Maybe "YMMV" can also mean "Your Money Might Vary". Hee, hee, hee.THE YMMV thing is a marketing ploy for a LOT OF GIRLS...who never intend to carry out any of the SERVICES with anyone.
Don't take it personally, it is strictly business.Shitty that I got dumped, but better to know the score.
I started this thread to vent out frustration, and to see if I was the only SP that felt this way, and I also wanted to start a discussion looking at it from both angles,client and SP. I've learned the way some clients think, which will help me on the business end of things, and I've learned about some of the things that us SPs do that's annoying, so I can make a habit of correcting some of the ways I 'run my business' to make it better and more efficent for myself and my clients.Casey, 7 posts all bitching about this job...perhaps you should find another line of work.
Constructive feedback is always welcome.I've learned the way some clients think, which will help me on the business end of things, and I've learned about some of the things that us SPs do that's annoying, so I can make a habit of correcting some of the ways I 'run my business' to make it better and more efficent for myself and my clients.
Her posts are top notch, she's intelligent and polite with her views. :thumb:Casey, 7 posts all bitching about this job...perhaps you should find another line of work.
Why is it rude to inquire about your services ?I don't care what anyone says, but staring me in the eyes and asking me if I will kiss you and suck your dick without a condom is WORSE than asking via text before hand
I believe any discussion about services should take place in a discrete and respectful manner before the session. I find discussing menus to be a mood killer and prefer to go into the meeting knowing what's available and, therefore, being able to ensure I don't cross any lines during the session.Why is it rude to inquire about your services ?
Originally Posted by SydneyFoxI believe any discussion about services should take place in a discrete and respectful manner before the session. I find discussing menus to be a mood killer and prefer to go into the meeting knowing what's available and, therefore, being able to ensure I don't cross any lines during the session.
Same here, I always inquire when I book, if the lady will not discuss this when I want to book I just move on to someone else.I believe any discussion about services should take place in a discrete and respectful manner before the session. I find discussing menus to be a mood killer and prefer to go into the meeting knowing what's available and, therefore, being able to ensure I don't cross any lines during the session.
I think this is a good thread. But (on this side of things) I can sort of see how one might interpret some of your posts as griping about the job. It is all in the tone (e.g. "it's the john's job to convince me why I should see them" I know I'm paraphrasing, but as a "John" that is how it reads). I know you are directing the venting at a certain group of clients (who probably deserve it). Just that in Internet discussion boards and email, the reader "attributes attitude / emotion at their discretion" to what is written. It is human nature. But as I said. Good thread and there is stuff to be learned on both sides.I started this thread to vent out frustration, and to see if I was the only SP that felt this way, and I also wanted to start a discussion looking at it from both angles,client and SP. I've learned the way some clients think, which will help me on the business end of things, and I've learned about some of the things that us SPs do that's annoying, so I can make a habit of correcting some of the ways I 'run my business' to make it better and more efficent for myself and my clients.
And no one asked me what I like about this job, if someone did they would probably get quite a few paragraphs about how I love it. So thanks but no thanks!
Ouch...sorry to hear you have had issues with those of us in the tri-cities area...I won't try to defend all of us--but there are some good guys here!!I find certain areas worse than others... Clients in KW/cambridge area are the worst! They are very cheap, rude, and quick to judge!
What do you consider proper SP-client etiquette?
So did Tiger Woods until his wife found all his texts. Hee, hee, hee. Never leave an electronic trail. The divorce will cost you $500 million.Re text. I love booking this way.
I know that there are some great guys in that area and I appreciate my locals very muchOuch...sorry to hear you have had issues with those of us in the tri-cities area...I won't try to defend all of us--but there are some good guys here!!