Well.. largely correct, but there are two women here you could be talking about when you say "girlfriend". The "immigrant girl", and the girl I have called my "girlfriend" on a variety of threads. The immigrant girl is equally in the dark and does not know that I am married. The "girlfriend" is completely aware of my situation and even knows about immigrant girl. I assume that "immigrant girl" is not dating other guys, although since we have not had any "what's our status" conversation she might well be. I am pretty sure that "girlfriend" is dating, although I think she's single now--our relationship is very much in "affair" territory, which it was for both of us when we started, and although she's left that guy now (I think) she still treats our relationship as an "affair", and I am sure she is either dating, or wants to be.You are happy having a wife who is oblivious and believes you when you convince her she is in a monogamous relationship with you, and a Girlfriend who apparently knows you are a married man, and you still find time and money to Hobby. Meanwhile you would leave your wife if she cheated on you, and I will assume you would do the same to your girlfriend if she cheated.
But you're largely correct, the details that I'm clarifying here don't really alter your point.
Why would I do that? This is an anonymous escort review board. Why wouldn't I be honest about what I think here? To pussy foot around and pretend that I think other choices are equally self actualizing would be political correctness in the extreme. I'm not one of those sappy people who thinks everybody is right.I just ask that you keep your belief that others want your lifestyle or that others need to be convinced they should attempt to attain a lifestyle like yours to yourself.
Sure in real life if we were having this conversation (we wouldn't be) I would pretend that other choices are equally valid just to be a good guy and easy to get along with. But on an anonymous internet forum? Why?
And this is a problem because....???The wife. Fuji is married. Regardless of the vows he took, whether it was to Love Honor and Obey, or to Love Honor and Respect/Cherish he is breaking his word/promise as a man and his promise to a woman/person, he apparently loved enough to marry.
And this is a problem because....???But on top of this he has decided to do it a second human being (his Girlfriend) as well.
"Proves" is a big word. It certainly proves that if you want to be my sexual partner that, if you actually knew all this, you ought not to trust me as a sexual partner, or else be another cheater like "girlfriend". I can't fathom why you would think that applies anywhere else in my life though--it doesn't. I am almost painfully honest in my dealings elsewhere, I'm one of those people with a strong sense of civic duty and fairness otherwise.In my opinion this proves he is someone who can not keep promises, lies, and can not be trusted.