No, but she is a better shot.something tells me the missus is a strong left hand.
No, but she is a better shot.something tells me the missus is a strong left hand.
If you can't stand the queens english, it's not me who is the retard.I couldn't understand what you said so ran it through Google Translate (Auto-detected = Retard to English!) and here's what it came up with:
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I am pretty sure he can stand the Queen's English.If you can't stand the queens english, it's not me who is the retard.
I don't think I've ever said that in my life, but if that more you style, knock yourself out. When your mocking observations have glaring errors they kind of scream irrelevance. I just brought you up top date. Woodie tried the same flame sand did his usual face plant.I have no problem with the actual words, just their irrelevance to my casual mocking you for your lame
'looking in the wrong window...trying too hard" retort.
Just like this one, where we are communicating in "The Queen's English" yet the best insult you have is the equivilant of saying I have a poopy face...nah nah nah na!
My exwife was a Bait and Switch. And she upsold me on services at every opportunity. I felt little guilt about taking up the hobby. :wink:Interesting topic, I am very similar to the OP, minus the threesome with my wife. Really wish she would bring that up. Also I would love to find out she has a lover. If would make be feel better about visiting MP, SPs. ( I have given up on SPs for now.) I tell my self massages aren't cheating, but they are. I think it's more to do with variety than anything else. I don't think I have every visited a MP or SP that looks even close to my wife.
So I'm a happily married guy. Great girl, pretty, decent sex life (perhaps a little too "normal"). I love spending time with her. I have never had an affair, and have no interest in having one.
In my work life, I am honest, ethical and trust-worthy. In fact, in a survey my employer did recently, my clients all felt that they trusted me. My word is my bond. I'm kinda old-school that way. I do deals worth hundreds of thousands of dollars on a handshake. I'm a fucking Rotarian for Christ sake...
So why is that every week or two I'm off to the rub 'n tug or a SP or maybe even the VIP... I have no interest in quitting this hobby, but the only time I think about it is when I think about what it would do to the Missus if she found out. I don't think she would dump me, but she would be "crushed". I "stop" hobbying once in a while to prove I can do it, and as soon as I am satisfied that I can, I go back to it!
I don't imagine I'm alone in this...
So what's with us? Are we just wired to be horn-dogs? Are we missing something in our lives?
Do you tell your girlfriend and mother that you see hookers? Just curious...Do I wonder?....well,I am single,don't lie because I have reason to,and I don't cheat because I am not married or involved with someone.So,do I wonder.....FUCK NO.
What part of "not involved" didn't you understand?Why you brought my mother into it,I have no idea.Do you tell your girlfriend and mother that you see hookers? Just curious...
I find myself in the same boat now.I knew I could count on you guys to make me feel better. Incidentally avxl1003, I did share a girl with the Missus a year ago in Montreal. Amazing night. She loved it too, but says she won't do it again. (Ther'e's a review on Merb if you're curious) All freeked out (in hindsight) about STDs etc... Sigh.
Honesty might help. If you care for her and want to make the relationship work, let her know that you have those feelings but let her understand that an adventurous sex life is one of the many things that brought you together and you don't want to give it up.I don't know what's going to happen frankly, but I will not be able to give up an adventurous sex life for boredom. Not at my age and not given my history since I was however old.
Most men are wired to be horn dogs. We are not missing anything. It's hard for any one woman to satisfy us. And unfortunately women aging I believe has a lot of us looking for younger women. After they had kids and gained weight, we want to fuck the younger ones who still have the great body.So what's with us? Are we just wired to be horn-dogs? Are we missing something in our lives?
I have.Honesty might help. If you care for her and want to make the relationship work, let her know that you have those feelings but let her understand that an adventurous sex life is one of the many things that brought you together and you don't want to give it up.
So now you know.what I got was, "what you didn't know was that every time I never felt comfortable and I had to force myself" Oh good.
Maybe this is why we cum with two heads. The brain in the big one is honest and ethical... It's the little brain in the little head that's the problem. THAT's the one that make me/us lying, cheating bastards...hey OP, you can't say your are honest in anything or even old school when your main relationship is built around a lie. you are either honest or your not, there is no grey area.
Exactly correct.So now you know.
You shouldn't be ashamed of feeling pissed off. You fell for the girl 9in part) because she misled you about her true self. The real girl isn't who you thought she was and you miss the one you thought you were with.
I guess you now need to decide if her other qualities (assuming they are true) are worth giving up the sex life you enjoyed. Otherwise, it's time to move on.
Sorry for your loss.
Exactly correct.
You're absolutely correct when you said she lied to me. She protrayed herself as being something she's not. Maybe she thought that I could be tamed, or it was a passing whim on my part or she thought that she could be something she's really not. I don't know.
I don't get the impression she tricked him, perhaps she really was open to try new things. We all change, don't get angry with her for being true to herself unless she was actually doing this with the hopes of taming him.Lots of us find out that all that delicious kinky sex was just a temporary marketing gimmick never-to-be-repeated after we're in that position.
How can you read those words and not get the impression that Kirk was tricked, if not outright scammed?I have.
...I guess it was all a giant act. I asked her about her seeming to be quite into it and enjoying it and what I got was, "what you didn't know was that every time I never felt comfortable and I had to force myself" Oh good.