “wow, I’ve just learned something”. With blackrock13, I think “Fuck, what a waste of time. Why did I type so much to reply to an asshole like blackrock13”. He has some magic powers that really pisses me off.
 

terb187

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frankcastle, when I first got on board, I thought "what a great site" there are so many fellow brothers here who have vast experience and knowledge with life. Until blackrock13 started to write about my comments and opinion. To be honest, if anyone disagrees or rebuts my comments, I have no problems. As a matter of fact, I welcome a nice debate. Later, I think to myself “wow, I’ve just learned something”. With blackrock13, I think “Fuck, what a waste of time. Why did I type so much to reply to an asshole like blackrock13”. He has some magic powers that really pisses me off.
When you are on these boards it becomes fairly clear who the stable people are and who the bat shit crazy people are. I think it's easy to guess what BlackRock is. He's clearly not all there. Why bother?
 

kenpachi

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When you are on these boards it becomes fairly clear who the stable people are and who the bat shit crazy people are. I think it's easy to guess what BlackRock is. He's clearly not all there. Why bother?
I don't know man. Good question.
 

blackrock13

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Me too!

The other rock, rockslinger, nottyboi and ceiling cat fall into the same category!

BS, you've just run out of family photos to share with TERB. Then considering the quality of your recent contributions, most of which just regularly blow up in your face, it's clear you're just getting lazy. There certainly aren't members asking, where's Rubbie, we miss him?

As for KP and his slew of contributions. It's more just a case of posting stuff and then not successfully backing it up. This latest hissy fit is based on a post that indicated I made a claim of having a skill, which was clearly not so in black and white, see #263, and have never claimed to have women crawling all over me. If KP actually paid attention as he claims and read stuff, it would be clear exactly the opposite is the case, but that wouldn't fit his fantasy flame. Yet I'm the one being called bat shit crazy?
 

blackrock13

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When you are on these boards it becomes fairly clear who the stable people are and who the bat shit crazy people are. I think it's easy to guess what BlackRock is. He's clearly not all there. Why bother?
This is your observation based on all of three weeks participating in the various threads on TERB or are you another retread.
 

Samurai Joey

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Could be. But Occam's Razor would say men are under more stress.
As someone whos done alright with women, this is inconceivable to you.

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http://www.nisu.flinders.edu.au/pubs/bulletin15/bulletin15sup.html
I have read in other sources that part of the gender difference in the suicide rates is that while more women attempt suicide than men, men more often than not choose more effectively lethal methods for suicide (e.g. using a weapon such as a gun). Therefore, one cannot simply conclude that, since more men die of suicide than women, that somehow men are under more stress than women.
 

frankcastle

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I have read in other sources that part of the gender difference in the suicide rates is that while more women attempt suicide than men, men more often than not choose more effectively lethal methods for suicide (e.g. using a weapon such as a gun). Therefore, one cannot simply conclude that, since more men die of suicide than women, that somehow men are under more stress than women.
I read the same things and mentioned it to evil. He claims to have a scientific mind but doesn't grasp the concept of multiple variables.
 

kenpachi

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BS, you've just run out of family photos to share with TERB. Then considering the quality of your recent contributions, most of which just regularly blow up in your face, it's clear you're just getting lazy. There certainly aren't members asking, where's Rubbie, we miss him?

As for KP and his slew of contributions. It's more just a case of posting stuff and then not successfully backing it up. This latest hissy fit is based on a post that indicated I made a claim of having a skill, which was clearly not so in black and white, see #263, and have never claimed to have women crawling all over me. If KP actually paid attention as he claims and read stuff, it would be clear exactly the opposite is the case, but that wouldn't fit his fantasy flame. Yet I'm the one being called bat shit crazy?
Oh blackrock13, you once amused me some time ago. But know, I've come to a conclusion that you are either a juvenile teenager that gets high by pissing people off, or a grumpy old fart that does not know any better. Either way, you Mr. blackrock13 have way too much time on your hands.
 

frankcastle

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Oh blackrock13, you once amused me some time ago. But know, I've come to a conclusion that you are either a juvenile teenager that gets high by pissing people off, or a grumpy old fart that does not know any better. Either way, you Mr. blackrock13 have way too much time on your hands.
Start your own thread..... or get a room. :)
 

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You guys think you're pathetic??? Here're my stats:

Asian, 40, 5'0" (shorter than you average Asian), borderline obese, have to take 5 prescription drugs daily, and still works out 2-3 times a week. Imagine if I didn't workout, I probably be morbidly instead of borderline.

Only been on about 5 dates with civilian girls in my lifetime, never had a girlfriend. Only women I had sex with are SPs and strippers.

Only positive I have is a good job, but all my extra money goes to the hobby.
 
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