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POF is pretty much a complete waste of time. Too many men and too few women.
I have recently hooked up with a local lady from Ashley Madison. We have gotten together a few times.
It takes some work though
Jay
I have recently hooked up with a local lady from Ashley Madison. We have gotten together a few times.
It takes some work though
Jay
I don't think that anyone should look at POF, Match.com, LavaLife or the other sites as "sex" dating sites per se. Certainly you can be clear in your profile that it is what you're seeking but it is a dating site first and foremost and there are no sure things in "those kinds" of dates.
Choose POF and there is the sifting through profiles, mass emails to all the ladies who might light your fire then the reference checking the top runners with obligatory coffee dates, narrow the field and there will be a dinner date or two or three with one or two or three front runners as you don't want to limit your options and you really don't have any sense of who you can seal the deal with till the moment arrives. All in, this 'experiment' has run you quite a few pesos with possily no or very low yeild.
I would think that the "dating" site that kynorth referenced would provide you with some great local leads and a much better likelihood of a sure thing; ROI on this particular "dating" site is much more lucrative.
Best of luck in your search.
xo Jane
Choose POF and there is the sifting through profiles, mass emails to all the ladies who might light your fire then the reference checking the top runners with obligatory coffee dates, narrow the field and there will be a dinner date or two or three with one or two or three front runners as you don't want to limit your options and you really don't have any sense of who you can seal the deal with till the moment arrives. All in, this 'experiment' has run you quite a few pesos with possily no or very low yeild.
I would think that the "dating" site that kynorth referenced would provide you with some great local leads and a much better likelihood of a sure thing; ROI on this particular "dating" site is much more lucrative.
Best of luck in your search.
xo Jane
I use pof. It's given me more positive responses than bad ones. I especially enjoy how dudes make profiles pretending to be bisexual girls in search of a date then I call them out on it and they fuck off. How pathetic to get a date do they have to be? Did all the straight girls turn them down so they are resorting to bothering lesbians? Tineye also works for calling BS on those sites too
Which reminds of one reason, no two, no make that four reasons I love you both.Jess, in your sig pic you and I bare a resemblance.
(Of course, that's not all.)
barely noticeable but warrants a hands-on investigationJess, in your sig pic you and I bare a resemblance.
bahahaha agreed. I took this pic on the 9th...was just too busy to post it.Jess, in your sig pic you and I bare a resemblance.
Girls on POF are overwhelmed with come-ons from pervs, no matter how conservative their photo and profile are. If you message them your odds are crap. Why would they pick you over the other 120 guys who messaged them that week? If they message you there's a chance. If you're not great looking, then you're not going to win over the other guys, and if you are, then in their minds your pic is likely fake, so they won't bother.
AFF is total garbage. Sausagefest. It has a worse M to F ratio than POF, which they hide with tons of fake profiles. There are some escorts on there, which I imagine are the only ones you have a chance of ever meeting, and the price is likely the same. Flirts and emails from fake members are the norm. Real girls will ignore you unless they are brand new.
The underlying problem I believe is the ratio. I've been turned down by girls on these sites, that would approach me offline. In fact, I met a girl out in the real world, who ignored me on pof, and she was thrilled to go for a date when I asked her in person (not mentioning that I had messaged her on pof). I suppose if we had a few girls each day messaging us for sex, it would be easy to miss out on the gems who were serious and worthwhile.
The only way I've had any success with either site (and it wasn't worth it) was to let them message me, send a few pics of myself so they know I didn't just a fake one I found online, and get slightly pushy. (Ie "so where are we going to meet for dinner?" rather than "do you think we can meet for dinner.") Also, however nice your compliment about her appearance might be, leave it out of your first few messages because it's gonna come off as desperate annoying BS rather than flattering. Be honest about yourself, if you're married then say it, if you're fat then say it, and point out if you don't smoke, drink, point out if you have a nice place to host and a vehicle, point out that you shower and brush your teeth before going out, point out that you have a good job and you're not a criminal or dropout. That stuff counts a lot more than a pic of your dick. You're just one ad in a catalog to them so make it count.
I had success once with a well-written craiglists ad and a good torso pic. I had to deal with replies from fake girls, and gay dudes, though. I think 12 worthless replies for one good one, and I think that one good one was a fluke.
AFF is total garbage. Sausagefest. It has a worse M to F ratio than POF, which they hide with tons of fake profiles. There are some escorts on there, which I imagine are the only ones you have a chance of ever meeting, and the price is likely the same. Flirts and emails from fake members are the norm. Real girls will ignore you unless they are brand new.
The underlying problem I believe is the ratio. I've been turned down by girls on these sites, that would approach me offline. In fact, I met a girl out in the real world, who ignored me on pof, and she was thrilled to go for a date when I asked her in person (not mentioning that I had messaged her on pof). I suppose if we had a few girls each day messaging us for sex, it would be easy to miss out on the gems who were serious and worthwhile.
The only way I've had any success with either site (and it wasn't worth it) was to let them message me, send a few pics of myself so they know I didn't just a fake one I found online, and get slightly pushy. (Ie "so where are we going to meet for dinner?" rather than "do you think we can meet for dinner.") Also, however nice your compliment about her appearance might be, leave it out of your first few messages because it's gonna come off as desperate annoying BS rather than flattering. Be honest about yourself, if you're married then say it, if you're fat then say it, and point out if you don't smoke, drink, point out if you have a nice place to host and a vehicle, point out that you shower and brush your teeth before going out, point out that you have a good job and you're not a criminal or dropout. That stuff counts a lot more than a pic of your dick. You're just one ad in a catalog to them so make it count.
I had success once with a well-written craiglists ad and a good torso pic. I had to deal with replies from fake girls, and gay dudes, though. I think 12 worthless replies for one good one, and I think that one good one was a fluke.
I have had good luck on both Ashley Madison and Established Men. It is a lot of work and it costs however. Jane is right, these are not sex sites although lots of people on them are looking for sex. It is a different thing completely as the women are looking for more than sex and lots are looking for a sugar daddy. A good SP is just looking to please you - and this is very good.
then there is okcupid, one of my friends found his significant other there ... relating to the thread, free sex, consistently performed.
I've also had luck on collarme. If you're not into fetish or at least tolerant of the lifestyle then do not participate. There are plenty of women subs to be had and then the occasional male who wants to clean my toilet lmao.
Campus Kiss is useless. No one seems to read the profile and they go straight to the insightful "wanna fuck?" PM.
POF I've found my best friend on, lover, good friends whom I've gone to cottages with, pet sitters, concert buddies, bar hags, enemies, fakes, MPA girls, and escorts. For it being free they sure change a lot of the settings frequently and dispose of emails rather quickly. I have a lot of long term connections from it I guess is what I'm trying to say lol.
and then the occasional male who wants to clean my toilet lmao.Campus Kiss is useless. No one seems to read the profile and they go straight to the insightful "wanna fuck?" PM.
POF I've found my best friend on, lover, good friends whom I've gone to cottages with, pet sitters, concert buddies, bar hags, enemies, fakes, MPA girls, and escorts. For it being free they sure change a lot of the settings frequently and dispose of emails rather quickly. I have a lot of long term connections from it I guess is what I'm trying to say lol.
