propeer SP-client etiquette

massman

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I dont get too bent out of shape about emails not being answered. I just take it that a) shes not available or b) already busy enough and i move on to someone else. No biggie.

As for the issue of lower rates in different markets, thats just the way it is. Everyone knows the going rate in different cities varies. In Montreal you can have an hour with a beatiful girl including all the options often for less than 200. In toronto and ottawa, it is pushing 300. If the market in a particular place wont bear the rates you feel you deserve, then make it a point noto work there. And just because a girl charges a premium, its no guaranteemshe is notmrunning an assembly line operation tho you are more likely to encounter this at low priced situatio s i agree.
 

Casey.xox

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Casey, 7 posts all bitching about this job...perhaps you should find another line of work.
I started this thread to vent out frustration, and to see if I was the only SP that felt this way, and I also wanted to start a discussion looking at it from both angles,client and SP. I've learned the way some clients think, which will help me on the business end of things, and I've learned about some of the things that us SPs do that's annoying, so I can make a habit of correcting some of the ways I 'run my business' to make it better and more efficent for myself and my clients.

And no one asked me what I like about this job, if someone did they would probably get quite a few paragraphs about how I love it. So thanks but no thanks!
 

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I've learned the way some clients think, which will help me on the business end of things, and I've learned about some of the things that us SPs do that's annoying, so I can make a habit of correcting some of the ways I 'run my business' to make it better and more efficent for myself and my clients.
Constructive feedback is always welcome.
 

DELETDrileydaniels

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I never answers or commented on the email thing or managing phone calls before I return them promptly sometimes instantly I am more annoyed at the fact that I take the time to reply back pretty quickly and not get a response back. I dislike getting text messages as initial contact so I ignore them completely guys still ignore the fact I do not answer text messages and miss out, and can't see to read clearly how it states not to contact me by text unless I say so.

I not available as much as I use to be but I still manage my responsibilities and business well.
 

Brill

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Casey, 7 posts all bitching about this job...perhaps you should find another line of work.
Her posts are top notch, she's intelligent and polite with her views. :thumb:

I bet most escorts share the same pet peeves, should they all leave the industry?
 

Yoga Face

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I don't care what anyone says, but staring me in the eyes and asking me if I will kiss you and suck your dick without a condom is WORSE than asking via text before hand
Why is it rude to inquire about your services ?
 

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Why is it rude to inquire about your services ?
I believe any discussion about services should take place in a discrete and respectful manner before the session. I find discussing menus to be a mood killer and prefer to go into the meeting knowing what's available and, therefore, being able to ensure I don't cross any lines during the session.
 

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I believe any discussion about services should take place in a discrete and respectful manner before the session. I find discussing menus to be a mood killer and prefer to go into the meeting knowing what's available and, therefore, being able to ensure I don't cross any lines during the session.
Originally Posted by SydneyFox
I don't care what anyone says, but staring me in the eyes and asking me if I will kiss you and suck your dick without a condom is WORSE than asking via text before hand


She says no asking via text

When do you ask ?
 

wpgguy

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I believe any discussion about services should take place in a discrete and respectful manner before the session. I find discussing menus to be a mood killer and prefer to go into the meeting knowing what's available and, therefore, being able to ensure I don't cross any lines during the session.
Same here, I always inquire when I book, if the lady will not discuss this when I want to book I just move on to someone else.
 

Casey.xox

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I'm pretty sure she meant he already askerd her via text, even though she dosnt like texting. I think her point to make is that she's already said no, so its rude to ask again in person to see if she will change her mind. Either way there are nice and discreet ways to ask for such things.
 

massman

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I started this thread to vent out frustration, and to see if I was the only SP that felt this way, and I also wanted to start a discussion looking at it from both angles,client and SP. I've learned the way some clients think, which will help me on the business end of things, and I've learned about some of the things that us SPs do that's annoying, so I can make a habit of correcting some of the ways I 'run my business' to make it better and more efficent for myself and my clients.

And no one asked me what I like about this job, if someone did they would probably get quite a few paragraphs about how I love it. So thanks but no thanks!
I think this is a good thread. But (on this side of things) I can sort of see how one might interpret some of your posts as griping about the job. It is all in the tone (e.g. "it's the john's job to convince me why I should see them" I know I'm paraphrasing, but as a "John" that is how it reads). I know you are directing the venting at a certain group of clients (who probably deserve it). Just that in Internet discussion boards and email, the reader "attributes attitude / emotion at their discretion" to what is written. It is human nature. But as I said. Good thread and there is stuff to be learned on both sides.
 

massman

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Re text. I love booking this way. I know some girls don't ( I understand why) but from my point of view it is super easy and efficient. I love no hassle booking, it is a big plus for me
 

Peter123

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I find certain areas worse than others... Clients in KW/cambridge area are the worst! They are very cheap, rude, and quick to judge!
What do you consider proper SP-client etiquette?
Ouch...sorry to hear you have had issues with those of us in the tri-cities area...I won't try to defend all of us--but there are some good guys here!!
 
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